Confidence comes from practice. Being new your attitude should be lets have fun and see what happens. Set some goals you want to achieve such: #1 Get her to talk to you: understand her time constraint and make her to want to talk to you. #2 attraction: Make her laugh and tease her. Your looks and dress determine how long you need to focus on this. #3 Get date/#.I still don't understand anything anymore. People can make it look so easy but it can be very hard for someone on the other hand. Some say you need confidence while some say just be yourself.
When I meet someone for the first time and exchange contact, I would ask basic questions to find out about that person through messaging. But when I am in company of that person, there is no conversation at all. It takes me awhile to get use to someone and then have a conversation that goes both ways.
Watch your body language for neediness: no leaning in to talk, don't agree with everything she says, etc.
On the date talk about what excites you. Share the feelings you get when you are doing these things. Its not what you do. Its what it makes you feel. Then ask her about things that excites her.
Don't forget the kino. Kino is seduction. No kino no sex.
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