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I suspected services like this existed, but never really looked into it until now. I first learned about it from a Japanese female comedian on TV and YT who isn't very funny or good looking, so her only weapon is to talk about her sex life. Well, she's went on record that she frequently uses the services of male providers and it's basically similar to what men get when they hire female providers. I'm suspecting that more often than not FS is not on the menu.

<One such agency>

https://mantendo-tokyo.com/cast.php

Has any lady out there actually used these services and care to give us some details?
 
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There are a couple of female-only deri.
Night venus is more like a regular deri that also offers lesbian optional service to female client.
Ledy to ledy (isn’t it supposed to be lady to lady? But anyway) also have nice girls with good service. Their pictures don’t look professional at all but the actual ladies are much more attractive than photo.

Other options are Yuri shinjuku, lesbian Tokyo and white lily. I am interested in “Hajimete no les” but unfortunately, all the girls look too young or too slim or both for my taste.
 
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Wait, I just realized that you were talking about male escort service for ladies, not female escort for female.
Sorry I didn’t open the link till now.

I had checked a couple of male escort clubs before but nobody really has attracted me so far.
I want to meet some normal looking guys around my age but all listed guys are either host-looking or young, cute boy type.
To be honest, I am not really looking for sexual intimate date in male escort service.
The websites mention no full service but yeah sure, I am totally fine with that.
 
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I wanna try both male and female deli for the novelty, but i’ve never gotten to it.
With the men i’m scared it will be a total bait and switch and that the guy will be in the job to get sex (which isn’t bad per se) so that he will be very pushy while i might not be super interested depending on his looks.
I heard that some of those “delivery host” websites charge guys to post an advertisement there and thats how the sites make their money, they don’t care if they guys get bookings or not and maybe make most of guys who think getting laid would be a dream job. I figure not all agencies are like that but at least some are.

For women, idk, i’m simply nervous to call as a foreigner and worried they will misunderstand me on the phone.. i actually don’t like phone calls so a brothel that takes women would be a lower barrier for me.
 
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> very pushy while i might not be super interested depending on his looks.

This is Japan. I would be surprised if the service was not professional.

Besides, those are young, good looking guys. I guess that they have easier ways to get laid.
 
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> very pushy while i might not be super interested depending on his looks.

This is Japan. I would be surprised if the service was not professional.

Besides, those are young, good looking guys. I guess that they have easier ways to get laid.
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Like i said, most certainly there is some photoshop going on.
Guys on dating websites in Japan also look very different than their pictures. Different haircolor, no clear skin, everything.

And yes, guys can be god damn pushy even “professionals”. Been to host clubs and i’ve rarely found their attitude good at all (VERY pushy and full of upsell) and they look very different from their website pictures but with the in person selection system that doesn’t really matter.
 
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what are the top 4 or 5 things you look for in a male deriheru beside good look/body?
 
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I think many men have felt the same thing with the providers they hire.
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Definitely! I don’t know if i could do p4p as a man because of all the weird surprises (but as a bisexual girl i have to say that i find women of all ages, shapes and sizes to be easier on the eye than men somehow. I actually prefer dating men but somehow women are nicer to look at on average). I’m actually surprised how hard it is to find any in person selection shops in Japan, that would definitely be a strong preference for me as a client. I wouldn’t mind booking someone in advance as a repeat of if they are very well reviewed and it says they look like their pictures but i could not just walk in somewhere and pick a random girl from a photoshopped picture.
 
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what are the top 4 or 5 things you look for in a male deriheru beside good look/body?
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Hmm, good question. As for me, the things that come to mind now:
1. Charming, makes me feel like a princess. Knows how to compliment a girl, kind of sweet talker but hey, i wanna be swept away if i’m paying (or even if i’m not as a matter of fact but in this case i’ll have it a bit more cheesy and fake). Rather than being funny or interesting the most important talking skill would be that of a Don Juan, knowing how to flatter a woman and make her feel special.

