Solong
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I find that interesting, and maybe you aren't actually doing the exercise. After that, I can't say. What the exercise does is to teach guys to resist and control the urge to cum. Stopping the flow of urine uses the same muscles, for a man, that stops him from ejaculating. Developing those muscles would impede or give greater control over ejaculating, not increase the urge to cum.I can't count the number of times I've read this, but for me I don't really find it accurate. Sure you can kegel to keep the cum from coming out once you've passed the point of no return, but that doesn't help anything. For me, doing kegels actually forces early orgasm instead. If I squeeze the muscles and masturbate I can usually come within 2-3 minutes. I think my record is closer to 30 seconds.
There is another way to help develop such skill, which is why I can usually cum at will or almost on que. Is to cum into a woman's mouth, instead of her vagina. You must resist the urge to cum, as you pull out of the woman's vagina, and bring your penis to her mouth. It makes cumming a more conscious process for a man, so develops greater control. However, this is a skill that a man must keep practicing (at least 1x or more a week), as it's easy to get lazy. Kind of like exercise.
Also, the woman and the feel of her vagina or skill can be a factor. What a lot of women don't realize, including men that haven't had a lot of women or haven't compared sex-friends or girlfriends on the same day or same time, is vagina (to include anal, mouth, and hand grip) of women can feel very different. So it can be harder to resist cumming with one woman, while very hard to cum with another.
It's hard to describe in text, but some women can also be more tuned to you or better at getting men to cum than others. Not just her physicality or skills, but her overall package. Not just beauty or act faking, which is a mistake many women make. "I'm pretty or tight, so you should cum easily/quicly" is not how it works. It's a combination of several factors: physical attributes, skills, natural behavior, manner, and attitude as well. So sometimes the excitement OR comfort level with a woman, can be a factor of a man cumming faster or slower. Though if the man has good control, it should show more often than not when having sex.