Incall Preferences

[User#6517]

I’m planning a tour to Singapore next month, and have already booked my flights.. but now I’m deciding where to stay. It would have to be either a 4-star hotel or a 5-star hotel since I don’t really like the lower-star hotels’ interior designs. I’m going against Airbnb on this trip for safety reasons.

I’ve seen some reviews of providers who offered incalls and sometimes the clients would describe the room.. so I want to make sure I can provide a nice, comfortable incall location.

Would you (clients) care if you were seeing an escort at her incall and her location was an apartment, 3-star hotel, 4-star hotel, 5-star hotel, etc.? Is it because of interior design, accessibility, safety..?

Thanks in advance!

 

[Verbal]

Most of the providers I saw previously were incall. Some were questionable hotels, and a few were 4 star business hotels.

As long as the place feels safe, I've never had an issue with the location. I'm looking to spend time with the provider, not a place to sleep.

That said, if she's billing herself as high class, a two star hotel doesn't match with her image.

 

[FanBoy74]

My preference is not necessarily based on stars but if feels at all shady I'm out. I figure most indie ladies value their own safety so they're usually ok in that respect. So the shady aspect is solely for me...

 

[jhingy567]

I’m planning a tour to Singapore next month, and have already booked my flights.. but now I’m deciding where to stay. It would have to be either a 4-star hotel or a 5-star hotel since I don’t really like the lower-star hotels’ interior designs. I’m going against Airbnb on this trip for safety reasons.

I’ve seen some reviews of providers who offered incalls and sometimes the clients would describe the room.. so I want to make sure I can provide a nice, comfortable incall location.

Would you (clients) care if you were seeing an escort at her incall and her location was an apartment, 3-star hotel, 4-star hotel, 5-star hotel, etc.? Is it because of interior design, accessibility, safety..?

Thanks in advance!

I personally would not mind, as long as the room is spacious and is kept clean. Having said that, it would feel a lot safer knocking on a door at a 5star hotel, rather than a room at a motel 69 (as both client going to incall or an escort on outcall).

imo I dont think guys would actually care, as long as good service is provided - stylish interior design is just a cherry on top.
For me, when going out to eat, the quality of the food is most important. I dont really care what the restaurant looks like.
eating Kebab on a park bench would be almost just as satisfying as eating the same kebab at an upscale restaurant.
Yes, i just compared an escort service with food. No offence intended.

Don't think you'd go wrong with a 4 star hotel. the perceived quality difference between 4 star and 5 star hotels is probably not worth the price difference.

 

[Rusty Trombone]

Don't think you'd go wrong with a 4 star hotel. the perceived quality difference between 4 star and 5 star hotels is probably not worth the price difference.

I agree with this. Difference between 4 and 5 star is mostly stuff. Don't care about any way.

Things I'd consider:
1. Unless the hotel has a liberal cleaning policy, you're only going to be able to have 1 session a day in the room. If I went into a hotel room with a high end provider and it looked like someone else had used it, I'd be pissed.

2. id worry if I was using the room as my accommodation that I'd have all my personal effects in the room. Sure passports etc can go in the safe, but I'd still worry about the security of my possessions. If it is financially possible then I'd get a room for myself to sleep in, and another for entertaining in.

 

[uyeo]

incall is only 1 step closer to the real GFE
in the end of the day, real GF will let you do her in her crib
unfortunately, working ladies throw away word GFE so easily these days, without even providing incall
#zannen

 

[User#6517]

incall is only 1 step closer to the real GFE
in the end of the day, real GF will let you do her in her crib
unfortunately, working ladies throw away word GFE so easily these days, without even providing incall
#zannen

GFE is just an acronym for a service type. Doesn’t have to be taken literally.

Also, this thread is 6 months old.

 

[uyeo]

hence, the service name should be FGFE
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F for fake

 

[Hofmeyer]

You're spouting a lot of horseshit all over the place. Artificially inflating your post count won't get you anything here, ya know.

 

[Babaram]

Also, this thread is 6 months old.

Good point. So, which hotel did you choose?

 

[kozak001]

Have you tried Hotel M Singapore? I've been there a couple times and the room is decent size. Some local escorts use it too, only thing is that to get to the rooms you have to get the client yourself as they require a card key. And you can only go to your room floor, so if your room is on the 6th floor you can only go to the 6th.

That said, I don't mind either.. I mean, it'd be nice if it was a 5 star hotel for obvious reasons. But don't expect the locals to dress up nicely since it's so damn hot

 

[User#6517]

Good point. So, which hotel did you choose?

Apologies, I can’t reveal that information due to safety reasons. When touring internationally, I only reveal my incall location after screening.

 

[Babaram]

Apologies, I can’t reveal that information due to safety reasons. When touring internationally, I only reveal my incall location after screening.

That's ok, did you decide on 4 or 5 stars? (In Spore, 4 are fine.)

 

[User#6517]

That's ok, did you decide on 4 or 5 stars? (In Spore, 4 are fine.)

A 4-star hotel, since it was my first tour in Singapore and I didn’t want to spend too much on an incall location in case I couldn’t earn the expenses back. Fortunately, it was a successful tour.

 

[User#8628]

incall is only 1 step closer to the real GFE
in the end of the day, real GF will let you do her in her crib
unfortunately, working ladies throw away word GFE so easily these days, without even providing incall
#zannen

Bullshit, when you start dating a potential hottie, you use a love hotel together because it's convenient, safe and luxury. Also having a girl come to your private appartment would work just as fine for gfe.

Incall is great if you like to bang on the same sheets as all the guys before you

 

[bdole]

Bullshit, when you start dating a potential hottie, you use a love hotel together because it's convenient, safe and luxury. Also having a girl come to your private appartment would work just as fine for gfe.

