How to determine what shop is what?

[Javelin]

Hello,

I'm wondering how you know what shop offers what by just walking around?

I've lived in Tokyo for soon 2 years and have been thinking of trying some various services but I have no idea what is what or where to start. I don't have any previous experience with anything like this, I've never even been inside a regular strip club. I'm completely new so sorry if it's a stupid question.

For example, I pass Kabukicho everyday and all I see is massage parlors, strip clubs and kyabakura. Is that the places for the BJ? Or do I need to know in beforehand what the shop offers etc?

As for escort services, are they always online and by phone?

I'm getting nervous just looking at reviews here on TAG but I think I'd at least give it a try before heading back home for a longer period.

I also speak near fluent Japanese(I rarely use english in my everyday life).

 

[TAG Manager]

The only shops that you can see just walking around are:

- Pink Salon
- Massage (Regular and Those with HE's)
- Image Club/Fashion Health
- Kyabakura/Girls Bars/Oppai Bars (etc.)
- Soaplands (but only in certain areas of Tokyo)

The rest:

- Delivery Health
- Escorts (Agency, Independent, etc.)

...are done by phone and/or a combination of email and phone. There are some cases where a DH will have a counter you can go to, but that's an exception to the usual rule.

You first have to decide what you want to try first... what service do you want the most?

A lot of people break the ice by going to a massage place that gives happy endings (hand jobs). Some people go for pink salons (blow jobs). Others just plunk the money down and go for a Delivery Health or Escort - which you meet at a love hotel or have them come to your apartment/house/hotel.

 

[Javelin]

The only shops that you can see just walking around are:

- Pink Salon
- Massage (Regular and Those with HE's)
- Image Club/Fashion Health
- Kyabakura/Girls Bars/Oppai Bars (etc.)
- Soaplands (but only in certain areas of Tokyo)

The rest:

- Delivery Health
- Escorts (Agency, Independent, etc.)

...are done by phone and/or a combination of email and phone. There are some cases where a DH will have a counter you can go to, but that's an exception to the usual rule.

You first have to decide what you want to try first... what service do you want the most?

A lot of people break the ice by going to a massage place that gives happy endings (hand jobs). Some people go for pink salons (blow jobs). Others just plunk the money down and go for a Delivery Health or Escort - which you meet at a love hotel or have them come to your apartment/house/hotel.

Thanks for the reply!

What's Soaplands if you don't mind me asking?

So, if I were to go out on a hunt for let's say Pink salons, is there a distinctive difference between these and tittybars or massage parlors?

Well, I've had relationships in Japan but wanted to try the "hot sex" since there was a slight lack of that.
I think a escort service would suit me well maybe?

Obviously, my mind wanders into places where I want to try most things just to see if it's something for me.

 

[User#8628]

massage parlors, strip clubs and kyabakura. Is that the places for the BJ

Please dont mistake this!
Kyabakura is not for blowjobs. If its a regular kyabakura you pay money to drink with girls. No sexual play at all.

In massage parlors, handjobs are sometimes on offer, blowjobs not so much. Sex sometimes but its not so common and likely not in Shinjuku.

Stip clubs is just seeing girls dance in sexy clothes/almost naked. In peepshops however, you can get a handjob or blowjob after you watch the girl dance but in regular strip clubs you cant.

 

[TAG Manager]

What's Soaplands if you don't mind me asking?

Soaplands - you take a bath with a girl and usually have protected sex with her. You're paying for the bath with the girl, not the sex.
(she puts you on mat and rubs your body with hers, etc.)

So, if I were to go out on a hunt for let's say Pink salons, is there a distinctive difference between these and tittybars or massage parlors?

Pink Salons aren't nearly as common as Massage places - These are places strictly for blow jobs. The other places have different service that does not include a blow job.

Well, I've had relationships in Japan but wanted to try the "hot sex" since there was a slight lack of that.
I think a escort service would suit me well maybe?

If you want a customized approach to fit your needs, a escort or similar service would be your safest bet but not the cheapest.

 

[Javelin]

Thank you all.

This helps a lot!

 

[User#8628]

Thanks for the reply!

What's Soaplands if you don't mind me asking?

So, if I were to go out on a hunt for let's say Pink salons, is there a distinctive difference between these and tittybars or massage parlors?

Well, I've had relationships in Japan but wanted to try the "hot sex" since there was a slight lack of that.
I think a escort service would suit me well maybe?

Obviously, my mind wanders into places where I want to try most things just to see if it's something for me.

Soaplands is real sex, plus a lot of shower play and sometimes a wet gel massage.

Pink salons you get a blowjob and you can also touch the girl if she's ok. But its semi public, you sit in a room with other men.
Massage places, blowjob is not so likely.
Titty bars have a rule of one the upper body touching, so you can make out with the girl and touch her boobs, nothing else.

