Brand New, with a question

[nebulogus]

Hello everyone I’ll be traveling to Tokyo this coming March. I’ve been doing a lot of reading of Soapland reviews in anticipation.
This will be my first time venturing into this kind of thing and there is a question I can’t seem to find the answer to here in the forums.

I’ve read reviews and looked at videos of Soaplands and the whole matplay experience doesn’t really interest me. I’m mainly concerned with penetration but still would like a good experience beyond just sticking it in. I like the idea of escorts for the cheaper price but I’d need to be guaranteed to fuck. Are there any escort places or sites I can find escorts that offer guaranteed penetration? If not I’ll just stick to Soaps.

 

[TAG Manager]

Are there any escort places or sites I can find escorts that offer guaranteed penetration?

Soaplands or Independents. The end.

 

[Sudsy]

Are there any escort places or sites I can find escorts that offer guaranteed penetration?

Your local state legislature has plenty of politicians and bureaucrats that would be happy to screw you. No need to travel!

 

[Cinnabums]

I’ve read reviews and looked at videos of Soaplands and the whole matplay experience doesn’t really interest me.

You can opt out of matplay and only have bed fun!

 

[Sudsy]

You can opt out of matplay and only have bed fun!

Or use matplay as foreplay before bed play!

 

[qcryp]

the whole matplay experience doesn’t really interest me

Damn I cannot comprehend this, having a naked girl sliding all over you doesn't interest you? Anyways yea like the other guys say just ask to forego the mat play if you really want to.

Also mat play is nice especially if there is a language barrier. Nothing much needs to be said while on the mat, just relax and let her work. Whereas in the bed its a little more awkward if you aren't chatting a bit. Just my perspective, and one of the reasons I like mat play since my Japanese is mediocre at best.

 

[Sudsy]

Damn I cannot comprehend this, having a naked girl sliding all over you doesn't interest you?

To be fair, only two girls have EVER gotten me off with mat play, and only one of them was able to do it repeatedly. But it's never failed to get the engines humming!

 

[Airnest]

Soaplands or Independents. The end.

Soaplands, independents and Shinchis (If you travel to Osaka). Those are your only options for FS.

 

[Airnest]

Damn I cannot comprehend this, having a naked girl sliding all over you doesn't interest you? Anyways yea like the other guys say just ask to forego the mat play if you really want to.

Also mat play is nice especially if there is a language barrier. Nothing much needs to be said while on the mat, just relax and let her work. Whereas in the bed its a little more awkward if you aren't chatting a bit. Just my perspective, and one of the reasons I like mat play since my Japanese is mediocre at best.

IMO, matplay is overrated. It’s good and recommended to experience it once or twice in your life. But like OP, my reason to go to soaplands is for the sure FS. Make sure you get FS, getting only handjobs from soaps is beyond stupid and a waste of money. 😉. IYKYK

 

[MikeH]

IMO, matplay is overrated.

Matplay is THE reason to go to soapland. But I never thought the idea of it was to nut. It's just great foreplay.

If I want just FS then I go somewhere else.

 

[SealedTears]

Damn I cannot comprehend this, having a naked girl sliding all over you doesn't interest you? Anyways yea like the other guys say just ask to forego the mat play if you really want to.

Also mat play is nice especially if there is a language barrier. Nothing much needs to be said while on the mat, just relax and let her work. Whereas in the bed its a little more awkward if you aren't chatting a bit. Just my perspective, and one of the reasons I like mat play since my Japanese is mediocre at best.

Mat requires the guy to stay still and there's times where the girl wants him to flip over. That's not as easy to communicate compared to pushing a guy away if he tries to force a kiss

 

[Airnest]

Matplay is THE reason to go to soapland. But I never thought the idea of it was to nut. It's just great foreplay.

If I want just FS then I go somewhere else.

There’s mat health as well. Not every girl does matplay at soaps while I imagine that matplay is done by all girls at mat health. Newbies also don’t know where to look for FS elsewhere like vets. For them their only other options are AM and indies.

