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Just happened to see this. Never heard about the site before. There is some good stuff here.



This is a good read, interesting and quite fascination - and rather sad. Is this what we all really are: basicallt nice, honest guys - bur totally self-delusional? And totally predictable.

What does Alice say?
 
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Since I quit, no blow jobs, either. If you’re dating somebody and he didn’t live good before, and you start giving him blow jobs and doing different positions, you can spoil him. I don’t want to spoil someone that much.

If someone’s not paying you, you don’t have to do blow jobs, you don’t have to smile all the time, you can be yourself.
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What a selfish bitch.
 
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What a selfish bitch.
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Well, she doesn't hide the fact that she's a very money-oriented person.
He had cancer and he said he loved me and wanted to marry me. I don’t know how much money he had. I didn’t want to marry him and find out he just had debt. And I wasn’t comfortable asking him how much he would leave me.
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One guy demanded to pour honey all over me before he fucked me. I said no. He said he’d pay double and I said no. He said he’d pay triple and I said okay.
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What a selfish bitch.
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Hm, I definitely agree that you don't have to put on a fake smile and act upbeat all the time if you're not on payroll, but i also think the "no blowjobs" thing is a bit stupid. I don't think you should push yourself to do sex things that you hate in a relationship (but absolutely not at work during sex work as well for that matter) but a relationship is also giving and taking and not always doing everything only for yourself.
I'd say, discuss some things with your partner that you really don't want to do, and sometimes do something thats more for them than for you. To me personally, pleasuring my partner would be a lot of fun and sexually exciting to me. But I also wouldn't want to touch them somewhere or make them do anything that they dont enjoy.

jhingy567 said:
Well, she doesn't hide the fact that she's a very money-oriented person.
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I know this sounds a bit racist but this is pretty much my image of east European women. Of course, we are spoiled in the west and have had the luxury of not having to worry about money since our childhood, usually.
 
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Hm, I definitely agree that you don't have to put on a fake smile and act upbeat all the time if you're not on payroll, but i also think the "no blowjobs" thing is a bit stupid. I don't think you should push yourself to do sex things that you hate in a relationship (but absolutely not at work during sex work as well for that matter) but a relationship is also giving and taking and not always doing everything only for yourself.
I'd say, discuss some things with your partner that you really don't want to do, and sometimes do something thats more for them than for you. To me personally, pleasuring my partner would be a lot of fun and sexually exciting to me. But I also wouldn't want to touch them somewhere or make them do anything that they dont enjoy.
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While I agree with what you said in principle, that's not what she said.
[if]you start giving him blow jobs and doing different positions, you can spoil him. I don’t want to spoil someone that much.
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She doesn't want to be too nice to him.
 
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Last night a girl didn't give me head for whatever reason ("i don't do that").

I smiled and told her we'll just sleep without fucking.

I won't be seeing her again... I think she knows that.

I don't particularly care what rules people may have had before they met me, if they aren't willing to devote themselves to me, why should I spend my time on them? I'm happy to just release them
 
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I'm actually interested in this:

"The tricky part of my job is over. Now it’s time for sex."

Do escorts on here think the "tricky part" is the conversation? Bridging the gap and making the guy go from stranger to comfortable, loved, aroused, etc? And after that, the work is relatively easy?
 
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Do escorts on here think the "tricky part" is the conversation? Bridging the gap and making the guy go from stranger to comfortable, loved, aroused, etc? And after that, the work is relatively easy?
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Conversation can be the most awkward part, yes.
I'd say it depends a bit per guy which parts go smoothly and which are tougher.
 
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Conversation can be the most awkward part, yes.
I'd say it depends a bit per guy which parts go smoothly and which are tougher.
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Without going too in depth, what are a couple things you've learned regarding setting guys at ease / appealing to many guys during conversation that you would teach a younger version of yourself to do your job more effectively?

I find your profession quite interesting, to say the least, since it's somewhat of a mirror of mine
 
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Sinapse said:
Without going too in depth, what are a couple things you've learned regarding setting guys at ease / appealing to many guys during conversation that you would teach a younger version of yourself to do your job more effectively?

I find your profession quite interesting, to say the least, since it's somewhat of a mirror of mine
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Hmm, i used to be super nervous when i first started and come off a bit hostile at first. I'm afraid thats still the case sometimes. Its a threatening situation to be alone with a stranger after all, so its easy to get defensive.

For making someone at ease when you're in the same room, it can look a bit over professional but things like arranging their shoes and hanging their coat (if its a love hotel for example) is quite hospitable.

I most definitely dont know more about making friendly conversation than you do. But some things I personally would do is smile (but not too forced and too much), hug and hold hands, start with kissing quite early (a kiss on the mouth, LFK, as soon as you're a bit settled in the room together).
As for conversation, topics I avoid is marriage and girlfriends, unless they want to talk about it themselves. One important thing to talk about is definitely hobbies. This gives an idea about what a guy really enjoys and what his passions are.

Pretty standard stuff i guess. A lot just depends on the guy and on the flow of the session.
 
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Hmm, i used to be super nervous when i first started and come off a bit hostile at first. I'm afraid thats still the case sometimes. Its a threatening situation to be alone with a stranger after all, so its easy to get defensive.
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Being nervous seems like a really normal response... I'd be nervous too! I still haven't tried P4P but when walking down areas where street walkers or obvious escorts exist I'm nervous even making eye contact with them.... even though basically no women anywhere else, no matter their attractiveness, can phase me. So go figure o_O

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For making someone at ease when you're in the same room, it can look a bit over professional but things like arranging their shoes and hanging their coat (if its a love hotel for example) is quite hospitable.
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This would defnitely win me over. I'm a big sucker for when a girl pours out soup or portions of a dish or hands me chopsticks or whatever on a date. Small gestures go a long way and indicate a good upbringing... so yeah I can see how this would be effective

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But some things I personally would do is smile (but not too forced and too much), hug and hold hands, start with kissing quite early (a kiss on the mouth, LFK, as soon as you're a bit settled in the room together).
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I can also see how this would certainly put the guy at ease and break the ice.

Anyway, thanks for your candid response
 
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Some pics were obviously taken in a room at The Standard, High Line, a far cry from $3000 a month apartment in Manhattan...
 
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Ken1988 said:
Some pics were obviously taken in a room at The Standard, High Line, a far cry from $3000 a month apartment in Manhattan...
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Is that not The Place these days, for Artsy Trendy Millenials or whatever kids these days are called? Dunno much about New York actually.
 
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Lol I ALWAYS leave my curtains open in my hotel when I take a shower, etc. My little gift to whatever city I am visiting. Whether it's appreciated or not is a different issue altogether.
If a Silver Fox is a sexy gray haired gentleman, that makes me a...Pink Piglet?
 
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