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I don't know if this topic has been covered on TAG but what is the protocol regarding accidentally 'crossing swords' with swinger pals.

Also do PUA have a 'crossing swords' protocol when they have gangbangs with other PUA?

All input welcome.
 
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MossBoss said:
I don't know if this topic has been covered on TAG but what is the protocol regarding accidentally 'crossing swords' with swinger pals.

Also do PUA have a 'crossing swords' protocol when they have gangbangs with other PUA?

All input welcome.
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This isn't a PUA/Nampa thread. Looks more like trolling. Clearly, not every PUA is a swinger.

Furthermore, the question could only be asked by someone with limited sexual experience and it looks extremely homophobic. It's like asking-

"If a guy had sex with a woman, that had sex with another man before, does that mean both the guys are gay for having had sex with her?"

Logic- If they are having sex with a woman, why would that make them gay?

"If you are on a football team, and in the shower room with other guys, does that make them gay?"

Logic- If you are not gay, why spend so much time worrying about such things?

Such questions shows the person asking may have unresolved issues about their sexual orientation or are highly limited in sexual experience.

Lastly, women have 2 sides. If guys are that worried when sharing a woman. 1 guy takes the mouth/front, the other does her doggy style/back. Question answered.
 
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Lastly, women have 2 sides. If guys are that worried when sharing a woman. 1 guy takes the mouth/front, the other does her doggy style/back. Question answered.
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I have zero interest in the "swinger world" but this thread caught my eye. What if you're like bi-curious but not sure.....just thinking......don't guys in the "gay" world have 2 sides also? If you can't make up up your mind......could you put say....like....a wig on......I mean.....I'm really straight so......just asking.....since it's all input welcome......
 
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Hit a raw nerve Solong? And don't start calling me a troll. I'm one of the few left on TAG who doesn't question the value of your racist women hating rants.
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Looks female to me. No nerve to hit that way. Don't hate women, and not a racist.

Just seemed like an odd thread to make.


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just4fun said:
I have zero interest in the "swinger world" but this thread caught my eye. What if you're like bi-curious but not sure.....just thinking......don't guys in the "gay" world have 2 sides also? If you can't make up up your mind......could you put say....like....a wig on......I mean.....I'm really straight so......just asking.....since it's all input welcome......
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Gay guys or openly bi-sexual men don't go to swinger clubs or if they do, hide it. Most swinger clubs would kick out openly gay men.

The only "loop hole" are transsexuals. Even in that case, they have their own clubs or are usually in gay circles and rarely ever come to swinger clubs. Couple Kissas will not allow gay, openly bi-sexual, or obvious transsexual men to enter. Happening bars, depending on which bar, may allow transsexuals. This appears to be up to the discretion of the manager.

The issue is it can affect their customer base, where heterosexual men can react violently or heterosexual couples choosing not to come.

Gays have their own clubs. Furthermore, they don't need swinger clubs because usually they would be already sexually uninhibited or comparatively less inhibited. So any club/bar is arguably a swinger club for them.

Swinger clubs are arguably a reflection of heterosexual sexual repression through traditionalism, religion, shaming of female sexuality, etc... Consequently, they are "special" places where less repressed heterosexuals can go.
 
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Solong said:
Gay guys or openly bi-sexual men don't go to swinger clubs or if they do, hide it. Most swinger clubs would kick out openly gay men.
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I happened to be at 9259 during its 5th (I think it was 5th) anniversary event by chance (went on spur of the moment impulse with my date not knowing it was a special event night). The place was absolutely jammed; the biggest and highest density crowd I've ever seen at an HB and also the most action in progress all over the place...an awesome orgy.

Anyway, that night there were at least two male couples having oral sex in the main (lounge) room. It is the only time I've seen significant male homosexual acts in an HB though; I have seen guys kissing each other on the lips a few other times (no DFK though)...all of them at 9259 I believe.

It was my date's first time ever in an HB, and as you may imagine, it made quite an impression on her...not the gay sex particularly but the whole over-the-top scene.

While my date and some other guy and I were getting it on in one of the (very crowded) playrooms, I did hear some guy screaming "Broken Arrow! Broken Arrow!" from another room. :D

-Ww
 
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Solong said:
The only "loop hole" are transsexuals. Even in that case, they have their own clubs or are usually in gay circles and rarely ever come to swinger clubs. Couple Kissas will not allow gay, openly bi-sexual, or obvious transsexual men to enter.