 

[Crusade]

IMO, matplay is overrated. It’s good and recommended to experience it once or twice in your life. But like OP, my reason to go to soaplands is for the sure FS. Make sure you get FS, getting only handjobs from soaps is beyond stupid and a waste of money. 😉. IYKYK

I think it is overrated too, only ririsu ayaka managed to make me nut on the mat those many years ago, no one else has suceeded

 

[Danbo]

IMO, matplay is overrated. It’s good and recommended to experience it once or twice in your life. But like OP, my reason to go to soaplands is for the sure FS. Make sure you get FS, getting only handjobs from soaps is beyond stupid and a waste of money. 😉. IYKYK

I am with you on this one. I think it's just a matter of preference. Of course it is the USP of soaplands, but everybody enjoys different aspects of the experience.

Being on the passive side and having slimey stuff all over me is also not my cup of tea. It's fun to experience once but you can have a lot more fun on the bed.

 

[DragonSlayer]

I must be missing something... don't the girls ride/jerk/blow the shit out of your dick on the mat at some point? What's that about having problems to nut vs. bed play?

 

[qcryp]

I must be missing something... don't the girls ride/jerk/blow the shit out of your dick on the mat at some point? What's that about having problems to nut vs. bed play?

The focus isn't totally on finishing I never got the impression that was the point. I just enjoy the mat play as a warm up before FS. I never finish on the mat unless the FS happens there, which I just ask to move to the bed instead most of the time.

 

[Sudsy]

I must be missing something... don't the girls ride/jerk/blow the shit out of your dick on the mat at some point? What's that about having problems to nut vs. bed play?

I find it distracting. Not in a bad way, but it keeps me from quite getting there.

 

[rd1023]

I must be missing something... don't the girls ride/jerk/blow the shit out of your dick on the mat at some point? What's that about having problems to nut vs. bed play?

For me, all of the lotion makes it harder to feel much sensation. Also, since it's slippery it's uncomfortable and there's not much traction. I agree the bed is better for FS but I still like the sensation of Mat-Play.

 

[Kevt]

I like the idea of escorts for the cheaper price but I’d need to be guaranteed to fuck. Are there any escort places or sites I can find escorts that offer guaranteed penetration? If not I’ll just stick to Soaps.

If price and FS is your concern, then I find SL cheapest for FS already.
Sure there are expensive SLs as well as expensive escorts, and you can't compare say an expensive SL and expect the same at a cheap agency.

I also think SLs are less likely to find the maguro type woman that just lies there. The providers that do matt play have to do all the work and can't just lie there.

I personally don't generally like SLs since the focus is primarily all about sex and FS. I don't like feeling it's a routine, but that's just me.

 

[SealedTears]

I must be missing something... don't the girls ride/jerk/blow the shit out of your dick on the mat at some point? What's that about having problems to nut vs. bed play?

And somehow blowjobs and handjobs on the bed aren't distracting for these anti-matplay people

 

[Airnest]

I don’t think anyone here anti-matplay. Saying matplay is overrated or that preferring bed play over matplay equals anti-matplay. People have already mentioned different reasons for skipping or opting out of matplay.

And somehow blowjobs and handjobs on the bed aren't distracting for these anti-matplay people

 

[DragonSlayer]

And somehow blowjobs and handjobs on the bed aren't distracting for these anti-matplay people

I don't judge, that's just personal taste and the obvious difference is the mat is more passive for the monger than the bed, combine that with the fact that not everyone is into 120 minute sessions and some have trouble shooting once if at all, it's understandable that bed is a priority for them.

I just thought it was weird that people were claiming it's easier to shoot in the bed vs. mat but I get it now. Kind of.

 

[MikeH]

I just thought it was weird that people were claiming it's easier to shoot in the bed vs. mat but I get it now. Kind of.

If your main method of coming is thrusting vigorously while screaming Kreegah bundolo then mat is not good for that as it's too slippery.

 

[Sudsy]

while screaming Kreegah bundolo

You misspelled "Klaatu Verata N... Necktie? Nectar! Nickel? Noodle... it's definitely an N word...."