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This is a very long-winded tale, and has made me feel awful as I've never left a client on bad terms before.
I sent a client the address of where we were to meet the day before our date. I sent it in both English and Japanese.
We had arranged to meet at 5:30pm.
He messaged around lunchtime and asked if we could make it 5:00pm. I agreed.
He drove to the wrong hotel. (Same franchise, different area). Then he turned around and began to drive home. I had been in constant contact with him and told him it was still fine to come to our date, even though he was late. I was waiting downstairs for him. He made a phone call to try and re-arrange his schedule, but couldn't.
Therefore, he didn't come to our date after all.
I burst into tears. It had been a long day for me. I had been lost, I was freezing cold and he was my only client in the area that I had travelled to. (Although, he didn't know this at the time). I went back to the room.
He said that if money was my issue, then he could drop in briefly and give me the booking amount. I explained that I had mascara running down my face and would appreciate it if he could drop the fee at front Reception in an envelope. I gave him my name and room number.
Things went rapidly downhill from there. He didn't drop off the booking fee. He also didn't believe that I was crying. I tried to appeal to his human side by explaining that I had been excited to meet him, especially as we had things in common. Eventually I told him that he was my sole client. If he had have kept his booking, I would have broken even, instead of being out of pocket. I also told him that if I was any other escort, his details could have been all over social media as a TW. He took this as a threat, which it really wasn't.
I regret getting emotional. I regret telling him how upset I was. I did try to reach out to him this morning to ask if he would sit down and have a cup of coffee with me. However, I suspect that he may have blocked me on LINE, as he hasn't responded. I would still like to do that though, especially now that I am calmer. I have never, ever left a client on bad terms before, and to do so has made me feel really sad.
My questions are thus:
1. Was I justified in getting upset?
2. Should he have paid the booking fee?
All and any advice is welcome. I never want to go through this again. And if said client is reading this, I would really like to talk to him. My feeling is that life is too short to go around making enemies.
I sent a client the address of where we were to meet the day before our date. I sent it in both English and Japanese.
We had arranged to meet at 5:30pm.
He messaged around lunchtime and asked if we could make it 5:00pm. I agreed.
He drove to the wrong hotel. (Same franchise, different area). Then he turned around and began to drive home. I had been in constant contact with him and told him it was still fine to come to our date, even though he was late. I was waiting downstairs for him. He made a phone call to try and re-arrange his schedule, but couldn't.
Therefore, he didn't come to our date after all.
I burst into tears. It had been a long day for me. I had been lost, I was freezing cold and he was my only client in the area that I had travelled to. (Although, he didn't know this at the time). I went back to the room.
He said that if money was my issue, then he could drop in briefly and give me the booking amount. I explained that I had mascara running down my face and would appreciate it if he could drop the fee at front Reception in an envelope. I gave him my name and room number.
Things went rapidly downhill from there. He didn't drop off the booking fee. He also didn't believe that I was crying. I tried to appeal to his human side by explaining that I had been excited to meet him, especially as we had things in common. Eventually I told him that he was my sole client. If he had have kept his booking, I would have broken even, instead of being out of pocket. I also told him that if I was any other escort, his details could have been all over social media as a TW. He took this as a threat, which it really wasn't.
I regret getting emotional. I regret telling him how upset I was. I did try to reach out to him this morning to ask if he would sit down and have a cup of coffee with me. However, I suspect that he may have blocked me on LINE, as he hasn't responded. I would still like to do that though, especially now that I am calmer. I have never, ever left a client on bad terms before, and to do so has made me feel really sad.
My questions are thus:
1. Was I justified in getting upset?
2. Should he have paid the booking fee?
All and any advice is welcome. I never want to go through this again. And if said client is reading this, I would really like to talk to him. My feeling is that life is too short to go around making enemies.