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I'm finally back in Japan after a fair few years away and my Japanese has improved significantly to the point where simultaneous translation is part of my job.
However, compared to about 5 years ago when I was here with bad Japanese I'm getting laid less and having worse luck even meeting people.
I'm 30 so I'm not even that old. I'm decent looking at around a 7 and I'm in the same shape I was 5 years ago.
Work/life balance is roughly the same.
I'm trying everything in Japanese and I thought I would probably do better since I can actually communicate with people in their native language but it seems to be the opposite.
I'm considering just playing the dumb Gaijin with bad Japanese again instead of trying to use Japanese.
What's everyone's experience here?
If you speak Japanese do you try everything in Japanese or do you play dumb/play up your foreignness?
However, compared to about 5 years ago when I was here with bad Japanese I'm getting laid less and having worse luck even meeting people.
I'm 30 so I'm not even that old. I'm decent looking at around a 7 and I'm in the same shape I was 5 years ago.
Work/life balance is roughly the same.
I'm trying everything in Japanese and I thought I would probably do better since I can actually communicate with people in their native language but it seems to be the opposite.
I'm considering just playing the dumb Gaijin with bad Japanese again instead of trying to use Japanese.
What's everyone's experience here?
If you speak Japanese do you try everything in Japanese or do you play dumb/play up your foreignness?