I had an argument with this Japanese friend of mine. My friend, which is also her friend, told me that she cannot trust me anymore and that she's scared of me--but everything was done through chatting. When I learned that she visited our place, I grabbed the opportunity to make up for her. I told my other friend to take her into a restaurant which I reserved a place for, but don't tell her that I'll be coming. Then there was the surprise--me giving her flowers. Not to mention I hired some musicians to play while I was giving her the flowers. After that, we ate but I didn't talk too much since I was nervous. It was my friend who talked a lot for the both of us.
After we took her to her boarding house, she emailed me, saying thank you and that I should not say sorry anymore. I thought it was okay then, but when I asked my other friend, this Japanese girl told her that she doesn't still trust me and that she's still scared of me.
My other friend informed me that she took her(the Japanese) to her hometown in the countryside. Having heard this, I also went there because I really want to make it up to her. There, we had some beach, we had some laugh and some talking. She was fine. She even smiled at me.
Then I told my other friend to ask her (the Japanese) what she feels about me. Then this Japanese girl told her that she STILL doesn't trust me and that she's still scared of me.
Phew! While I was writing this, I sent her some hand written letter of apology with a flower through my friend. I haven't heard the result yet.
Can anybody please help me? I heard that once you've broken a Japanese's trust, you CANNOT win it back again. I'm so sad.
After we took her to her boarding house, she emailed me, saying thank you and that I should not say sorry anymore. I thought it was okay then, but when I asked my other friend, this Japanese girl told her that she doesn't still trust me and that she's still scared of me.
My other friend informed me that she took her(the Japanese) to her hometown in the countryside. Having heard this, I also went there because I really want to make it up to her. There, we had some beach, we had some laugh and some talking. She was fine. She even smiled at me.
Then I told my other friend to ask her (the Japanese) what she feels about me. Then this Japanese girl told her that she STILL doesn't trust me and that she's still scared of me.
Phew! While I was writing this, I sent her some hand written letter of apology with a flower through my friend. I haven't heard the result yet.
Can anybody please help me? I heard that once you've broken a Japanese's trust, you CANNOT win it back again. I'm so sad.