Do Providers not Like it when you drink?

[Lukes]

So the question is "do providers not like it when you drink before a session? "

So yesterday I was in the mood for drinking, which I did promptly after work. I had two shots of whiskey. Then I realized I was also in the mood for sex, so I called a Chinese escort that works out of a hotel not too far from the bar.

All in all it was a good session. Probably the best FS I could have expected for the grand total of $100. But the provider immediately took notice that I had been drinking when we got to the bed. She asked me if I was drinking and driving (so what if I was?). When I assured her I hadn't, we proceeded to get it on. Later though, at least two more times, she mentioned my drinking, possibly as reasons I was lasting longer than expected (read: longer than she wanted me to). Almost sounded like mild complaining or a lecture. To me that was unexpected. I've never had a provider tell me that and I actually finished sooner this time than usual (she was actually hot, very skilled and spoke better English than most).

I'll make it clear that I was in no way drunk. But do providers not like it if you drink? Of course despite the mints I'm sure my breath smelled of booze but somehow it just really seemed out of proportion.

 

[User#8628]

Hmm, i feel slightly uncomfortable if a guy is already a bit tipsy when we meet (dont mind if we drink a bit together though). It feels like there is more chance of him being rougher on dangerous. I had a really bad experience with a drunk guy once (non p4p). Not really a reason to turn someone down if they are not actually drunk but i can see how it would make a girl uncomfortable.

 

[RIDER 00]

Well, I wouldn't feel 100% comfortable being with a provider who was slightly or full on drunk unless we were in a totally cool and understanding relationship. There would be moral issues to go along with the risk of her doing something they wouldn't rationally do normally.

I'm not dissing on drunk sex, though. When both people are cool with what's about to go down, it makes for a wild and sweaty ride. Just thinking about it puts this WWE theme song into my head.

 

[Lukes]

Hmm, i feel slightly uncomfortable if a guy is already a bit tipsy when we meet (dont mind if we drink a bit together though). It feels like there is more chance of him being rougher on dangerous. I had a really bad experience with a drunk guy once (non p4p). Not really a reason to turn someone down if they are not actually drunk but i can see how it would make a girl uncomfortable.

Thanks for your input, Alice. I guess I can see how it might make a provider uncomfortable, especially if she's not sure how the client will behave, but I was (perhaps incorrectly) under the assumption that salarymen often drink and then P4P. I hold my liquor well so I wasn't tipsy yet. Perhaps the smell of booze on my breath was off-putting to her.

Drinking a bit with an escort would be cool but I have yet to find a gal I think would be open to it. I've done that with a sugar baby and girls I've dated casually but not with a professional escort.

Well, I wouldn't feel 100% comfortable being with a provider who was slightly or full on drunk unless we were in a totally cool and understanding relationship. There would be moral issues to go along with the risk of her doing something they wouldn't rationally do normally.

I'm no dissing on drunk sex, though. When both people are cool with what's about to go down, it makes for a wild and sweaty ride. Just think about puts this WWE theme song into my head.

Well if the tables were turned and the provider had been drinking I would be a little concerned, lol. Probably because she's the one that's on the job and not me. And I would probably worry about her doing things we shouldn't if she got too drunk.

But as you said, if we knew and trusted each other, I'd probably be more relaxed about the idea of drunken sex.

 

[MacMackerson]

PRC Chinese girls definitely don’t like if you have been drinking. Thai and j girls it isn’t a big deal most of the time.

With deli health, if it’s evening and I offer them a drink (alc and non-alc options) about a third will go for alcohol.

 

[Manami TMK]

I don't mind as long as they maintain themselves and don't cause me a trouble. e.g. some people cannot errect at all and become more demanding when they are under influence of alcohol.

It reminds me, one girl from ND kept having alcohol problem when she met clients. She had to leave the agency because of the problem. It seems like she was a sweet girl but showing up to appointment being totally drunk is yeah, no.

Me myself don't (can't) drink at all but sometime I wish I could.

 

[Lukes]

PRC Chinese girls definitely don’t like if you have been drinking. Thai and j girls it isn’t a big deal most of the time.

With deli health, if it’s evening and I offer them a drink (alc and non-alc options) about a third will go for alcohol.

Interesting, I wonder why the difference with the Chinese ones. J girls I figured are used to alcohol since the salarymen tend to drink a lot after work.

I don't mind as long as they maintain themselves and don't cause me a trouble. e.g. some people cannot errect at all and become more demanding when they are under influence of alcohol.

It reminds me, one girl from ND kept having alcohol problem when she met clients. She had to leave the agency because of the problem. It seems like she was a sweet girl but showing up to appointment being totally drunk is yeah, no.

Me myself don't (can't) drink at all but sometime I wish I could.

A case of whisky dick is definitely problematic so that makes sense to me. Thanks for your input Manami.

Too bad about the girl from ND. Alcohol can become a serious problem so I hope she gets it under control.

 

[User#6517]

I think it’s alright if a client has one or two drinks beforehand and can handle his alcohol well. I also don’t mind drinking with them.

What I wouldn’t be okay with is full-on drunk clients. I’ve taken care of drunk friends before, and although I love them to death, they become the most childish people on the planet. I’d be worried about them not respecting my boundaries or causing a scene.

 

[RIDER 00]

I don't mind as long as they maintain themselves and don't cause me a trouble. e.g. some people cannot errect at all and become more demanding when they are under influence of alcohol.

It reminds me, one girl from ND kept having alcohol problem when she met clients. She had to leave the agency because of the problem. It seems like she was a sweet girl but showing up to appointment being totally drunk is yeah, no.

Me myself don't (can't) drink at all but sometime I wish I could.

Yeah, there was that big incident with her 3 years ago and the guy who didn't get any service because she showed up dead drunk complained about it on TAG. When ND found out about it, they ask him to take down the post in exchange for 50% off rates for the rest of his life. (Or that's what I heard)

Risa in particular was not happy about having to have lower rates because of something another girl at the agency did.

 

[User#8628]

PRC Chinese girls definitely don’t like if you have been drinking.

This is interesting since i think the places that get the most drunk customers are the (often Chinese) HE massage places that are open until very late and are in the same neighborhoods as bars.

 

[ur19877]

Do you think that all pro girls (Chinese, Japanese, Korean, etc) don't want to be with a client who drank...but due to cultural differences, Japanese girls are more willing to speak out/complain about it less?
Unless it seriously gets out of hand?

 

[jhingy567]

I've tried masturbating when drunk before. It's hard work.

one girl from ND kept having alcohol problem when she met clients

I was watching an escort doco recently where they interviewed an experienced escort. She actually recommended that girls new to the job or are nervous, should have a few glasses of wine before meeting clients!

 

[MacMackerson]

One of the many many things I like about j girls is they like to drink. American girls starting a couple three years younger than me aren’t bad either

 

[User#8628]

I've tried masturbating when drunk before. It's hard work.


I was watching an escort doco recently where they interviewed an experienced escort. She actually recommended that girls new to the job or are nervous, should have a few glasses of wine before meeting clients!

I can tell she has never met me after a few glasses of wine.

 

[Sudsy]

I can tell she has never met me after a few glasses of wine.

Alice, Destroyer of Worlds?

 

[User#8628]

Alice, Destroyer of Worlds?

More like "Alice, idiot who can't walk straight and falls asleep after one round, probably snorring"
Ultimate girlfriend experience

 

[Hofmeyer]

Should put an ad up like that for April Fools.

"Wife experience. Go have expensive dinner, I'll get drunk on wine. Later in the room I'll complain about a headache, turn down sex and fall asleep and snore all night. 100,000 yen."