2. Good magic touch skills. I’d like a good massage, especially if he doesn’t look as i hoped for. I’m i’m lonely i want someone who is nice to cuddle and to hold. Those are more important than sex technique. But a guy who knows his oral is attractive as well (i’ve met a host who claimed he never does oral, unbelievably selfish considering the money they receive).

3. Relaxed personality. I don’t mind paying or if there would be extra money needed for extra services or whatever but not someone who constantly needs more and more money than agreed on please.

4. Cute background story. Something like “poor guy from fukushima”, “misunderstood school dropout”, “taking care of his parents”, but not using that story as a scam to get a huge amound of money, just as some kind of explanation of how they got into this. It doesn’t all have to be depressing and desperate, a host told me he used to be hikkomori and that becoming host helped him make friends and get out of his shell and i think that’s inspiring. Overall, i like an underdog who can overcome his trouble at his own strength and asks nothing more of me than supporting him as much as i choose from myself. (Never expected, always appreciated.)

Basically someone who comes off as a smooth person at first but then also shows a bit of a vulnerable side if that makes sense. But i’m wary of things like this. If i p4p i wanna do so by my own choice and not through eigyo and pushing and scams which non delivery host culture seems all about (if i sound like i go a lot, no I don’t and i’m responsible with my money, not a host crazy girl by any means).
 
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Going little aside, it would be fun, if there is a brave, executive caucasian guy have indipendent escort service as for his discrete side business here in Tokyo. I like office management expat guys, they are same want exciting sex from time to time, they don't want to stick with their family only, if a guy is very confident by their clean, handsome, well groomed , nice muscley musculine body, hot looks, I wouldn't mind paying for his service.

Many women out there, don't have enough of stimulating events. Why not.
 
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Personally men’s appearance is not a big factor for me even at paid service. Just don’t be twenty-something.
I am not into cute face or musculine body anyway. Someone in their early 40’s to late 40’s, normal face, medium built, short hair; long hair on men is not my thing in general, medium height, in other words, ordinary looking men you see on the street everyday.

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1-5. Good conversational skill. They have to be cheerful enough to entertain me but not airhead that only can say “きれい” and “すごい”
They have to be a native Japanese speakers so that we can have deep conversation from politics to pet, what was popular while we were both kid.
 
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I’d want a guy end 20s or early 30s to show up. I’d like someone with original hair and fashion because its easy enough to meet regular looking guys for dates or sex, so i want someone who stands out from the masses.
 
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If I was to hire a male escort, it would be with someone between 30-50 years old. I would prefer a man with dark hair, medium built, no facial hair, and a traditional masculine look (meaning no one that looks extremely young or too feminine/metrosexual). He would have to be a gentleman, genuine, a good conversationalist and well versed on various topics. I wouldn’t necessarily need him to shower me with compliments or even make me feel “special” but rather keep me intrigued and interested through his humor and intellect.

On a side note, the show Gigolos on showtime is worth checking out if you are in the mood for some mindless entertainment. It’s a reality show that follows five male escorts based out of Las Vegas. It follows each escort as they try to balance personal relationships, friends and family with the demands of their female clientele.
 
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User#8628 said:
I don’t know if i could do p4p as a man because of all the weird surprises
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We have had our fair share of weird and awkward surprise encounters and if I wasn’t doing p4p with my husband, I don’t think I would be partaking in it either. It definitely eases our nerves knowing that we are doing this as a team.

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(but as a bisexual girl i have to say that i find women of all ages, shapes and sizes to be easier on the eye than men somehow. I actually prefer dating men but somehow women are nicer to look at on average).
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I very much agree with this!
 
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So...”mid-40s, bald, boring salaryman, low confidence, socially awkward white guy” is basically what all the ladies are saying? Excellent!
Feel free to PM thanks.
 
