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I should clarify. Despite my wording I did not intend the guidelines/suggestions I listed in my second post of the thread (or #11 posted later) as ironclad rules that every monger should always follow or anything close to being that prescriptive. Indeed, I have violated most or all of them myself more than once. Rather I meant something like, "In order to reduce the chance of patronizing a non-consenting sex-worker, *avoid* ..."
Imo it is best to pay attention to as many of these factors as is practical in a given situation and for you personal circumstances, financial and otherwise. Moreover, when you violate them, you should take particular care to use the second type of techniques after you meet her, i.e., seeing if there are any indications physical or otherwise that she is not doing the work willingly.
In the end, as with most things in life, there is no perfect formula; you have to use your own best judgment...as you are doing with the touring Russian escorts you mention I guess.
-Ww
Thanks for clarifying, it makes much lore sense to me like that.
Also I feel that keeping wide horizons in p4p brings more satisfaction, because the more diversity the better.
For instance I do like (ok, love) upscale educated well-travelled western internet-savvy independant escorts with rising rates up to a point I can't keep up
But having detailed this pattern, and no matter how unique and sexy these ladies are, it's enjoyable to meet different girls that have their world (and yours as well) go round in different ways.
That's where some different kinds of research needs to be done, and where risk of abuse is stronger.