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I would appreciate reading anyone's stories regarding meeting a provider outside of her shop (either by continuing to pay her or for free).
Alternatively, a relevant 'nanpa' question: IRL if you have sex with somebody after only knowing her a couple of hours, how do you increase the odds of her wanting to keep meeting you? The fact that you two had sex so quickly would likely make her suspect that you only want her for sex and don't value her uniquely. This makes it less likely that she'll want to continue meeting than if sex occurred 4-10 hours after meeting.
Any specific details would be much appreciated. Especially with the most attractive and talented providers, they must receive so many sexual and sugar dating offers, that I wonder how they choose which options to pursue. Other than money, in your experience, what makes the best providers, AV stars, hostesses, kyabajo, etc want to pursue a sexual or romantic relationship (when their job can saturate this aspect of their life)? If only money, how much?
A disclaimer: I realize that asking for a provider's contact information can make the provider extremely uncomfortable and can get you banned from a store, potentially. Nasty Dolls even writes on their website that there is a steep financial penalty. I wouldn't recommend asking.
I'll share my somewhat limited experience first. I really liked a DH provider and repeated maybe 4-5 times. I felt like we had better chemistry than I had with anyone else I had been with before, so after each session, I joked that we should meet after she's finished with work for the day. Each time, she laughed and had a ready response. She was also strict about no FS. Finally, I told her how I felt and that I wanted to see her outside the shop, and if that was impossible, then I would only rarely see her anymore, if at all. She agreed to exchange contact info and we dated like a regular couple for several years.
I've asked 3 other DH providers after multiple meetings and FS with each. Of the three, the one I had the best chemistry with said she doesn't exchange contact info, and I apologized for asking. In fact, I only asked because she worked so rarely and had quit once before, and I was tired of girls who I had a good connection with quitting. The two others agreed. We exchanged many messages but I never asked either to meet. My interest with these two wasn't as sincere as I thought, I guess.
Alternatively, a relevant 'nanpa' question: IRL if you have sex with somebody after only knowing her a couple of hours, how do you increase the odds of her wanting to keep meeting you? The fact that you two had sex so quickly would likely make her suspect that you only want her for sex and don't value her uniquely. This makes it less likely that she'll want to continue meeting than if sex occurred 4-10 hours after meeting.
Any specific details would be much appreciated. Especially with the most attractive and talented providers, they must receive so many sexual and sugar dating offers, that I wonder how they choose which options to pursue. Other than money, in your experience, what makes the best providers, AV stars, hostesses, kyabajo, etc want to pursue a sexual or romantic relationship (when their job can saturate this aspect of their life)? If only money, how much?
A disclaimer: I realize that asking for a provider's contact information can make the provider extremely uncomfortable and can get you banned from a store, potentially. Nasty Dolls even writes on their website that there is a steep financial penalty. I wouldn't recommend asking.
I'll share my somewhat limited experience first. I really liked a DH provider and repeated maybe 4-5 times. I felt like we had better chemistry than I had with anyone else I had been with before, so after each session, I joked that we should meet after she's finished with work for the day. Each time, she laughed and had a ready response. She was also strict about no FS. Finally, I told her how I felt and that I wanted to see her outside the shop, and if that was impossible, then I would only rarely see her anymore, if at all. She agreed to exchange contact info and we dated like a regular couple for several years.
I've asked 3 other DH providers after multiple meetings and FS with each. Of the three, the one I had the best chemistry with said she doesn't exchange contact info, and I apologized for asking. In fact, I only asked because she worked so rarely and had quit once before, and I was tired of girls who I had a good connection with quitting. The two others agreed. We exchanged many messages but I never asked either to meet. My interest with these two wasn't as sincere as I thought, I guess.