Kegger
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So you know it is an absolute must have of any size challenged Japanese dwelling.Thanks to Google and your wife I now have an idea what a chocolate fountain looks like
So you know it is an absolute must have of any size challenged Japanese dwelling.Thanks to Google and your wife I now have an idea what a chocolate fountain looks like
So you know it is an absolute must have of any size challenged Japanese dwelling.
In Japan there are no official shared accounts, right? (In the sense that they are only on one person's name.)I think that works well till there are children at which point one or both usually have to sacrifice some of their independence. Shared accounts are very common. Bigger things you usually buy together...
Without children things can be different. Obviously a shared account doesn't normally mean that one controls all the money.
I guess its a question of how much you put in.. If its enough to cover bills and the occasional extravagance then .. No big dealIn Japan there are no official shared accounts, right? (In the sense that they are only on one person's name.)
Isn't that hard if people informally share their finances/savings and then wanna divorce? (As in, the person who holds the account could try to keep everything for themselves while it was earned together.)
I find this whole thread mind-boggling. To me, being an adult means being independent and supporting myself. I have no interest in my partner's finances and I would not discuss my own with them, without good reason.
I'm not American, nor are most of these things I would be interested in doing. I can understand that it follows the "standard life model" to share finances but, like getting married, it just not something I can see logic in, when thought through.
I'm not American, nor are most of these things I would be interested in doing. I can understand that it follows the "standard life model" to share finances but, like getting married, it just not something I can see logic in, when thought through.
I think this is a very prevalent mentality for anybody working for themselves. (me included)I find this whole thread mind-boggling. To me, being an adult means being independent and supporting myself. I have no interest in my partner's finances and I would not discuss my own with them, without good reason.
I don't mind sharing if i'm heavily in love and i see marriage as a pretty strong tie.I think this is a very prevalent mentality for anybody working for themselves. (me included)
I would be surprised if an independent worker thinks something else about this subject.
For myself, being in control of my own finance is an empowering thing that I will never give up nor share.
I'm very surprised.I don't mind sharing if i'm heavily in love and i see marriage as a pretty strong tie.
Slave?
It's called trust . It's called sharing responsibilities. It's called partnership. It's called a healthy relationship.
It's not BS. It's not a system of retribution based on demands.
haha I actually don't mind but it's true that women occupy a lot of space.Opposite here. If I got what I wanted I'd throw out half the shit she buys that is useless. She actually bought a chocolate fountain one day. Used once as it is a bitch to clean. Sitting on a shelf occupying space.
I've never seen the point in creating a joint account. many people do that too in my country (I'm not american) but it seems to create problems and not solving any.I'm not married so take the following with a grain of salt.
At least in the US, once you get married a host of things changes (legally). You can start filing joint tax returns, which can save you huge amounts of money. Banks allow you to open joint accounts. It might make sense to buy life insurance. When jointly signing for a mortgage on a house, the joint income matters. On top of that, America has truly atrocious maternal and paternal leave policies, so if the couple wants to have children, that throws a wrench into things (assuming they don't do independent work). For a lot of reasons, it's good to at least know how much your partner earns in a married relationship, even if just for planning.
can you help me see a point in it ?
the practical part isn't obvious, you have to calculate the overall expenses anyway to decide how much money you put in the joint account anyway. calculating half of that isn't really complicated.Partly it is symbolic; it is the couple saying to each other that it is "our money" that we earn and spend jointly and we trust each other totally and implicitly to have access to it and to use it in our joint interest. It also implies a deep trust in the other person's judgement and good will.
Partly it is purely practical; it avoids having to calculate splits on all sorts of expenses and then pay them with two checks or transfers or whatever. There are also legal advantages in many countries. For example when one person dies, the other person does not have to pay inheritance tax on money held in a joint account.
-Ww
the practical part isn't obvious, you have to calculate the overall expenses anyway to decide how much money you put in the joint account anyway. calculating half of that isn't really complicated.
and the inheritance part isn't a concern in my country as there is no inheritance tax here.
they do that here too and then they argue about personnal expenses.The simplest approach is that you both put it all in. That is the most common thing to do in the US, at least in my generation.
there is no question of who controls the money either when each one controls his own money.Tax is only one of the issues. If there is a joint account there is no question of who controls the money when one of the account owners dies (or becomes incapacitated or whatever). If no one else's name is on the account of the deceased person it is necessary to go through some legal process (execution of a will if there is one and something far more complex if there is not one) to determine who gets the money.
-Ww
they do that here too and then they argue about personnal expenses.
that's why I say it creates problems and it doesn't solve any.
if one of the account owners die it makes sense that it goes through legal process because the living one doesn't have to necesseraly be the one who gets all the money. there could be children or other people named by the deceased's will.
Either shared household expenses.I've never seen the point in creating a joint account. many people do that too in my country (I'm not american) but it seems to create problems and not solving any.
can you help me see a point in it ?
Either shared household expenses.
Or a bigger account where you shave together because the bigger your saving the bigger your interest.
True but it used to be different. And there are still some good options for saving accounts i think.In times of negative interest rates more often the opposite is true.