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So I had sex with a girl in Tobita Shinchi. And that was my first time for sex. The girl put the condom on me when I was not erect and gave me a blow job until I erect. After that we had sex, the condom stay on the whole experience. What concern me is that the condom is supposed to be put on fully erect penis only. But the girl put it on me when I was not erect. So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
 
Shounan84 said:
So I had sex with a girl in Tobita Shinchi. And that was my first time for sex. The girl put the condom on me when I was not erect and gave me a blow job until I erect. After that we had sex, the condom stay on the whole experience. What concern me is that the condom is supposed to be put on fully erect penis only. But the girl put it on me when I was not erect. So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
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You've got more chance of going to hell for your sins!.
I'd head to confession first then go to the testing center (for your peace of mind).

If you worry about this sort of shit, you have no business doing p4p. Please find a nice Aomori lass (Or Kanagawa wench if your tag name refers to the area you are living), untouched by human, and settle down in a rural area, and live life in a cotton wool house.

Oh and wash your hands well.
 
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Shounan84 said:
So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
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Honestly, I’d be more worried about getting coronavirus from her rather than HIV. Was she wearing a mask?

Wait a few weeks and go get tested for STDs. If it burns, go get tested sooner.
 
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Shounan84 said:
So I had sex with a girl in Tobita Shinchi. And that was my first time for sex. The girl put the condom on me when I was not erect and gave me a blow job until I erect. After that we had sex, the condom stay on the whole experience. What concern me is that the condom is supposed to be put on fully erect penis only. But the girl put it on me when I was not erect. So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
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You're doomed. To be 100% safe from HIV, you should have put the condom on before you left the house. ;)

Seriously though, like @Rusty Trombone said, if things like the airspace in the condom worries you :rolleyes:, stop doing p4p. :stop: Period.
 
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Shounan84 said:
So I had sex with a girl in Tobita Shinchi. And that was my first time for sex. The girl put the condom on me when I was not erect and gave me a blow job until I erect. After that we had sex, the condom stay on the whole experience. What concern me is that the condom is supposed to be put on fully erect penis only. But the girl put it on me when I was not erect. So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
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You have a higher risk to get hit by a train jumper.
 
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Yeah, I don't even understand why you are worried. I would say it's completely irrelevant when or how she put the condom on.....as long as it doesn't break during sex everything is fine.
 
Putting the condom on before an erection is pretty rare anyway as far as I know... I mean, does anyone even do that? It seems like it would be a struggle to get on lol
If health professionals have never even mentioned it, you can imagine that it’s not worth even thinking about.
 
Juliet said:
Putting the condom on before an erection is pretty rare anyway as far as I know... I mean, does anyone even do that? It seems like it would be a struggle to get on lol
If health professionals have never even mentioned it, you can imagine that it’s not worth even thinking about.
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Yes and yes and it usually happens from women who should know better;)
 
Juliet said:
Putting the condom on before an erection is pretty rare anyway as far as I know... I mean, does anyone even do that? It seems like it would be a struggle to get on lol
If health professionals have never even mentioned it, you can imagine that it’s not worth even thinking about.
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If you don't want to perform BBBJ on a guy who is not erect yet, that's the only way to do it.
 
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Alright so I've asked my doctor some similar dumb questions like that over the years. He told me that there's very little (almost zero) chance of contracting HIV these days from hetero sex. It's just not that common in the developed world. I was told there's a much greater chance that I'd catch a bacterial infection or something like HSV, which is fairly common and many people don't know they have.

So I wouldn't worry about HIV if I were you. Just chill for a couple weeks and then get yourself checked out and tested for peace of mind.
 
Try not to even think about it. It’s a non issue. In addition to statistical facts, and some snide comments here, all of us responding to you had the same concerns when we started down this path. Had the same panic and chased people for answers to alleviate our concerns. And yet, we all kept going. So take these comments as you would from old hands that’s have seen it all. Collectively we have. You’ll be fine.
 
Juliet said:
Putting the condom on before an erection... I mean, does anyone even do that?
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Challenge accepted!
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It was pretty hard...
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The attempt, not the erection... :D:ROFLMAO::whistle:
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Sorry, I’ll run away into my little hole now...
 
