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So, technically not a soapland review, but I've just had a somewhat bizarre experience so I want to hear some 3rd-party opinion.
I've been making reservations with a particular girl via Twitter since February, got canceled the first time due to her not feeling well, but had two positive meetings after that. Made another booking this month and promptly got canceled again when I arrived at the store. Now, the fact that both time I did not get told anything until actually showing up, despite calling 2 hours beforehand to confirm the reservation, rubbed me the wrong way. I don't mind getting blue-balled once, but the second time around I expected some decency of communication on their part.
So I message the girl to say it's totally fine if she's taking a day off for not feeling well, but I hope she would have told me earlier if she couldn't show up. I want her to be healthy but at the same time was looking forward to meet her. Somehow she took it as if I was wanting her to show up even when she's sick, which is insane and selfish in her opinion (of course, if that was actually what I had meant). Anyway, she concluded that I'm a selfish prick who put myself first, couldn't even wish her to get well soon (every time she posted that she took a day off due to sickness I had wished her to get well lol just not this time), and suck at Japanese. Then promptly blacklisted me.
As a customer, I would be insane to not put my time and money first before saying "Odaiji ni" after getting canceled on the spot twice. Obviously some of it got lost in translation but somehow this chick got really aggressive and reacted like I was a nutjob who demands her to show up on sick day, for simply wanting to be told about the cancellation before I show up at the shop itself. Like...if she woke up and felt ill then there's plenty of time to let the shop know, and pass that info onto me, or am I being too picky? That was long rant and I'll probably get dunked on by some lol but...am I the asshole in this case ?
I've been making reservations with a particular girl via Twitter since February, got canceled the first time due to her not feeling well, but had two positive meetings after that. Made another booking this month and promptly got canceled again when I arrived at the store. Now, the fact that both time I did not get told anything until actually showing up, despite calling 2 hours beforehand to confirm the reservation, rubbed me the wrong way. I don't mind getting blue-balled once, but the second time around I expected some decency of communication on their part.
So I message the girl to say it's totally fine if she's taking a day off for not feeling well, but I hope she would have told me earlier if she couldn't show up. I want her to be healthy but at the same time was looking forward to meet her. Somehow she took it as if I was wanting her to show up even when she's sick, which is insane and selfish in her opinion (of course, if that was actually what I had meant). Anyway, she concluded that I'm a selfish prick who put myself first, couldn't even wish her to get well soon (every time she posted that she took a day off due to sickness I had wished her to get well lol just not this time), and suck at Japanese. Then promptly blacklisted me.
As a customer, I would be insane to not put my time and money first before saying "Odaiji ni" after getting canceled on the spot twice. Obviously some of it got lost in translation but somehow this chick got really aggressive and reacted like I was a nutjob who demands her to show up on sick day, for simply wanting to be told about the cancellation before I show up at the shop itself. Like...if she woke up and felt ill then there's plenty of time to let the shop know, and pass that info onto me, or am I being too picky? That was long rant and I'll probably get dunked on by some lol but...am I the asshole in this case ?