I've been in Japan about two years now, so I don't know if things might have been different before COVID, but I've had a lot of trouble finding good bars for meeting women.
My Japanese is good enough that I've pulled a few girls that don't speak any English at all, and have some actual friends that don't speak any English too. (I have JLPT N2).
But for the life of me, I have had terrible luck finding drinking establishments where:
I've found a few, normally smaller places, that fit the bill, but it's taken a lot of searching and trial and error. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to find good places, especially if you're in a new part of town or new city?
My Japanese is good enough that I've pulled a few girls that don't speak any English at all, and have some actual friends that don't speak any English too. (I have JLPT N2).
But for the life of me, I have had terrible luck finding drinking establishments where:
- People don't just stay with the group they came in with (izakayas, etc, are out) and will talk to their neighbors at the bar, maybe even next tables.
- The music isn't too loud to have a conversation (clubs, etc, are out) or it's one of those places that's supposed to have whispered conversations (おしゃれ bars, etc)
- It's not all regulars.
- Has an actual bar, so going in to have a drink alone isn't weird.
I've found a few, normally smaller places, that fit the bill, but it's taken a lot of searching and trial and error. Does anyone have any suggestions for how to find good places, especially if you're in a new part of town or new city?