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Hey guys, I'm not really quite sure what I'm asking here or how to articulate it properly but I would greatly appreciate input/advice from the experienced clients and possibly even providers active on this forum. It would mean a lot to me.
I somehow stumbled upon the review linked below and while I do believe it is up to the client to communicate their expectations respectfully, it did reasonate with me because a lot of my sessions unfortunately act out the same way.
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/no-country-for-young-men.21430/
I've seen a handful of gfe independents now. I love the scene but a lot of the time I'm around the same age as the provider or even younger so boundaries can get a little weird during a session. Maybe I'm too afraid to open up because it seems too real? I tend to book 2 hours, so there should be plenty of time to establish a connection. I am always respectful and the sessions end on a good note with us both hugging goodbye HOWEVER I don't know if I'm being too self critical here but they tend to be filled with awkward small talk, fake moans, and a generally lackluster experience for both myself and the escort. Since this has happened multiple times with different girls now, clearly I am the problem here and I want to fix it. I am paying way too much for gfe as a service to have us both leaving so unfulfilled.
I'm not sure if I need to be assertive in what I want (I honestly don't even really know what I want) or if I'm just setting my expectations too high. Should I start seeing the same escort more than once to establish a proper connection? Should I get over my timidness and appear more energetic and experienced right when she walks in to set the mood?
Additionally, I'd greatly appreciate some pointers as to how to keep things interesting and different - maybe I've just done the same routine over and over at this point that it's causing me to come off as robotically acting out a script?
Thanks everyone.
I somehow stumbled upon the review linked below and while I do believe it is up to the client to communicate their expectations respectfully, it did reasonate with me because a lot of my sessions unfortunately act out the same way.
https://tokyoadultguide.com/threads/no-country-for-young-men.21430/
I've seen a handful of gfe independents now. I love the scene but a lot of the time I'm around the same age as the provider or even younger so boundaries can get a little weird during a session. Maybe I'm too afraid to open up because it seems too real? I tend to book 2 hours, so there should be plenty of time to establish a connection. I am always respectful and the sessions end on a good note with us both hugging goodbye HOWEVER I don't know if I'm being too self critical here but they tend to be filled with awkward small talk, fake moans, and a generally lackluster experience for both myself and the escort. Since this has happened multiple times with different girls now, clearly I am the problem here and I want to fix it. I am paying way too much for gfe as a service to have us both leaving so unfulfilled.
I'm not sure if I need to be assertive in what I want (I honestly don't even really know what I want) or if I'm just setting my expectations too high. Should I start seeing the same escort more than once to establish a proper connection? Should I get over my timidness and appear more energetic and experienced right when she walks in to set the mood?
Additionally, I'd greatly appreciate some pointers as to how to keep things interesting and different - maybe I've just done the same routine over and over at this point that it's causing me to come off as robotically acting out a script?
Thanks everyone.
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