First casual exp and could not get erect, Is it normal ?

[pokemonjin]

Hey guys,

I tried and indian massage place offering FS and could not get erect at all.

It was my first time ever, and i could not get erect, she tried B2B, I tried sexy talk, feeling her up but nothing.


I go back home and boom could wank to the exp in my head!!

I dont know if this was TMI or relevant here, but,

Is it normal ?? should I take medicated help the next time i try ?

I want to explore the scene in japan, what should i do to not make this an issue when i come to japan ??

(please dont bully me ;-; )

 

[CharlieSimms]

One time probably means little. A pattern however would not be normal. In any case, I wouldn’t advise using this site for serious advice on personal health issues like this. Really you should consult qualified, licensed professionals and get real assistance if you are concerned.

 

[Frenchy]

Hey guys,

I tried and indian massage place offering FS and could not get erect at all.

It was my first time ever, and i could not get erect, she tried B2B, I tried sexy talk, feeling her up but nothing.


I go back home and boom could wank to the exp in my head!!

I dont know if this was TMI or relevant here, but,

Is it normal ?? should I take medicated help the next time i try ?

I want to explore the scene in japan, what should i do to not make this an issue when i come to japan ??

(please dont bully me ;-; )

It happens to the best of us
We would not bully you for that
(We would bully you for calling yourself Pokemonjin though )

 

[dolceandbanana]

First time jitters can happen, and it only gets worse if you get in your head (no pun intended) over not being hard right away.

Also, are you currently in Japan? I feel like I posted a whole back asking about Indian/South Asian providers and couldn't find any info. Where was this!?

 

[pokemonjin]

One time probably means little. A pattern however would not be normal. In any case, I wouldn’t advise using this site for serious advice on personal health issues like this. Really you should consult qualified, licensed professionals and get real assistance if you are concerned.

Yeah, i went to a doctor about it, and it was basically fine, he said it not ED just first time performance anxiety.

thankyou for your advice :3

 

[pokemonjin]

It happens to the best of us
We would not bully you for that
(We would bully you for calling yourself Pokemonjin though )

hahahahhahai dont mind taking flack for that

and yeah it think that was it just anxiety, will give it a go again

make that ekans into onyx XD

 

[pokemonjin]

First time jitters can happen, and it only gets worse if you get in your head (no pun intended) over not being hard right away.

Also, are you currently in Japan? I feel like I posted a whole back asking about Indian/South Asian providers and couldn't find any info. Where was this!?

Thankyou for you advice :3 and no im not in japan, it was a passage place in Delhi,
Mid teer place tbh, the massage was meh and you know the rest

 

[Joe2017]

The good news is that you are not a robot. It could have been anxiety, tiredness, heavy digestion, something you disliked... forget it, just you weren’t in the mood.

 

[eman]

Probably first time jitters but maybe you're also too used to your hand.

 

[Frenchy]

Probably first time jitters but maybe you're also too used to your hand.

… and let’s all be honest for once
Our hands are free and rarely disappointed

 

[CharlieSimms]

Hands are free but if I could blow myself I would surely be a millionaire many times over.

 

[requiemmorrow]

My first p2p ever was in a pink salon in Shiga almost a decade ago.
Disgustingly overpriced (15,000 yen for 30 mins - I think it was a foreigner tax), but at least the girl was good looking.

Needless to say, she did her best, but my boy just wouldn't operate and I went home with blue balls.
I went back again some time and a paycheck later and finished with her properly.
Hell, for that wad of cash I made sure to save up a week's worth of unborn children for her.

It's probably all in your head.

 

[Shounan84]

You might not like a woman! Why not try it with a guy next time?

 

[MikeH]

Hands are free but if I could blow myself I would surely be a millionaire many times over.

That's a no. Because if we could suck ourselves none of us never would leave the house to go and get a job.

Just talked about the "how long time is long" with an escort I met first time like a decade ago. She pretty much went in to a rampage about guys who masturbate all the time and then cannot come with a girl. Her exact words "You should do it yourself maximum twice a week". Which made me think about my younger age when I was doing it pretty much twice per day. When I was busy with other stuff I mean, normally that would have been more.

 

[Ddddd]

Happens to the best of us.

I recently tried a cockring for the first time and it was quite helpful. It will not help you to get an erection but, once you get it, you will stay 100% hard without issues.