Hello guys, hope u guys have a nice day!
I'm an Asian, also a virgin man (I'm 25 years old). After graduated in university, I was recruited by a big Japan company in 2019, so I've been at Japan for 3 years, my Japanese is like a native speaker. As you guys know, an Asian study almost time till University, like a nerd (exactly who I am lol).
As I'm a virgin man, I have no experience at all, so I want to try something bring new experience. I wanna try FS like soapland. Is it ok if a virgin man go to soapland for the first time? A girl in soapland will be friendly with a virgin man, or they don't like? Do they like to lead everything? Because no experience man like me don't know what I need to do in particular situation.
The average SL worker doesn't give a rat's ass if you're a virgin and if you go American Pie and blow your load the second she pulls her panties down because it's the first time you've seen a vagina in real life then I promise you she'll be happy. If money has already changed hands then the sooner she gets rid of your nervous, fumbling ass the better.
I don't know how you've managed to go 25 years without getting laid--couldn't you just beg a fellow nerd from chemistry lab to pity fuck you??--but keep in mind you're only going to have proper dick function for another few years, max. Add to that the nervousness and apprehension you're going to have, anyway, the first time some girl gets naked with you, and I'd strongly consider getting a few sildenafil tabs just to make sure you don't waste your money.
Honestly, I wouldn't elect to lose your virginity with a provider, and not for all the sentimental reasons. I have a couple of severely socially-challenged friends who went that route, and today we're all in our mid-40s and they're still single, living at home and pissing away every last cent on some provider they think actually has the hots for them. It's your first whack--earn it like a man. FFS, you're an Asian dork recruited by a company in Japan. Not only should you have some cash, but you must be, literally, surrounded by other Asian dork loser women, some of whom may actually be virgins, also, and you'd be surprised how kinky a dick-starved former first-seat flute player national merit scholar programmer Asian female can be. Seriously, single out the weirdest, most socially-challenged slightly-overweight Asian female coworker you have, man the fuck up and ask her if she's down for slamming house ale towers at HUB after work on a Friday night. Don't be surprised if you end up hog-tied in some LH room while she sniffs your asshole and pisses on your head. When I was in my early-20s and working in an Osaka eikaiwa, I found out that two of the chubby American girls working at our branch were actually virgins and had made a pact with each other to lose their virginity with the first coworker that offered them dick. I also found out that one of them had singled me out as her preferred first experience. And lose their virginity they did, after an office staff bender at Jankara. No, 'twas not I who braved that twat. And yes, I was quite offended that some stunted, overweight Cali girl thought I'd be the easiest lay.
But if you must go the paid route, as others have suggested, go with a trusted indy and you can find a number of them right here in the ads. Explain your predicament and believe me, you're not the first grown man customer who's never seen a vagina before. They're going to be far, far more accommodating than any SL worker. TAG really does have phenomenal independents and you won't have to worry about getting ripped-off, robbed or having them shame you here in the forums for being a two-pump-chump. Just realize that you might be opening Pandora's Box, here, and may end up spending the next few years down the P4P rabbit hole, only coming to your senses at age 32 and finding yourself broke, confused, lonely but with some serious coin in the spank bank.