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Hey everyone! Not only my first time in Tokyo but also doing p4p. I've read a a little bit into some threads on here during the last two weeks and decided to try out a SL.
I'm thinking about trying y-shirts. They seem to have more girls that are to my taste.
If I have set my eyes on 2 or 3 specific girls already (that are working this week) is there a way to get them? Or is my only choice as a gaijin to walk in and see which choices I am given? I am a white guy that speaks some very basic level of japanese. I am still having a hard time understanding it though.
 
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Hey everyone! Not only my first time in Tokyo but also doing p4p. I've read a a little bit into some threads on here during the last two weeks and decided to try out a SL.
I'm thinking about trying y-shirts. They seem to have more girls that are to my taste.
If I have set my eyes on 2 or 3 specific girls already (that are working this week) is there a way to get them? Or is my only choice as a gaijin to walk in and see which choices I am given? I am a white guy that speaks some very basic level of japanese. I am still having a hard time understanding it though.
So there are a few highly recommended providers that work at y-shirt, I suggest checking out the reviews on this forum and then making a booking directly with them via their Twitter profile. Best way to guarantee getting who you are after.

If it’s your first time, there’s probably only one provider there, she has been reviewed countless times and is a TAG favourite. If you read the soapland threads you will know who I mean :giggle:
 
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So there are a few highly recommended providers that work at y-shirt, I suggest checking out the reviews on this forum and then making a booking directly with them via their Twitter profile. Best way to guarantee getting who you are after.

If it’s your first time, there’s probably only one provider there, she has been reviewed countless times and is a TAG favourite. If you read the soapland threads you will know who I mean :giggle:
You are probably talking about Kaoru? 😀
Yeah I saw "some" reviews :D
I have to say though that by looks alone she is not as much my type as several others. But I guess it might be better going for something safe than just walking in and get 2 random girls as choice.
It's probably naiv anyway to think I could get one of my favorites even if I show up when they are free (acc to ch at least)
 
Funnily enough the most common I here from many women who've seen 'first timers':
1) Can't get hard/can't finish. (either nerves or simply too much porn, take your pick) << Especially with younger guys.
2) First timers can be unusually shy and don't communicate (talk) and it makes the session really awkward and unpleasant.
3) "I'm clean, I don't need a shower!" :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: but nothing is worse than "I'm clean, we don't need a condom!" o_O
 
XD thanks for your concern. I'm not what you would consider a "player" but I am 31 and did have my fair share of women so I'm fine on that front at least. Still nerves might be a thing because of first time p4p + language barrier. 仕方ない 😄
Performance pressure is also a good point. I tend to not be selfish and I have the most fun if I see the woman enjoys it too. Let's see if this goes well with p4p :D
I'll try and manage my expectations.
 
Short follow up here because a review won't be coming. Today I finally mustered my courage and went to yshirt. First try they asked me to come back in 90min because they are full. Luckily there was this cool festival today in Asakusa so it was no problem for me since it was easy to kill time and stay in the vicinity. After 90 min I'm back and they apologize, they need 15-20min more. Ok... 15 min later there is a different man at the reception this time. He immediately stretches out his arm and comes towards me before I'm even in the door. He keeps walking towards me until I'm back on the street and even around the corner of the building. He was weirdly rude for no reason. Then after the 3rd "you speak japanese?", "chotto hanasemasuk..." etc blabla of the day, he tells me they are booked for the next 2h. At this point I gave up. I haven't researched other places enough besides maybe versailles which was a bit above my budget anyway. So I went home.
In hindsight: I did pull a bad fortune out of the box at the shrine. Must have jinxed me 😆
 
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Short follow up here because a review won't be coming. Today I finally mustered my courage and went to yshirt. First try they asked me to come back in 90min because they are full. Luckily there was this cool festival today in Asakusa so it was no problem for me since it was easy to kill time and stay in the vicinity. After 90 min I'm back and they apologize, they need 15-20min more. Ok... 15 min later there is a different man at the reception this time. He immediately stretches out his arm and comes towards me before I'm even in the door. He keeps walking towards me until I'm back on the street and even around the corner of the building. He was weirdly rude for no reason. Then after the 3rd "you speak japanese?", "chotto hanasemasuk..." etc blabla of the day, he tells me they are booked for the next 2h. At this point I gave up. I haven't researched other places enough besides maybe versailles which was a bit above my budget anyway. So I went home.
In hindsight: I did pull a bad fortune out of the box at the shrine. Must have jinxed me 😆
Y-Shirt can be rude, I’m sorry you had that experience. The reason why we all seem to tolerate their behaviour is because they charge no gaijin tax, are cheap and have some star providers. Are you going to go back to Yoshiwara or is this the end of your trip?
 
He immediately stretches out his arm and comes towards me before I'm even in the door. He keeps walking towards me until I'm back on the street and even around the corner of the building. He was weirdly rude for no reason.

Lol, that sounds hilariously rude. After making you wait for hours such an reaction sounds really shitty. Sorry to hear about that 😕
 
So the lesson learned is: don’t do walk-in. Book online, or on the phone, or directly with the lady is best. Less wasted time, less frustration with staff. Sorry man but you had plenty of time to plan; that’s on you. Next time just ping Kaoru on Twitter and get a date and time sorted.
 
