Girlfriend Experience Or Pornstar Experience

GFE or PSE and definitions

  • GFE and what makes a good girl friend experience in your opinion

    Votes: 27 75.0%
  • PSE and what makes a good porn star experience in your opinion?

    Votes: 9 25.0%

  • Total voters
    36
For the guys who like p4p, but also ok for guys who have sexfriends.
Do you want your girl to act like a girlfriend or a pornstar in bed?
And since these are very abstract terms: what makes a good GFE or PSE in your opinion? Any musts? (For example bbj for gfs or noisy for pse.)
can't we have both ? :D
I pass for the noisy part though, the good part of pornstar experience is more about the attitude and the body language
 
I'll take pornstar any day of the week. I'm not into kissing and I want that high adrenaline hump fest. I like to save that other stuff for my main girl.
 
Reading this thread makes me feel like I am from another planet.

When it comes to P4P, I don't like GFE at all, and can't imagine doing Japanese PSE (being with a provider performing like a Japanese AV star, crying and all that...) which makes punting in Japan rather difficult for me. I'm a big fan of "US" style PSE though. Sweaty, playful sex that feels like a sport which leaves both of you exhausted and looking at the ceiling, feeling like "wow, that was a good one". This preference naturally leads me to have a much better time with women who are fit or active and playful than with cute and skinny models.

PSE takes all the awkwardness away from p4p to me, it makes it feel super playful, with no ambiguity whatsoever, and it's exactly what I'm looking for when doing this. A real escape from the real world, into the fantasy universe of porn, where everyone has a nicely crafted body and has sex for no other reason than wanting to have sex. A few providers are absolutely fantastic with this, they can totally feel that you're not looking for a girlfriend, but not interested in a sandbag either, they understand that you're here to have fun and provide you with a great experience. Risa of ND is an example of this.
I do have an athletic body, so stamina is not an issue. The real issue is not to come too fast when pounding a nice round bottom or while facing a pair of sweaty DDs.

For the expectations: BBJ/facials are a must, and swallowing is the extra that will turn me into a regular. Costumes are also a nice addition to the experience. I still remember that hotel room session with a provider wearing a latex nurse outfit with what could only be described as "fuck me boots"... Incredible.

I go GFE with my girlfriends though, as I also appreciate the chemistry, the escalation, the adrenaline rush, and the feelings of power play and vulnerability that comes with regular sex.
 
For the guys who like p4p, but also ok for guys who have sexfriends.
Do you want your girl to act like a girlfriend or a pornstar in bed?
And since these are very abstract terms: what makes a good GFE or PSE in your opinion? Any musts? (For example bbj for gfs or noisy for pse.)

Which one makes a better sandwich?
 
Reading this thread makes me feel like I am from another planet.

When it comes to P4P, I don't like GFE at all, and can't imagine doing Japanese PSE (being with a provider performing like a Japanese AV star, crying and all that...) which makes punting in Japan rather difficult for me. I'm a big fan of "US" style PSE though. Sweaty, playful sex that feels like a sport which leaves both of you exhausted and looking at the ceiling, feeling like "wow, that was a good one". This preference naturally leads me to have a much better time with women who are fit or active and playful than with cute and skinny models.

PSE takes all the awkwardness away from p4p to me, it makes it feel super playful, with no ambiguity whatsoever, and it's exactly what I'm looking for when doing this. A real escape from the real world, into the fantasy universe of porn, where everyone has a nicely crafted body and has sex for no other reason than wanting to have sex. A few providers are absolutely fantastic with this, they can totally feel that you're not looking for a girlfriend, but not interested in a sandbag either, they understand that you're here to have fun and provide you with a great experience. Risa of ND is an example of this.
I do have an athletic body, so stamina is not an issue. The real issue is not to come too fast when pounding a nice round bottom or while facing a pair of sweaty DDs.

For the expectations: BBJ/facials are a must, and swallowing is the extra that will turn me into a regular. Costumes are also a nice addition to the experience. I still remember that hotel room session with a provider wearing a latex nurse outfit with what could only be described as "fuck me boots"... Incredible.

I go GFE with my girlfriends though, as I also appreciate the chemistry, the escalation, the adrenaline rush, and the feelings of power play and vulnerability that comes with regular sex.
I kind of feel the same.
I don't want the GF experience for sure, but not a full PSE experience either. Something on the middle, where both (?) have a lot of fun and pleasure, enjoying and playing with the attraction, while remaining respectul. As the user above said, we are not looking for a sandbag either. The noise part is a plus for me.
But all of my experience come more from sexfriends since I never did p2p.

The subway shop around the corner.
But you could always be daring and try to make one yourself.
And bring one for the lady!
It doesn't matter if it is P2P or sexfriend, if you are getting food after it, at least be a gentleman!
 
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