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TokyoExpat said:
Try not to even think about it. It’s a non issue. In addition to statistical facts, and some snide comments here, all of us responding to you had the same concerns when we started down this path. Had the same panic and chased people for answers to alleviate our concerns. And yet, we all kept going. So take these comments as you would from old hands that’s have seen it all. Collectively we have. You’ll be fine.
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but I lost my virginity to a MILF that lived a few blocks. Not once did I question STD or anything. I only questioned how lucky was I that I could be fucking at 14. The only time I worried was when I thought she farted, but it was her pussy farting in which I started laughing as I thought it was the funniest thing at the time.
 
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Hiv is a disease that is often portayed in media, such as movies, but despite the exposure, most people really do not know a lot about it, especially the contraction risks. I remember that I had read a lot about HIV, before I booked my first transsexual escort a few years ago, because I was overly worried based on so many misconceptions I had. As long as you don't do anything stupid, such as swallowing blood or sperm and use a condom properly for vaginal and anal sex, then you should be fine. When you engage in P4P you are more likely to catch other STDs than HIV.
 
Kamui16 said:
Hiv is a disease that is often portayed in media, such as movies, but despite the exposure, most people really do not know a lot about it, especially the contraction risks. I remember that I had read a lot about HIV, before I booked my first transsexual escort a few years ago, because I was overly worried based on so many misconceptions I had. As long as you don't do anything stupid, such as swallowing blood or sperm and use a condom properly for vaginal and anal sex, then you should be fine. When you engage in P4P you are more likely to catch other STDs than HIV.
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I think portrayal in movies etc also helped to create a very distorted conception of HIV and how it is transmitted. I also had a very wrong image in my head growing up, thinking that it is super contagious until I read studies about it. The chances contracting it by sex are actually pretty low...but of course if you have unprotected sex with lots of strangers probability of getting it goes up....so play it save!

Risk of HIV transmission:
Anal: receiving 1.4% / insertive 0.62%
Vaginal: receiving 0.08% / insertive 0.04%


Source:
https://stanfordhealthcare.org/medi...-health/hiv-aids/causes/risk-of-exposure.html
 
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Shounan84 said:
So I had sex with a girl in Tobita Shinchi. And that was my first time for sex. The girl put the condom on me when I was not erect and gave me a blow job until I erect. After that we had sex, the condom stay on the whole experience. What concern me is that the condom is supposed to be put on fully erect penis only. But the girl put it on me when I was not erect. So there might be some air space inside condom that vaginal fluid could get inside from the base during sex?What are the chances from getting HIV from this?
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I assume you had sexual intercourse after you got fully erect right? Then that means there wasn’t any space left between your penis and the condom when you were inside of her. I wouldn’t worry about it, but it never hurts to get tested.

By the way, it’s a bad idea to attempt intercourse if you’re having serious erection problems because the condom can slip. Too risky IMO.
 
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Virtually nobody puts on condoms in the "approved" way. I was once in a training session where the facilitator had printed condom usage instructions (from the package) onto postcards - one instruction per card. We were asked to sort the cards into the correct order. I don't think a single group got it right, although most of us worked out that the "check expiry date" was the first step. Be honest guys, how many of you do that in real life? (I would not be surprised if providers do it).

To help out the groups who were doing this exercise, the facilitator gave each group a condom and a huge blue demonstration penis. The evangelical christian lady in my group was very embarrassed about it (like she's never seen a cock in her life). All in all, it was one of the best workshops I've ever attended.

Bottom line - Nobody uses condoms 100% correctly, but they still do a damn fine job of preventing HIV
 
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Sorry to burst your bubble, but I lost my virginity to a MILF that lived a few blocks. Not once did I question STD or anything. I only questioned how lucky was I that I could be fucking at 14. The only time I worried was when I thought she farted, but it was her pussy farting in which I started laughing as I thought it was the funniest thing at the time.
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Thats statutory rape here! :confused:
 
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Out of curiosity, how did you end up in a condom training session?
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@chaztagster clearly has a much more interesting life than I do if he can mention casually that he was at a condom training session with a massive blue dildo and an religious nut and not feel like he has to clarify what he was doing there, like its just a regular Tuesday afternoon for him.
 
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Was going to be annoyed by this post, but then figured that the kind of adult male who decides to try losing his virginity somewhere like Tobita, of all places, will ask questions precisely like this.
 
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