Y-Shirt can be rude, I’m sorry you had that experience. The reason why we all seem to tolerate their behaviour is because they charge no gaijin tax, are cheap and have some star providers. Are you going to go back to Yoshiwara or is this the end of your trip?
Well the first guys were really nice, it was just that one dude. I will leave on Tuesday. Tomorrow I will be on the MetRock Festival for the whole day though and I have to see if I can fit in another try on Monday.
 
So the lesson learned is: don’t do walk-in. Book online, or on the phone, or directly with the lady is best. Less wasted time, less frustration with staff. Sorry man but you had plenty of time to plan; that’s on you. Next time just ping Kaoru on Twitter and get a date and time sorted.
Yeah when I was there last month I just DMed Kaoru and she took care of everything even told me I could bring my friend and they’d for sure have girls available same time as our appt.
 
So the lesson learned is: don’t do walk-in. Book online, or on the phone, or directly with the lady is best. Less wasted time, less frustration with staff. Sorry man but you had plenty of time to plan; that’s on you. Next time just ping Kaoru on Twitter and get a date and time sorted.
Yeah walk-ins can be tricky, booking with the girl direct is best imo, not sure if they get better economics also?
 
Don’t be fooled by Cityheaven pictures, sometimes I’m not even sure if the pictures are real 😅 Going by reviews is much safer.
Just a quick follow up on this - I just found a girl I know from the US (she was visiting) at one of the Yoshiwara soaps. In the US she’s listed as a C cup, at the shop here she’s listed as a G cup…go figure :ROFLMAO:
 
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Just a quick follow up on this - I just found a girl I know from the US (she was visiting) at one of the Yoshiwara soaps. In the US she’s listed as a C cup, at the shop here she’s listed as a G cup…go figure :ROFLMAO:

Maybe her boobs got bigger because of the time difference?
 
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Yeah walk-ins can be tricky, booking with the girl direct is best imo, not sure if they get better economics also?
I will definitely be back some day and try again. By then I will hopefully have improved my japanese a lot and also have more money available.
 
I will definitely be back some day and try again. By then I will hopefully have improved my japanese a lot and also have more money available.
My modus operandi.
1 Find girls on twitter
2 DM those you are interested in and ask if gaijin OK.
3 Get a reply, say thanks and ask them how things work.
4 If you at least manage to get so far, the worse they can say is the shop doesn't allow foreigners to book or they require some pre-requisites such as
4.1 you require a japanese phone number to book| 4.2 the shop needs to verify you as a newcomer, which means you need to have used the shop once before and obtained possibly a membership card
Since they said they don't allow you to book, just head to the shop directly after checking her schedule and say you spoke with her on twitter, increases your chances by just a little bit

My Japanese is definitely not great. But doing your homework is important
 
My modus operandi.
1 Find girls on twitter
2 DM those you are interested in and ask if gaijin OK.
3 Get a reply, say thanks and ask them how things work.
4 If you at least manage to get so far, the worse they can say is the shop doesn't allow foreigners to book or they require some pre-requisites such as
4.1 you require a japanese phone number to book| 4.2 the shop needs to verify you as a newcomer, which means you need to have used the shop once before and obtained possibly a membership card
Since they said they don't allow you to book, just head to the shop directly after checking her schedule and say you spoke with her on twitter, increases your chances by just a little bit

My Japanese is definitely not great. But doing your homework is important
How do you "find girls on twitter"?
Are you browsing the shops and look for girls that give their Twitter/line info like Kaoru does? Or are there some specific accounts you follow on twitter?
 
How do you "find girls on twitter"?
Are you browsing the shops and look for girls that give their Twitter/line info like Kaoru does? Or are there some specific accounts you follow on twitter?
Most shops have their own twitter page so follow them, thats a start. Dolce Twitter
Check who they are following, most shops follow their own girls.

After following the girls, check who they are following.
This is for you to get contacts from other shops, make sure they are working girls so that you play the algorithm right.
And rinse and repeat until you are satisfied with your account? i guess?

After you have done all that twitter "For You" tab will start running its algorithm and start showing you more working girls more frequently.
It's not a 100% method, but it works for me.

Check CH for girls you are interested in and see if they have a CH account, takes more work though.
For shops like BijinLab, they state which girls are Foreigner X or O.
After browsing the cast list and maybe you have a girl in mind, check her profile and diary if they provide a twitter ID or LINE.

Lastly, be patient, you are looking for gems that allow us peasants to get close to them
It took me awhile to streamline the process and algorithm to get a good handful of girls that are worth repeating every trip.
Also, most do not reply within 5 minutes of your message. They might only reply at the end of their shift or even once a week to all those who have messaged them.
 
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How do you "find girls on twitter"?
Are you browsing the shops and look for girls that give their Twitter/line info like Kaoru does? Or are there some specific accounts you follow on twitter?
Kaoru is probably one of the few who just puts her info out there and welcomes foreigners reaching out. Some girls will put their line/ Twitter on their photo diary.
You can also go to a shop’s Twitter and browse through their following. I think Darling_h_news is the Twitter for Y-Shirts. They usually follow the girls who work there, they’ll have DH in their name or some sort of description in their bio that implies their services.
Be aware that some of them may have DMs turned off but best recommendation I can give is just go with Kaoru for a first time experience…she’s loved by many in this forum for a reason. And from there you can even ask her for help booking in the future or contacting other girls from the shop. Maybe even book a tandem 😏