Incall is great if you like to bang on the same sheets as all the guys before you

Hah. That's my issue right now. I'm new, so incall just feels...squicky to me. Maybe I just haven't built up the tolerance, but I'll take an outcall any day of the week, even if it costs me more.

 

[jhingy567]

Hah. That's my issue right now. I'm new, so incall just feels...squicky to me. Maybe I just haven't built up the tolerance, but I'll take an outcall any day of the week, even if it costs me more.

Yes totally agree. Something just feels so uncomfortable about incall (im new to p4p too though). Id only consider it for a girl ive already seen. And it's not just about dirty sheets, but rather many factors seem to be out of our control. It's as if we should do some "screening" on the escort herself beforehand
(Yes i can be paranoid)

 

[bdole]

Yes totally agree. Something just feels so uncomfortable about incall (im new to p4p too though). Id only consider it for a girl ive already seen. And it's not just about dirty sheets, but rather many factors seem to be out of our control. It's as if we should do some "screening" on the escort herself beforehand
(Yes i can be paranoid)

That plays into it too. The thing I realized before my first session was that the same reasons I am uncomfortable with incall, the girl would feel about visiting me. So I tried to be extremely accommodating and non threatening.

I met her in the lobby of the hotel to give her a chance to look at me and back out of there if she desired. Despite it going against every instinct I have when on a date, I walked into my hotel room first so she could see it without worrying about me being behind her, in case something in there tripped a warning sense for her. I stayed back a bit while she looked around the room.

Maybe that was why she felt comfortable enough to initiate a lot with me. I'm going to chalk it up to that and see if it continues to work for me.

 

[Wwanderer]

The thing I realized before my first session was that the same reasons I am uncomfortable with incall, the girl would feel about visiting me. So I tried to be extremely accommodating and non threatening.

Far beyond the specific context of incall situations, trying (very hard) to see things from the provider’s perspective (without her having to ask or prod you to do so, directly or indirectly) and take that into account in your interactions with her is AN ABSOLUTELY WONDERFUL way to improve the quality of your p4p experiences and your connections with SWs. At least it has been for me.

Indeed, this principle extends to np4p and very many other aspects of life that have nothing to do with sex at all. Rather than thinking about yourself from your own perspective, think about how the other person/people perceive you. It works like magic to make everyone happier and more satisfied in most situations and gives you a HUGE advantage in poker games!

-Ww

 

[jhingy567]

trying (very hard) to see things from the provider’s perspective

I know this might be going on a tangent, but when looking at escort rates:
I do try to remind myself of the physical/mental discomforts they endure, not to mention the potential risks (not talking STDs) they expose themselves to...

 

[Wwanderer]

I know this might be going on a tangent, but when looking at escort rates:
I do try to remind myself of the physical/mental discomforts they endure, not to mention the potential risks (not talking STDs) they expose themselves to...

Very important consideration, imo, and an excellent example of what I meant in my post you quote.

Another example: Many, perhaps most, mongers who feel that an escort's rates are too high think only from their own perspective, i.e., think only about the time she spends with them and the services she provides to them. They forget all the other time and effort that she has to devote to her work in order for the dates to happen - advertising (arranging it, not just paying for it), maintaining her health and appearance, responding to inquiries (many/most of which don't lead to bookings), transportation to/from their place or arranging and maintaining an incall location, sometimes getting stood up by customers etc.

None of this is any news to most experienced and/or thoughtful mongers, one would think, but it is incredibly common to hear guys say things like, "I paid her X hundred dollars and all she did was spend an hour with me and give me one pop.” Nope, she did and was charging you for much more than that, just like when you buy something in a store you are being charged for their advertising, rent, insurance costs, shoplifting losses etc, not just the merchandise you purchased.

In short, the job looks very different from the escort's perspective than from her customer's.

-Ww

 

[MossBoss]

Many, perhaps most, mongers who feel that an escort's rates are too high think only from their own perspective, i.e., think only about the time she spends with them and the services she provides to them.
-Ww

Well... almost every consumer of every service or product primarily thinks of their own perspective. I'm sure a lot of TAG members use this website like a price comparison site when deciding how to spend their money.

Sadly, not everyone has the same romantic view of the world as @Wwanderer.

 

[Wwanderer]

not everyone has the same romantic view of the world as @Wwanderer.

Ime an opportunity to be different is an opportunity to have an advantage (not a very Japanese perspective I realize).

-Ww

 

[User#8628]

I know this might be going on a tangent, but when looking at escort rates:
I do try to remind myself of the physical/mental discomforts they endure, not to mention the potential risks (not talking STDs) they expose themselves to...

Yes, basically this is a job that is well paid on the average because girls have to be convinced to do it.
I think that if they would pay average salaries, most brothels would be empty since the main reason most girls seem to work there is either depts or needing the money for unexpected expenses, or wanting to save for some goal.

Personally i’m not bothered by the work but i’m not gonna go under the market rate, on the contrary, because i’m not desperate i can afford to be more picky.

The other most important reason is i cant make that good money with this job forever and want to secure some things before when i get old, then i may drop my rates and do it more like a fun escape from boring daily life, unless i turn out to be a top milf who’s still in high demand.

The downsides that would make me not do it for an average salary are std risks and social judgement.
I’m tired of being a social paria and not being able to be honest about what i do because for most people its absolutely disgusting

 

[MikeH]

I’m tired of being a social paria and not being able to be honest about what i do because for most people its absolutely disgusting

Is that the case even in Japan? In Europe it seems to be that the different feminist organizations are basically the ones who push the agenda that an escort must be a loser drug user who has sex for money just in order to survive.

All the guys back in the old country I know treat escorts more like a therapist.