Is It Normal For An Escort To Be This... Rude? Or Am I Just Oversensitive?

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Hey there,

You may have read my other topic a few threads down about losing my virginity to an escort. I decided to take the plunge and try to schedule a meetup, but the exchange seemed very hostile to me, and I didn't feel very welcomed. Emotionally I feel like I've lost interest, but its a very rare opportunity to be able to indulge into this fetish so I also feel like I want to pursue it. I'm not sure if this is just very typical conversation and that I'm just being oversensitive, or if this escort is a little rude.

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holy shit i loled.

Dude, really, dont go there. Stay away from that place.

Ur gonna be trauma for good. Heres what i suggest, like a bro would: look for a not pregnant escort and explain her your situation, im sure there are girls out there who can take the lead and make you have a wonderful experience.

There was nothing, absolutely nothing wrong about your behaviour, but she was a total bitch. U may rest assured you did not mistreat her.

Maybe you can leave your fetish for another time, i think you will enjoy it more once you dont have so many things to worry, like having sex for the first time in your life. I know this can be a big deal, it was for me too, but its just that first time.

Look, i know you are afraid of never having a chance like that again, but believe me, you will, if you want to. You will even be faced with stuff that you DO NOT want to lol

also, good morning
 
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Some escorts behave this way, yes. She's probably not that classy, and you don't want a girl to make fun of you when you're still learning the basics.

9-months pregnant is also complicated to have sex you know : indeed she cant move/lead much, she may wish her pregnancy to finish soon and...well by itself this could explain her deliciously down-to-earth tone.
 
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preggofetish said:
I'm not sure if this is just very typical conversation and that I'm just being oversensitive, or if this escort is a little rude.
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If anything, you're being overly polite. She's more than a little rude... whether you stick with the fetish or not, if an escort can't display basic manners in your initial exchange, she's unlikely to improve much in person. The second message she sent would have been a dealkiller for me.
 
I don't really get those kind of attitude from some Escorts. They wanna make money right? There is no need to be rude towards a potential customer unless he is disrespectful or rude himself (well, still no excuse tho..)
Some girls need a guidebook as how to behave like an Escort or do some training. I do read a lot of negative reviews in forums and I always wonder why those girl behave the way they do... Yeah not everybody likes sex work, I get that but then go for another job instead and don't force yourself into it, even tho it's good money. There are plenty other things to do. The money will eventually stop flowing once she is known for her behavior or bad service or whatever. So why not try to be nice, charming and courteous so she can make repeating clients.

And if she is 9 months pregnant and almost done with it, she should just stop it instead of acting like that. Hormones can go crazy yeah...
 
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If anything, you're being overly polite. She's more than a little rude... whether you stick with the fetish or not, if an escort can't display basic manners in your initial exchange, she's unlikely to improve much in person. The second message she sent would have been a dealkiller for me.
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She lost me at "Hey hun".
 
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As your first time, I think that once you get started you won't care if she is pregnant or Kim Kardashian. Find an escort that seems encouraging and will give you her full attention, then lay back and enjoy the ride. Your fetish side order can wait for another time.

Advice - intercourse can set off labour contractions. Climbing stairs is another. You'd want to be careful that you don't more than bargained for if an escort is heavily pregnant. No time to call up Mum and ask for advice!
 
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Advice - intercourse can set off labour contractions. Climbing stairs is another. You'd want to be careful that you don't more than bargained for if an escort is heavily pregnant. No time to call up Mum and ask for advice!
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Hopefully she doesn't drop her load before the OP does.

Good Luck!
 
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While quite some escorts are a bit wary and impatient because of time wasters, she is a bit over the top (probably because of the hormones like other people mentioned).
Maybe better to keep looking for someone else.
 
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Rudeness is found sometimes not just in the words, but rather the attitude. You could be extremely formal and yet make a preposterous request, and the person denying that request could be extremely curt and yet be within reason.

As the escort replied to you in the conversation, she is heavily pregnant and cannot possibly lead you in your first sexual experience simply as a matter of the physical work involved. You are limited to the missionary position and no more, that’s all if you forget about porn fantasies. If you are not aware of that from the let go, you are probably wasting her time. You ask for “patience and someone who is willing to teach you the tropes”… in a 30 minute session. Since you are completely inexperienced, that’s meant to cover not only sex for the first time, but also how escorting works, and finally the specifics of sex with a pregnant woman. A lot of escorts under the most normal circumstances only do 1 hour or longer sessions because of how rushed the experience can be with less time.

