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- Apr 13, 2016
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Been a while since I last posted but here goes:
Met a potential SB for lunch one day (unpaid) and it went really well. I've been on a good handful of first meetups with potentials but this particular SB was different than the others. This particular SB was truly down-to-earth, humble, not money hungry towards me and got the impression she could potentially be real GF material. I sensed that she is potentially looking for a life partner eventually but living in the now moment and see what happens later. What was clear up front between the both of us is that she needs financial assistance (duh) and that she is leaving Japan in months time. I could sense this SB is really into me and is now asking to come over to my place for some fun even though the exact financial numbers were not discussed. As she doesn't even know my real name (yet or if I ever will tell her) is it a wise decision to bring her back or keep a line between us somewhere? I feel like if we both get too emotionally involved together (which I feel it could lead to) it will complicate things because she is leaving Japan in the end.
Met a potential SB for lunch one day (unpaid) and it went really well. I've been on a good handful of first meetups with potentials but this particular SB was different than the others. This particular SB was truly down-to-earth, humble, not money hungry towards me and got the impression she could potentially be real GF material. I sensed that she is potentially looking for a life partner eventually but living in the now moment and see what happens later. What was clear up front between the both of us is that she needs financial assistance (duh) and that she is leaving Japan in months time. I could sense this SB is really into me and is now asking to come over to my place for some fun even though the exact financial numbers were not discussed. As she doesn't even know my real name (yet or if I ever will tell her) is it a wise decision to bring her back or keep a line between us somewhere? I feel like if we both get too emotionally involved together (which I feel it could lead to) it will complicate things because she is leaving Japan in the end.