Curious about FS? And also . . .

[hawaiianhawk]

We here all know that FS is illegal but still performed by soaplands and independents.

Curious how often or what percentage of the time FS is performed in foreign friendly only establishments. I've been fortunate that I have been able to afford to partake in such companies with different results. I have never insinuated that I wanted FS, but on occasion they just hop on. Being a foreigner, I could not be disrespectful or impolite since Japan is such a polite society, LOL so just go with the flow. Does it depend on the chemistry between the 2 people? Does it depend on the woman? Or, is it expected to be performed 100% of the time, but just not talked about and I missed out on the opportunity?

Secondly, some may call me a fool because I'm paying for the service, but for me it's more about giving the woman pleasure than me being pleasured. Therefore, curious about 2 things. First, are Japanese women always so tight? I love performing oral and fingering as foreplay, but can barely get a finger inside them (no I don't have large hands or fat fingers), two fingers feel like I'm stretching them out. And secondly, do Japanese women not enjoy fingering? I love hitting women's g - spots (yes, I know where it is) and driving them crazy, but with Japanese women I seem to not get much of a response? They love oral, but fingering doesn't seem to do anything for them like it did for my girlfriends in Hawaii who went into overdrive.

Perhaps the beautiful women of TAG could respond so that I could perfect my lovemaking abilities when I'm in Japan: Hana, Rikako, Anna, etc help me out here!!!

 

[User#6517]

Soaplands, agency escorts, and independent escorts usually provide FS. Maybe 90-100% of the time, based on reviews. I think soaplands charge their clients a bathing fee to get away with FS, and we escorts charge clients for our time, not for specific sexual acts.

Just like penis size, there’s no relation between race and genital dimensions. However, Asian/Japanese women in general do have shorter vaginas, not necessarily tighter.

I personally do not like fingering or JAV techniques, but it really depends on the woman’s likes/dislikes in bed. Everyone is different.

 

[User#8628]

Foreigner friendly services?
It depends on the shop...
[Redacted] discourages their girls from providing it.
With Asian Mystique and Nasty Dolls, it should be provided by default.

If a girl feels tight, i'd just stick with one finger, dont force things.

 

[MikeH]

I personally do not like fingering or JAV techniques, but it really depends on the woman’s likes/dislikes in bed. Everyone is different.

The girls I have had the privilege of including in my research of All Things Orgastic to be published as my doctoral thesis have mostly told they prefer no fingers inside.

Ask them how they masturbate, that will give you hints. Most of my studies have implicated they do not insert anything when alone but prefer just the magic touch on the outer parts.

But as said also by @MissInsomnia everyone is different and my studies, yet, don't have enough data points so the adventure continues.

 

[User#8628]

the magic touch on the outer parts.

A magic wand on the outer parts can also be nice when masturbating.

 

[hawaiianhawk]

Thanks for the replies.

Alice - Yes, from the times I have gotten no response to fingering I stop immediately. If the woman is not receiving pleasure from the act no sense in continuing.

Mike - I find your study interesting (are these women all in Japan or of Japanese ethnicity?). Reason I fingered the Japanese women I have met here was that the 3 women total that I've ever been with thoroughly enjoyed it experiencing multiple orgasms repeatedly. Could it be a culture/ethnicity issue? Much like it appears that Japanese women are not fond of anal sex, but anal sex seems readily enjoyable/acceptable here in the U.S.

And Hana, thanks for your response as well. Reason I asked about Japanese women and their tightness was because the women I've been with in Japan have been tight and from my experience with former girlfriends in Hawaii they get tight when they haven't had sex for awhile. If we fool around all the time (3x/day) my girlfriends accommodate me easily from initial penetration, but if there is a lull in relations, I have to take things slow and easy first. Foolish me thought I might be getting special treatment from these providers, LOL since they were so tight. Maybe its the omiyage from Hawaii that I provide to them before I even know if the service will be good or bad.

 

[Bob]

hawaiianhawk, Howzit.

