Didn’t nut, will Repeat?

[requiemmorrow]

Question for the boys, but ladies do chime in if you find it interesting.

It hasn’t been a problem as of late, but for a good half of a year I was having serious issues getting a nut with CFS. Of course with my reviews on this forum many of you know I have this pleasant weird fetish of ejaculating in a woman’s face (with her permission of course). Nonetheless, like any boring typical guy I love to finish inside her about as much.

It took me a long time to realize, but my obsession with giving facials actually corresponds to the many times it took me so long to finish in situations where ejaculation should be easy. I had subliminally taught myself to cum when a male pornstar does on the girl from watching so many cumshot compilation videos. This meant that when “on my own” I couldn’t envision my own ejaculation and would struggle to the finish line jerking off with my eyes closed or giving up altogether. And while the advice "find more beautiful girls" does have its merit, when she turns out to be my actual type, charging my wiener to full mast before she even removes her clothes YET in the end I still don't jizz with her, the issue is psychologically somewhere else...

For me, I have a tendency to give a second chance. Sometimes even the second time is not successful, but with all the girls that I like the most success eventually consistently starts to happen. Does anyone feel like that is a waste of money, or do they just know they will cum when they meet a girl they really like?

Anyway, things have immensely improved and with reprogramming of myself working with providers who were sensitive to my issues and gave outstanding service, I feel like I am returning to a normal nutting status again. Still, I am quite certain I am not the only dude with this issue, but I am curious what goes on in your horny heads (the upper ones of course) and how you cope with it.

So I reiterate: If she doesn't make you nut, would you see her again?

 

[Cinnabums]

Hasnt happened to me yet and she needs to be extremely nasty not to make me but, won't repeat!

No Nut No Sex!

 

[YokoMonger]

Very few women have in ever made me nut. If I'm not actively engaged, it's not going to happen. That said, a provider's attitude can hinder a pleasurable climax but that goes to the overall type of service. Coming is just part of the experience and a more often than not a part I had to bring about through personal means that leaves me sweaty and breathing heavy. Sometimes it doesn't happen but the experience was still fun.

 

[Danbo]

Guess everybody has a different stance when it comes to that. For me "nutting" and having a good time are two very different things. It is not such a common issue for me, but I also had sessions where I just wasn't able to finish (out of whatever reason), but really liked the time with the girl. If I visit again or not has nothing to do with how often/if I come, mostly boils down to chemistry.

There are other times where you cum multiple times during a session and still have no reason to visit her again because it just didn't click....and that makes the whole experience kinda mediocre.

 

[MikeH]

I am a gentleman and will always nut to make the girl feel proud of her work.

 

[MrDuBois]

Well in my case, me not nutting is entirely on me and the death grip I've trained my dick to over the past 17 years of wanking it. Of course, if I were to see more providers, there'd probably be a mine somewhere that doesn't set me off because if her lack of enthusiasm or looks but so far it's all me.

Therefore, yes, I would see the same girl again if I had a good time regardless of finishing.

 

[hrbb]

Whenever I have had nutting issues it usually had nothing to do with the hotness of the girl in question (I nutted in Chewbacca ffs).

Sometimes I was worrying about the clock running down, the session not going as planned or simply just trying to prolong it too much when I should just let fly. One of my regulars often told me "gaman shinaide itte!"

 

[Cinnabums]

I am a gentleman and will always nut to make the girl feel proud of her work.

This is obviously the only right thing to do. Even the poorest cocksuckers at Toy Box and girls at places I shouldn't mention doing it with me when Im almost passing out from overindulgense of alcohol always get my seed.

 

[Doggyfong]

If i like the girl, I will try to repeat.
Sometimes its not about the sex, but the companionship

 

[requiemmorrow]

This is obviously the only right thing to do. Even the poorest cocksuckers at Toy Box and girls at places I shouldn't mention doing it with me when Im almost passing out from overindulgense of alcohol always get my seed.

There WILL come a day...

 

[Cinnabums]

There WILL come a day...

I know but I try to be a gentleman as long as I can

 

[xenkiv]

Nutting is just the destination, but if the journey was pleasant, some paths are worth taking again.

 

[Airnest]

If the chemistry is great and the girl gave great service, I will repeat. I’ve been able to come from less atttactive girls who gave great service. Usually if the girl gives lousy service or there’s just now chemistry, that’s where the difficulty lies and no repeats. I think I’ve mentioned to you about my two 3 hour sessions with a provider who was gorgeous, gave good service, good chemistry and did everything in her power to make me cum. My cock was rock hard the whole time and cycled through different positions but I wasn’t able to cum both times, the fault was on my end. Given the two times I wasn’t able to cum with her, I’d still give her chance and repeat.

 

[j7358]

I've never ejaculated from being serviced by a provider, but there are some providers I have good chemistry with or I find drop dead gorgeous and are amazing in bed that I will go back and see even if I didn't nut.

 

[Simonka]

Why nut


(You may interpret this as an ethical paradox or a simple Dad joke)

 

[ThaWeeknd]

Been in this situation a lot of times (it takes awhile for me to cum). It’s almost always worth giving her a second chance unless you’re just physically not that attracted to her, and in such a case, don’t even waste your time, just leave her alone.

 

[CharlieSimms]

Why nut


(You may interpret this as an ethical paradox or a simple Dad joke)

Scientific fact that orgasm and ejaculation are not the same. So - with practiced skill anyway- there is actually no need to nut at all for a man to have a complete orgasm. Now the number of guys who can actually achieve this…. 😅😅😅

 

[Cinnabums]

Now the number of guys who can actually achieve this…. 😅😅😅

Does that apply to cream pie?

 

[CharlieSimms]

Those that apply to cream pie?

 

[Maxblack]

At my ripe old age, I’ve had plenty of sex wherein after 15-20 minutes of anxious and trembling foreplay, I give an exuberant 3-4 minutes of heroic thrusting, and then I’m ready for a bath and a nap.
If we’re lucky she enjoyed the foreplay enough to fake an orgasm convincingly.
If not, at least I didn’t exhaust her with endless pistoning.
(Also that’s a lie, I haven’t actually had plenty of sex.)

Regardless, I’ll repeat unless I have a reason not to, which is more often to do with scheduling than anything else. I’m a “busy” man. And by that I mean lazy and incapable of planning more than a day ahead.

 

[MikeH]

I give an exuberant 3-4 minutes of heroic thrusting, and then I’m ready for a bath and a nap.

For me it is not possible to have premature ejaculation as I always come when it feels the best. Moreover you can make it last very long if you fell to sleep at the right time.

Napping after sex is the best invention since boobs.

 

[Maxblack]

Napping after sex is the best invention since boobs.

 

[requiemmorrow]

I'm impressed with a lot of these answers.

It goes to show you that satisfaction "comes" in all forms, and not just white liquids.

 

[Cinnabums]

I'm impressed with a lot of these answers.

It goes to show you that satisfaction "comes" in all forms, and not just white liquids.

Madness!

No Nut No Sex!