I wouldn't call it BS. One older provider (pushing 60) I've been seeing for more than 10 years is very well preserved as she has beautiful skin tone, very average looking face, is slim and fit, knows how to get nasty and perverted when necessary and overall a very pleasant and customer service oriented person. She is very busy and always booked so scheduling on short notice is near impossible. Her technique, sexiness and overall package is very good for her age group. I've probably seen her 75+ times over the years and don't share her with friends or anyone else out of respect and selfishness (sorry). I don't think she would ever breach that line between professional and personal, nor would I ever consider it as our professional relationship is good. COVID was bad for business and all of these ladies were obviously struggling that nightmare in early 2020 when little was known about the virus. I kept in contact with her but stayed away from the hobby for almost 3 years. My first time seeing her again was delightful as expected and I asked her how she was doing and asked her how much personal stress the pandemic had for her. She said she received minimal government aid but has sufficient savings to survive quite well compared to other ladies in her business. I hinted to her without trying to insult her dignity to let me know if there was anything I could do as I had saved a lot of money during the pandemic from not eating out and not enjoying services. As a true professional she told me she was fine and not struggling (absolutely no way to know the truth but at least I put it out there) and I apologized for talking about a depressing topic. She is a true professional and handled it very well, even if I pissed her off she did not show it. I believe she appreciated my concern.
One thing really stands out about her healing abilities. I had a really nice session going with her but for some reason I could not pop. With her this never happened before because she is a hentai pervert's dream in terms of getting nasty and sexy. I was out drinking the night before and was probably dehydrated or off a bit and it just wasn't going to work that day. It happens to some of us, even under the best of conditions and it wasn't due to negative thoughts or other things that might cause me to fail but shit happens. When I told her I wasn't going to finish her next actions were remarkable, stunning and amazing. First, she separates gently from our 69 position (where I always finish with her) and lays down next to me and doesn't say a word, just embraces and acts exactly the same way we always finish. I quietly apologized and she ignored it and kept the embrace awhile longer than usual. After a few minutes she got up and went on to clean herself up as she always does, then called me over to get cleaned up, all as if nothing happened. I know a lady can feel bad due to inadequacy but she really put me at ease with her professionalism. We parted ways as usual and that was it. I almost never fail like this but obviously it is not a good feeling when it happens but her pretending like it didn't happened really increased my respect for her people skills.
I booked an extended appointment with her a few weeks after this happened and everything went off as expected (thankfully) and I thanked her for her professionalism and her skills to make a man feel like a man even when he's not performing like a man. She smiled and nodded and left it at that. She's been in this business for decades and is very well skilled and displayed a level of professionalism above and beyond expected Japanese norms, especially at this price point (cheaper end).