If you dont know what kind of service a shop gives, dont pressure for things. It ruins the image of foreigners and makes it harder for them to get into such places. Be a gentleman.

 

[Javelin]

If you dont know what kind of service a shop gives, dont pressure for things. It ruins the image of foreigners and makes it harder for them to get into such places. Be a gentleman.

Absolutely.
I'm afraid of me being quiet and awkward to be honest.

I think a more specialized intimate escort service would suit me the best.

Thanks for the explanations and tips! Highly appreciated.

 

[CharlieSimms]

Please dont mistake this!
Kyabakura is not for blowjobs. If its a regular kyabakura you pay money to drink with girls. No sexual play at all.

Ah, but the beauty of the business model! So many guys going after this forbidden fruit again and again!! Rather, one might pay more than one would normally for p4p anyway for a crack at "seduction"! Not that I haven't fallen for this many many a time. No regrets though - all good times.

 

[RandomTokyoGuy]

You live in Japan for 2 years, so you speak Japanese fairly well? The staff will usually gladly explain the rules, most of the times whether you like it or not.

If you can read limited Japanese it's usually quite easy to distinguish what is what. PS offer no nomihodai or drink menu, sexy kyaba also usually have that written somewhere in hiragana, massage is not a kanji word either, ...

Kabukicho is not the best place to explore, because of all the annoying touts. Just walk around ikebukuro, look at the shop signs, Google the shop and you will quickly understand

 

[Karbon]

If you are quiet (shy) and a first timer your choice could be to go to Shinjuku where the staff (usually 1 person) is gaijin friendly and then choose Yumi chan (you can check her schedule on the website)
who is very sweet (see reviews on TAG) and will rapidly ease your nerves. There are probably other sweet girls for first timers at Shibuya, see the reviews.
Using an escort might be more difficult as you would need to book a LH and it can be intimidating if you don't know the process though you speak japanese.
You can also meet an escort in a public place and go with her to a LH.

 

[User#8628]

If you are quiet (shy) and a first timer your choice could be to go to Shinjuku where the staff (usually 1 person) is gaijin friendly and then choose Yumi chan (you can check her schedule on website)
who is very sweet (see reviews on TAG) and will rapidly ease your nerves. There are probably other sweet girls for first timers at Shibuya, see the reviews.
Using an escort might be more difficult as you would need to book a LH and it can be intimidating if you don't know the process though you speak japanese.
You can also meet an escort in a public place and go with her to a LH.

Important for newcommers to also note that doesn't offer penis in vagina sex.
None of the Japanese escort agencies can offer this officially.
There are two agencies only aimed at foreigners that care less about the laws than, probably because they aim to be less on the radar.
Those would be Asian Mystique and Nasty Dolls.

For a very very hot time, you could also rely on TAG very own Japanese experienced woman @Manami TMK
Her rules may be easier to understand than the Japanese shops and i cant imagine she would disappoint in bed.

 

[TAG Manager]

Using an escort might be more difficult as you would need to book a LH and it can be intimidating if you don't know the process though you speak japanese.
You can also meet an escort in a public place and go with her to a LH.

Escorts have more intimate knowledge and are very hands on when it comes to making sure things go smoothly. 95% of them prefer to meet outside of the hotel anyway. It's the easiest choice for anyone who's new to the scene.

The independents (and some agency girls too) are far less mechanical than some of the more traditional DH services.

 

[impish]

The only shops that you can see just walking around are:

- Pink Salon
- Massage (Regular and Those with HE's)
- Image Club/Fashion Health
- Kyabakura/Girls Bars/Oppai Bars (etc.)
- Soaplands (but only in certain areas of Tokyo)

The rest:

- Delivery Health
- Escorts (Agency, Independent, etc.)

@TAG Manager forgot about "Hotel Health". Which is Delivery Health where they actually have a shop you can go into, and choose the girl from a non blurred out photo. Sometimes the girls will meet you at the shop other times you'll meet them at the hotel like delivery health.

 

[LKjdklfje64j]

If you are quiet (shy) and a first timer your choice could be to go to Shinjuku where the staff (usually 1 person) is gaijin friendly and then choose Yumi chan (you can check her schedule on the website)
who is very sweet (see reviews on TAG) and will rapidly ease your nerves. There are probably other sweet girls for first timers at Shibuya, see the reviews.
Using an escort might be more difficult as you would need to book a LH and it can be intimidating if you don't know the process though you speak japanese.
You can also meet an escort in a public place and go with her to a LH.

yumi as a first time experience would probably ruin his impression of foreign friendly jp providers, they are rarely as beautiful as her in my experience

 

[Frenchy]

Sophie would be very good with beginners too. And she speaks fluent English (but not so much Japanese).