Have You Ever Done A P4p Session And Couldn't Pop?

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It happened to me today for the first time. I saw a certain fasion health provider for the first time and she wasn't at all what I'd hoped for looks wise. Though she was very nice and willing to do anything (accept for fs of course) I just couldn't be aroused. We both laughed it off, and said our goodbyes but I was embarassed and could tell she was too. Anyone had a similar experience?
 
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Floridian said:
It happened to me today for the first time. I saw a certain fashion health provider for the first time and she wasn't at all what I'd hoped for looks wise. Though she was very nice and willing to do anything (accept for fs of course) I just couldn't be aroused. We both laughed it off, and said our goodbyes but I was embarrassed and could tell she was too. Anyone had a similar experience?
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Nah, with me it was the opposite. Felt so nervous a few times that the little man thought it was a race rather than a course. Strange, very rarely have that problem with my wife.
 
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@User#8628

It happened a lot to me, too. They are too nervous for the first p4p experience; sometimes they pop too fast because of the same reason.
Or they don't wanna pop too fast so wheneever they feel like getting close to climax, they stop playing and hold it. After they repeat more than a few time, they usually end up having hard time to come when they actually want to....
 
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Only when the woman I am with cannot excite me enough to cum. Just having my DK in her PSY is not enough for me.
There has to be more intimacy, passion, and wild sexy things going on in the bed!
 
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@User#8628

It happened a lot to me, too. They are too nervous for the first p4p experience; sometimes they pop too fast because of the same reason.
Or they don't wanna pop too fast so wheneever they feel like getting close to climax, they stop playing and hold it. After they repeat more than a few time, they usually end up having hard time to come when they actually want to....
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Yes, this.
Or they are nervous so they can't stay hard and i have to finish them with hand job (at least they come).

Its usually Japanese guys for who it's the first time with a western girl in my case.
 
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Happened to me quite often, and I think probably because ALL the reasons already mentioned.. Manami's explanation in particular is so accurate...

In places like German FKKs, or even more "partytreffs", or the infamous London's parties, where a fixed entrance fee give "all you can eat" buffet, it is common not to finish with each girl, since many guys prefer to frolick, get BBjs, eor even sex without cumming, so that they can sample more girls... That's being greedy, and not to anyone's taste, I have to admit.

Remember that " Man spends the first half of his life to try to control is premature ejaculation, and the second part to maintain his erection"..
 
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... raises hand ... and the ladies know what I mean by that.

My body is built quite differently. As soon as my heart rate elevates above a certain level, I loose my erection. Body is thinking I'm doing strenuous work and stops pumping blood where I **really** need it! :(

After some experimentation I find that HJs are difficult too ... the only way I can reliably pop is when someone's kissing me or caressing my body. I can do it fine while watching porn though.
 
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scorpioni6ths said:
... raises hand ... and the ladies know what I mean by that.

My body is built quite differently. As soon as my heart rate elevates above a certain level, I loose my erection. Body is thinking I'm doing strenuous work and stops pumping blood where I **really** need it! :(

After some experimentation I find that HJs are difficult too ... the only way I can reliably pop is when someone's kissing me or caressing my body. I can do it fine while watching porn though.
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Have you tried or considered using a cock ring? I brought one with me last trip just in case and it served me well.
 
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Alcohol can be your worst enemy at certain times. haha:(

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User#8628 said:
Which is better: comming too fast or not being able to pop at all?
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I rephrase your question: "what is WORSE? ..."

For me it is to pop too early, because I lose interest immediately after..

I repeat: "Men spend the first part of their sexua life trying to control their premature ejaculation, and the second part to maintain their erection".
I have been for a long time in the first category, and suddently found myself in the second....
 
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It happens to me with certain frequency. Mostly because of me been nervous. Sometimes is difficult to me to get hard when the girl is really beautiful. With erotic masseurs is easier for me. Been relaxed after the massage probably helps.
 
For all the men here.. I would recomended kegels.. Women as well. It's the perfect activity given the amount of time one spends standing in the trains in tokyo.... And the benefits are quite fantastic.. It's had great results for me...
 
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i recently learned how to finish myself, but looking at their face as a kind of porn haha
some girls know what to do, how to look sexy, swirl their tongue around, dribble, smile etc

others just look scared and embarrassed hehe

you can also get yourself close with your hand and then pass the batton as it were to your lady friend for the finish

I need it in a quite specific way with the hand, that many don't seem to done before .. plus anxiety during my first few times with providers.. I am getting over the guilt though
 
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