Have You Ever Done A P4p Session And Couldn't Pop?

TheScientist said:
There are four members of the Dead Kenedys. PSY is fat but not that fat...

Ok so I made that joke before but I'm curious why you avoid typing dick and pussy?
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Plausible deniability. The same reason we use terms like FS/BJ/GFE etc.
 
User#8628 said:
Which is better: comming too fast or not being able to pop at all?
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Too bast is worse. Puts me in a foul mood and makes it difficult to just play afterwards. Not at all and I can still focus on pleasing the woman.

Note however that so far neither has been the case with P4P, only with lovers.
 
TheScientist said:
Too bast is worse. Puts me in a foul mood and makes it difficult to just play afterwards. Not at all and I can still focus on pleasing the woman.

Note however that so far neither has been the case with P4P, only with lovers.
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Have you never walked into a landmine with P4P? If not, you've been lucky or have the ability to FK anything with a hole.
 
RIDER 00 said:
Have you never walked into a landmine with P4P? If not, you've been lucky or have the ability to FK anything with a hole.
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I've had some bad cases, taken hits for the team as my review history will show, but no full land mines. So far it's been "fuckit, I paid my yen and I'm gonna cum even if it's by willpower alone."
 
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TheScientist said:
I've had some bad cases, taken hits for the team as my review history will show, but no full land mines. So far it's been "fuckit, I paid my yen and I'm gonna cum even if it's by willpower alone."
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Would be interesting if you paid and got someone you couldn't even get an erection to.

I've taken my fair share of hits as well but I've got my limits. If it ain't gonna happen there's
no point in thrusting my hips like a dog trying to hump a pillow.
 
RIDER 00 said:
Would be interesting if you paid and got someone you couldn't even get an erection to.

I've taken my fair share of hits as well but I've got my limits. If it ain't gonna happen there's
no point in thrusting my hips like a dog trying to hump a pillow.
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Basically I avoid places with a shitty vibe now including all Chinese esute shops and pink salons, plus I've got a fairly lucky cock.
 
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TheScientist said:
Basically I avoid places with a shitty vibe now including all Chinese esute shops and pink salons, plus I've got a fairly lucky cock.
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Count your blessings, my friend. The older you get, the less control, both in too excited and lack of excitement.

That said, some of the best sex, in my case, and I'm talking mutual, has been in the past couple years.
 
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You certainly must have avoided Dio/Emotions in Gotanda..

TheScientist said:
I've had some bad cases, taken hits for the team as my review history will show, but no full land mines. So far it's been "fuckit, I paid my yen and I'm gonna cum even if it's by willpower alone."
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TheScientist said:
I've had some bad cases, taken hits for the team as my review history will show, but no full land mines. So far it's been "fuckit, I paid my yen and I'm gonna cum even if it's by willpower alone."
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On that one, my friend, I would disagree..
At my age, the most important currencies are, in that order: Semen, time and money. So if I end up in a shithole, even if I have paid, I'll keep my semen, so I can go elsewhere once I have extracted myself for the above said shithole.. (example: being in a pink salon, and getting one of those terribly fat and ugly provider: I politely let her polish my flaccid pole for a few minutes and explain how tired I am, then bye and thank you. I am then ready for another try elsewhere...)

I do realise that when I was young t, the order was reversed: Money (earning ls then), time (family and work constraints) ans semen( no prob em there..). .. The secret of a happy life is to accept the facts and adjust...
 
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Certain antidepressants can cause the little guy to stay asleep, especially bad for those using it to treat anxiety, double whammy there, kinda screwed either way.
 
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HoboMan said:
If money is the least of your problem, why would you even take chances with pink salon?

May I suggest the wonderful TAG ladies or maybe even kokyuten soap.
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You have a point...
To reassure, you I have tried many soaplands, lovely Manami when she was working at AM, and many other escorts.
But I need variety, both in terms of girls and structure. I have experienced P4p under all its forms all over the word, FKKs in Germany, soapys in Thailand, brothels in Spain, clubs in Mexico, saunas in macao, and..even Soho walkups in London!
What I like in Japan, is the variety of p4p on offer: Peepshow, like NHP, oppai bars, pink salons, massage with HJ finishing, etc... So if I go to a pink salon, it's not because it's cheap, it's because I get excited by th concept...
With regards to the lovely TAG ladies, I will have to decide not to follow my usual rule, which is to only go with local Ladies wherever I go. I am not stupid enough to say that it will never happen, so let's see.
 
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Happened to me 2 days ago. I blame it on the bait and switch but I honestly think I've got some serious performance anxiety.
 
If you don't pop in a P4P encounter, don't worry, you're not the only one.
The following seem to be erection killers...
- Nerves (a massage at the start could help)
- Alcohol
- Medication (antidepressants especially)
- Inability to focus (maybe your brain is elsewhere)
- Comfort (both physical and psychological).
- Could you have viewed too much porn? Real life sex is not always as seamless and predictable as it may appear on TV..
- Focusing too much on cumming.

There is certainly no shame in using Viagra, cock rings, or anything else that may help. Ask for a BJ/HJ. Don't beat yourself up too much. There are a huge amount of endorphins to be gained merely by skin-to-skin contact. I think that the nicest things are to hold, caress, kiss and receive the same in return.
 
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Mischa Maxwell said:
If you don't pop in a P4P encounter, don't worry, you're not the only one.
The following seem to be erection killers...
- Nerves (a massage at the start could help)
- Alcohol
- Medication (antidepressants especially)
- Inability to focus (maybe your brain is elsewhere)
- Comfort (both physical and psychological).
- Could you have viewed too much porn? Real life sex is not always as seamless and predictable as it may appear on TV..
- Focusing too much on cumming.

There is certainly no shame in using Viagra, cock rings, or anything else that may help. Ask for a BJ/HJ. Don't beat yourself up too much. There are a huge amount of endorphins to be gained merely by skin-to-skin contact. I think that the nicest things are to hold, caress, kiss and receive the same in return.
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If it's the nerve or inability to focus, taking a break, cuddling and talking a bit, trying to relax (but not trying too desperate since that has the opposite effect) and trying it again works in a lot of cases.
 
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How was I not invited to this party? this thread looks almost tailored for me, can I join? pretty please with sugar on top? :shy:
 
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Zweihander said:
How was I not invited to this party? this thread looks almost tailored for me, can I join? pretty please with sugar on top? :shy:
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*insert grin here* Nooo! I won't be back in Japan until December! Hopefully the party is still going then...
 
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Who feels worse in this situation? The male who couldn't pop or the female that couldn't get the male to pop. First time with a deriheru girl, didn't pop, but was hard the whole two hours. Second time with the same girl, three hours this time, still no pop. She even gave me FS. She said that she came though, so that made me happy at least.
 
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