Local boy here from Oahu. We are spolied when it comes to what we get from girls in the states for f/s and other activities. I enjoy the digital fingering as well. But, I've found that girls in Japan (Nihongo) are not really into that stuff unless you find one that has hobbied in the states which allows fiv, 2fiv and fia, 2fia is common.
Especially, the girls at aamps on King St or Keeaumoko St. which allow that. Not all but I can always find one that is willing to allow.

 

[MikeH]

Mike - I find your study interesting (are these women all in Japan or of Japanese ethnicity?). Reason I fingered the Japanese women I have met here was that the 3 women total that I've ever been with thoroughly enjoyed it experiencing multiple orgasms repeatedly. Could it be a culture/ethnicity issue? Much like it appears that Japanese women are not fond of anal sex, but anal sex seems readily enjoyable/acceptable here in the U.S.

Most of them Japanese, minority other Asian countries. You are welcomed to write a research paper about European/USA girls and we can then compare notes, my research is focused on Japan.

And I agree about the anal; in Europe it is now pretty common but unfortunately not here in Japan. But for us stuck in this side of the planet there is always Thailand.

 

[AMcguyver]

Great to see more members from here in Hawaii participating in the TAG community.

 

[jhingy567]

Does it depend on the chemistry between the 2 people? Does it depend on the woman?

Yeah, i had such good chemistry with the girl I saw at soapland...she really must've fallen for me - grabbing a condom from under a bed and hopping on without me asking for it.
But seriously, I suspect a lot of places that are officially no FS will cross boundaries if the girl likes you.... Or if you dangle a carrot ($) .

The girls I have had the privilege of including in my research of All Things Orgastic to be published as my doctoral thesis have mostly told they prefer no fingers inside.

That's what I thought too - and glad it's corroborated by some authoritative literature.
I've only put fingers inside for my own amusement and to feel the nice sensations.
A girl once told me the vagina is nothing special - it's just an orifice/fold like an armpit. Now imagine fingering an armpit Lol.

 

[jiraiyajiraiya]

That's what I thought too - and glad it's corroborated by some authoritative literature.
I've only put fingers inside for my own amusement and to feel the nice sensations.
A girl once told me the vagina is nothing special - it's just an orifice/fold like an armpit. Now imagine fingering an armpit Lol.

I don't know. I have an asshole and I feel my asshole is more special than my armpits. Don't wanna finger in my asshole, but I guess in the heat of the moment I'll allow certain ladies to put finger(s) in my asshole.

 

[MikeH]

I don't know. I have an asshole and I feel my asshole is more special than my armpits.

Well, I have not heard anyone having a prostate in their armpits yet, but you never know! What the girl probably meant is the delicate lady parts are pretty much located in the opening and you don't really need to insert anything to reach them. That is also the reason for the popularity of the Hitachi massaging wand. For your back muscles only, of course.

Of course even then a lady or a gentleman, we are not discriminating here, might like the other sensations inside. Like hitting the bottom and the fullness, so it's again not that black and white but all the colours of rainbow (pun so much intended it hurts).

 

[Frenchy]

I don't know. I have an asshole and I feel my asshole is more special than my armpits. Don't wanna finger in my asshole, but I guess in the heat of the moment I'll allow certain ladies to put finger(s) in my asshole.

You should try , it feels great!
Our G-spot equivalent is near the prostate
But needless to say thorough cleaning first and better for them to have a condom on the finger

 

[User#8628]

And I agree about the anal; in Europe it is now pretty common but unfortunately not here in Japan. But for us stuck in this side of the planet there is always Thailand.

I'm really pleased this way of torture never got popular here, even though the law allows it over regular sex in p4p.

 

[wraithfive]

I'm really pleased this way of torture never got popular here, even though the law allows it over regular sex in p4p.

I admit to still being surprised that it's not more popular and available in Japan with how the law was written on P4P there.

 

[MikeH]

I'm really pleased this way of torture never got popular here, even though the law allows it over regular sex in p4p.

It is pretty popular in p4p in Japan, just not in recreational sex. And as with any other type of play everyone should only do things they like.