Going multiple times in one time

[hso3736]

Saw a post about SL, unlimited shots etc. Got me wondering, is it common to be able to go many times?

If I masturbate I can go 2 times a day max, morning & night. That's w/ no time limits and videos etc. I can't go back to back.

Sex generally I can go once every 3 days w/ partner maybe? Otherwise can't go to completion, ie lose momentum and goes soft.

If I masturbate I can't have sex to completion that or possibly next morning.

Is this just me, or is there anything I can do to prepare for a short trip to jp where I want to visit a few places and not just 1.

 

[Maxblack]

is there anything I can do to prepare for a short trip to jp where I want to visit a few places and not just 1.

stop touching your dick. From NOW.

 

[bdole]

Lots of reasons why some guys can't go more, but much of the time, it's self-inflicted. Death grip syndrome during masturbation can really fuck up your ability to cum from PIV, a BJ, or even a HJ from someone else because nothing is as tight as your own hand squeezing down with all your might. Overdoing the stimulation in other ways, like using more hardcore videos, can also mess up your ability to cum from a real girl because reality doesn't match up with what you've trained your brain to need.

And sometimes people are just built different. But it's worth finding out if you've overdone something to yourself and try to reverse it before you go.

 

[LastExile13]

Depends on the person and session. I typically aim for 1 shot in a 2 hour soap appointment and 2 in a 2 hour deliheru - oral is easier to get off to then sex IMO. I've had plenty of soap girls get me twice of course and some deliheru sessions are either only one or even as many as 3. During a trip i usually get a bit greedy and try for at least one session a day and often 2. I think my busiest day was 3 sessions and 5 shots (I keep a record of my sessions and a personal rating but don't record number of fires so it might be just 4, I can't remember) but I was just stright deceased for a couple days after.

Really though comparing yourself to other people isn't whats important - it's a personal hobby. If you can't cum but still have fun it's still a good session in my eyes, and I promise you you're not the only guy the girl has seen who can't hit the finish line or needs a vigorous handy to finish.

Another big recommendation is staying calm and comfortable during the session. Feeling anxious makes it even harder to get it up or cum.

 

[kirayamato]

age, talent, and maybe magic pill.

as someone used to say, try no fap for atleast ten days, take care your health and nutrition, pop some pills.

 

[hso3736]

stop touching your dick. From NOW.

I'm definitely not doing a death grip in my sessions.

But, if I don't do anything say for a week and then when I have sex I'd last two strokes...

I'm also finding that there are two parts of sex. At the start I'm erect and I'm doing a motion but it just feels like nothing special.

And then it has the second part where I can actually feel the texture of the inside has a slide in and out and it starts feeling good.

I only do bareback with my partner (who's a tuna) and then I have to put on the condom to finish so it's hard to balance that section. I try to hold it too long I can't finish. Or I lose control and I have to finish outside.

I use 0.01 but once I put on the calm down it feels like wearing a glove.

 

[hso3736]

Overdoing the stimulation in other ways, like using more hardcore videos, can also mess up your ability to cum from a real girl because reality doesn't match up with what you've trained your brain to need.

I wonder if this is a factor. Obviously I can choose whatever video depending on what I feel like at that time. And can't do that with a real person.

On the other hand something quite mild can get me horny. I feel like it's eye contact, something missing in my real life experience. I feel like I need the person to pretend like they are enjoying it.

 

[bdole]

But, if I don't do anything say for a week and then when I have sex I'd last two strokes...

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On the other hand something quite mild can get me horny. I feel like it's eye contact, something missing in my real life experience. I feel like I need the person to pretend like they are enjoying it.

It really sounds like you're overdoing the porn. You are so overstimulated that a fairly small time of no sex or masturbation has you cumming in 2 strokes, and feeling even the slightest connection with a real girl has you horny because you don't get that from your typical stimulation (i.e. porn).

Do you have a long refactory period after the 2-stoke cum following an abstinent period?

 

[hso3736]

Do you have a long refactory period after the 2-stoke cum following an abstinent period?

As you may have summarized my partner is not a very interesting lay. Years ago didn't have sex for like 2 weeks and then came very soon. But that was a long time ago I've lost most of my interest in the meaningless act with a maguro. She just lays there and usually on her stomach and hides her face and does nothing.

I've not really had a reason to try and abstinate period since. Vr porn is satisfying enough. I don't even know why I bother initiating.

But in terms of refactory period I think as long as I have remembered, I could only masturbate once a day. I mean except for once when I was in hotel quarantine I tried to sitting in front of the computer all day and I think it was like half an hour to one hour between goes, went a dozen times or more.

Once in Japan I went once and then again on the third day. They were attractive people and acted enthusiastic. I would just have an erection but not hold it for long. I cannot control keeping it up for the fun and I cannot control that I want to go because time was running out.

 

[bdole]

I've not really had a reason to try and abstinate period since. Vr porn is satisfying enough.

Well, now you have a reason.

Whatever it is, you now have a reason to at least try to figure out how to control yourself a bit better. Stop masturbating so often, stop watching porn because it's training your mind on what it needs to get off, and try just using your imagination instead. Lay down, close your eyes, and put yourself in a sexy situation in your head and just try to enjoy that to get and maintain an erection without touching yourself. If you can't maintain an erection without constant stimulation, any sexy time with a real woman is going to have you going soft any time there's a slow point or a lull.

Seems to me the only solution for a case like yours is practice.