There were a few stunners that I liked in China that I kind of developed a working relationship with. I mean drop dead gorgeous faces and bodies. The type of girls of which you could easily fall in love with either by their looks, body perfection, or the cuteness they exuded, or even solely how nice they smelled. If you realize and understand that it's a job for them and nothing more, only then you can easily deflect/block any feelings of emotional influence they might have on you. But the thing is - no matter how infatuated you are while you're with her, once you step away from each other you have to shut down that feeling then and there regardless of how much of a grasp it has on you. Accepting that she is a professional and has her own needs help you to accept this.
I once took a WG I visited frequently out to lunch, I couldn't speak to her because my Chinese was terrible and she knew no English. We both struggled with communication. Later, she started to avoid me due to my size (I knew this because of the place I was going to). No problem, I never said anything. She soon deleted me from WeChat despite us chatting infrequently. 1 year had past and I returned to China to the same place. I chose a girl I liked the looks of very much. Turns out, after this girl entered the room, a sudden "Do you remember me?!" was blurted out in English. WTF?
I was a little confused, I paused, as this girl had long hair and seemed vaguely familiar to the short-haired girl I went to lunch with the year prior, but now even more gorgeous. I looked closely at her as she smiled and then realized it was the same girl now speaking English. This was a totally new and different experience than our prior meetings. I actually wanted to know more and despite us sexing a little (as it still hurt her), I became more interested in actually being able to speak to her to find out what she had been doing. It was an intriguing experience that really gripped me mentally, and despite this, I knew at the end once I left I may never see her again. We shared questions-and-answer sessions about our lives and so forth, which I'm sure she asked specifically because she also wanted to know what/why/how and who. In the end, I didn't ask to reconnect with her because really... what's the use? It's ultimately a phase in her life that she needs to do to make a living or achieve some goal, and although she told me she wanted a 'white' baby I knew to only offer her advice in going about that, enjoy the moment, let go, let live and don't anticipate anything more. People cross paths but the paths must be in the right circumstances and environment.