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RIDER 00 said:
I suspected services like this existed, but never really looked into it until now. I first learned about it from a Japanese female comedian on TV and YT who isn't very funny or good looking, so her only weapon is to talk about her sex life. Well, she's went on record that she frequently uses the services of male providers and it's basically similar to what men get when they hire female providers. I'm suspecting that more often than not FS is not on the menu.

<One such agency>

https://mantendo-tokyo.com/cast.php

Has any lady out there actually used these services and care to give us some details?
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I am not quite sure, but I believe this store is suitable for a girl to "play" with another girl.

http://harlem69.com/system/

Normally this store specializes in 3P, 4P and 5P services. But there is an option that says: Lesbian course or single course. It says one customer and a girl (doesn't reply whether the customer should be a female or male customer) and as it says "Lesbian Course" I guess it's OK for a woman to use this service.
 
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great, now that we have Maxblack, we can fill that void. A marketing strategy and a website with some pics would be all we need right? Ladies, any preference on body hair?
 
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User#8628 said:
Hmm, good question. As for me, the things that come to mind now:
1. Charming, makes me feel like a princess. Knows how to compliment a girl, kind of sweet talker but hey, i wanna be swept away if i’m paying (or even if i’m not as a matter of fact but in this case i’ll have it a bit more cheesy and fake). Rather than being funny or interesting the most important talking skill would be that of a Don Juan, knowing how to flatter a woman and make her feel special.

2. Good magic touch skills. I’d like a good massage, especially if he doesn’t look as i hoped for. I’m i’m lonely i want someone who is nice to cuddle and to hold. Those are more important than sex technique. But a guy who knows his oral is attractive as well (i’ve met a host who claimed he never does oral, unbelievably selfish considering the money they receive).

3. Relaxed personality. I don’t mind paying or if there would be extra money needed for extra services or whatever but not someone who constantly needs more and more money than agreed on please.

4. Cute background story. Something like “poor guy from fukushima”, “misunderstood school dropout”, “taking care of his parents”, but not using that story as a scam to get a huge amound of money, just as some kind of explanation of how they got into this. It doesn’t all have to be depressing and desperate, a host told me he used to be hikkomori and that becoming host helped him make friends and get out of his shell and i think that’s inspiring. Overall, i like an underdog who can overcome his trouble at his own strength and asks nothing more of me than supporting him as much as i choose from myself. (Never expected, always appreciated.)

Basically someone who comes off as a smooth person at first but then also shows a bit of a vulnerable side if that makes sense. But i’m wary of things like this. If i p4p i wanna do so by my own choice and not through eigyo and pushing and scams which non delivery host culture seems all about (if i sound like i go a lot, no I don’t and i’m responsible with my money, not a host crazy girl by any means).
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Funny , that’s actually what I would look for in a girl too ... I wanna be swept away if I’m paying. Very good summary.
 
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I used ムツゴト for 18 months now. Only two guys run the business, so very busy... lol... and can be available after a week or more. They offers few services, for example massage, SM, and virgin course for women who want to lose virginity. The price is expensive (¥36,000 for three hours), though.

I always stick to one host, the one I got when I registered for the first time. What I like about the host:
- He speaks a little English. Same age as me.
- Friendly conversation (travels, food, Japanese culture, etc.). He even helped me read part of a novel in Japanese, one page each meeting... lol... and I invited him over and cooked for our diner.
- A gentleman, treats me well and considerate to my needs and requests.
- Compliments are thoughtful and show that he is paying attention to details. They really make me happy.
- As a repeater, I receive special treats for free :)
 
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Manami TMK said:
Personally men’s appearance is not a big factor for me even at paid service. Just don’t be twenty-something.
I am not into cute face or musculine body anyway. Someone in their early 40’s to late 40’s, normal face, medium built, short hair; long hair on men is not my thing in general, medium height, in other words, ordinary looking men you see on the street everyday.
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You certainly know your audience!
 
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