Well, interesting topic. This is going to be bit of a rant, and probably not everyone will agree with me but here is my opinion:
I’ve been with Japanese men in both night club settings and in P4P. My p4p experience is still new, and maybe it’s too early to conclude the statistics, but they closely echo my night club experience.
Japanese men who have little to no overseas experience who generally lack English skills sometimes cause me problems. (Not always) I don’t want this to sound controversial because I am very grateful for my life in Japan, and I love to be around my Japanese acquintances and friends of both genders. That said, we all have different limits and boundaries. Sometimes the kind of Japanese men I’ve mentioned above cross my limits: my limits for privacy, safety and play.
There is a certain type of client who wants to exploit our physical limits, asks way too many personal questions, wants to gather information & gossip about other girls. Most of the time these guys have never been to overseas and had a real relationship with a foreign woman. They perhaps have no idea that they are just annoying me and I want to get out of there as soon as possible. I obviously don’t have much knowledge about soaplands, delivery etc but the Japanese culture of avoiding conflict seems to have caused this type of client to be completely oblivious to the fact that they are a nuisance to girls. Or they are taking advantage of this.
We all come from different backgrounds and have a different understanding of privacy, but endless questions about my real name, phone number, where I live, work, if I’d like to live with him, if I’d like to marry him, my grandma’s first love etc just leave me completely flabbergasted. This is easy to deal with in a night club. You can just pretend you’re too drunk to understand these questions, or if all else fails blurt out something like “wohooo I love this song” and start dancing. Well, it’s doesn't work in p4p. THANK GOODNESS conversations I’m having with men are way more meaningful in p4p. It must be because when play is on the menu men are way more relaxed and emotionally stable. However it’s also hard to escape from such personal questions and I can’t help but just freeze, knowing that I already point out I don’t tolerate such questions on my website.
Japanese men who have a solid overseas experience, and therefore can communicate well in English almost never act like this. I actually enjoy my time very much with them because often times we are both hyper analytical about mind bogglingly small things and have an endless source of topics to converse about.
Conclusion: As a consequence, I don’t offer my escorting services in Japanese and I keep my initial communication in English. Once a Japanese gentleman finds out I do speak Japanese, the conversation usually is a mix of both languages.
I know I’m pretty new compared to many escorts on Tag, but this is my experience so far. Thanks for reading