I wish I was better at computers......Now, in my heyday I used to be able to portray a flagrant homosexual (just for laughs when it was politically correct) so why wouldn't someone who's bi curious (and as we all know, many guy people that were still in the closet) could portray themselves as being straight.
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I happened to be at 9259 during its 5th (I think it was 5th) anniversary event by chance (went on spur of the moment impulse with my date not knowing it was a special event night). The place was absolutely jammed; the biggest and highest density crowd I've ever seen at an HB and also the most action in progress all over the place...an awesome orgy.

Anyway, that night there were at least two male couples having oral sex in the main (lounge) room. It is the only time I've seen significant male homosexual acts in an HB though; I have seen guys kissing each other on the lips a few other times (no DFK though)...all of them at 9259 I believe.

It was my date's first time ever in an HB, and as you may imagine, it made quite an impression on her...not the gay sex particularly but the whole over-the-top scene.

While my date and some other guy and I were getting it on in one of the (very crowded) playrooms, I did hear some guy screaming "Broken Arrow! Broken Arrow!" from another room. :D

-Ww
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9259, Beauty And The Beast (old club now closed), and Sleeping Beauty (Shibuya) have a bit of history. I believe they had the same owner years ago, and have been known to be a bit on the far side or "different".

Beauty And The Beast and Sleeping Beauty would do wild stuff like have a female staff stick a dildo or gloved fingers up some partially terrified random Japanese salary man's butt hole. It was like some very weird club game that they played for a while.

Ownership appeared to change, and Sleeping Beauty in Shibuya became way more subdued.

9259 will sometimes have some very eye brow raising events. Took a date there, and it was some odd S&M gay simulation play event, with Japanese guys wearing female lingerie. Lucky it didn't last too long, because it was not the image my date was expecting. She was looking at me all crazy eyed. It was a show and they didn't actually do anything, but were very borderline. But in that respect, they have all kinds of shows, with all kinds of themes.

It depends on the owners and managers, and what they will allow. However, such gay play is rare. Of all the times I've been to 9259, outside of that strange event/show, never seen anything. And as you have seen, the play is overwhelmingly heterosexual.
 
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Beauty And The Beast and Sleeping Beauty would do wild stuff like have a female staff stick a dildo or gloved fingers up some Japanese salary man's butt hole. It was like some weird club game that they played for a while.
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Sounds like X-rated kancho. :D

Slightly off-topic Edit: I see a lot of crossing swords in J-Porn- in the 3-some scenes, the standard "W-fera" scenes maybe a third of the time have the girl rubbing the two guys' dicks together.
 
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Solong said:
the play is overwhelmingly heterosexual.
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Yeah, *very* little MM action (in my experience only that once described above) and dominated by MF action, but I have also seen a moderate amount of FF sex in mixed (M and F) groups playing together in the 3-some 0r more-some playrooms.

One memorable example for me was when my date and I joined two other MF couples (one of whom we knew and arrived with) in the group playroom at Sleeping Beauty. For some reason we ended up systematically going through every possible 2-some and 3-some possibility and a few 4-some permutations EXCEPT those that would have involved MM action. The women all did each other (orally) in the process. But no one even mentioned MM possibilities or made any move in such a direction; we all basically maneuvered around and ignored MM as though it were an unmentionable taboo. The one exception was that on a dare from my date I slapped one of the other guys on the ass while he was busily pumping away (mish-position) on one of the women; it got a laugh from everyone as I recall, but it clearly wasn't serious.

-Ww
 
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Looks like the right hand could be pulling C&B forward and glued a steel wool pad there :p
 
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TokyoJoeblow said:
Could her bush be any more hairy....good lord. She should shave that shit.
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LOL! Some of them like growing a wild bush down there, and some clean shaven. To be wild untamed bush, can be she feels pressure if in public onsens or her husband/boyfriend have this type of fetish/preference.

In her case, she was living with her boyfriend, and seeing me on the side. If they are married or have boyfriends, and seeing me on the side, can't make them shave. [emoji23]

However, if I'm their main guy and they come into our relationship with wild bush, then I shave them.

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(Shaved is mine, licking is a swinger pal's lady)
 
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Meh.. do it if you want to, don't if you don't.

I personally don't really like penises besides my own and don't participate in situations with more guys than girls.
 
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Wwanderer said:
Wow! And here all this time I thought you were a guy! [emoji14]

-Ww
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Oy vey! As in the shaved woman is my lady, and the lady licking was with a swinger pal of mine. Sorry to kill any weird fantasies of me as a bi-sexual woman. [emoji12] Just a dude that likes to date such women.
 
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I've seen worse on many gentlemen.
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I'm sure you have, but Japanese women have that thick black hair and it just looks longer since it is straight.

I keep shaved clean everyday, but that is just me.
 
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