Leaving aside the issue of being oblivious to the circumstances of a woman doing sex work while being heavily pregnant, just assuming that she is willingly doing it, you are as red as red flag can be for a time waster in an escort’s inbox. If it makes you feel better, you probably didn’t waste her time at all and from the let go she answered curtly to your email only to relief some stress, knowing well beforehand that most likely she wouldn’t be losing any business.

You are inexperienced and that in itself is not a bad thing, but being unaware of it to such degree can turn bad in the future. Some people here are cutting you some slack that you don’t deserve at all. It was you, not her, who was incredibly rude.
 
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Rudeness is found sometimes not just in the words, but rather the attitude. You could be extremely formal and yet make a preposterous request, and the person denying that request could be extremely curt and yet be within reason.

As the escort replied to you in the conversation, she is heavily pregnant and cannot possibly lead you in your first sexual experience simply as a matter of the physical work involved. You are limited to the missionary position and no more, that’s all if you forget about porn fantasies. If you are not aware of that from the let go, you are probably wasting her time. You ask for “patience and someone who is willing to teach you the tropes”… in a 30 minute session. Since you are completely inexperienced, that’s meant to cover not only sex for the first time, but also how escorting works, and finally the specifics of sex with a pregnant woman. A lot of escorts under the most normal circumstances only do 1 hour or longer sessions because of how rushed the experience can be with less time.

Leaving aside the issue of being oblivious to the circumstances of a woman doing sex work while being heavily pregnant, just assuming that she is willingly doing it, you are as red as red flag can be for a time waster in an escort’s inbox. If it makes you feel better, you probably didn’t waste her time at all and from the let go she answered curtly to your email only to relief some stress, knowing well beforehand that most likely she wouldn’t be losing any business.

You are inexperienced and that in itself is not a bad thing, but being unaware of it to such degree can turn bad in the future. Some people here are cutting you some slack that you don’t deserve at all. It was you, not her, who was incredibly rude.
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Limited to missionary? I thought doggie is generally easier to access for highly pregnant women?
I agree that someone that far into a pregnancy isn't suited for a first time.

And i agree with other comments that if possible for her she shouldn't be working at all this far in the pregnancy.

You do make some very good points about escorting and time wasting emailers.
 
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Limited to missionary? I thought doggie is generally easier to access for highly pregnant women?.
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I also wondered about that but didn’t want to split hairs. I have read that doggie position is definitely better if you want to have “good pregnant sex”, both for the mother and the baby, but this is in the context of sex in a couple (no rush, cooperation and mutual understanding) and when pregnancy is not so advanced. If she is having sex more than once in the same day, and with heavy pregnancy, I would assume that doggy must put a lot of physical strain in the woman.

I admit, I have no absolute idea what I’m talking about. Just replied to clarify, but the main point remains: it’s just one or a very limited range of viable positions, and the man is the one who must do all the movement.

Just to be clear, I’m not arguing with you, User#8628, but actually also caught some interest into this detail about sex positions.

Why this escort is working while being pregnant is probably too heavy to discuss lightly.
 
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Reon said:
Rudeness is found sometimes not just in the words, but rather the attitude. You could be extremely formal and yet make a preposterous request, and the person denying that request could be extremely curt and yet be within reason.

As the escort replied to you in the conversation, she is heavily pregnant and cannot possibly lead you in your first sexual experience simply as a matter of the physical work involved. You are limited to the missionary position and no more, that’s all if you forget about porn fantasies. If you are not aware of that from the let go, you are probably wasting her time. You ask for “patience and someone who is willing to teach you the tropes”… in a 30 minute session. Since you are completely inexperienced, that’s meant to cover not only sex for the first time, but also how escorting works, and finally the specifics of sex with a pregnant woman. A lot of escorts under the most normal circumstances only do 1 hour or longer sessions because of how rushed the experience can be with less time.

Leaving aside the issue of being oblivious to the circumstances of a woman doing sex work while being heavily pregnant, just assuming that she is willingly doing it, you are as red as red flag can be for a time waster in an escort’s inbox. If it makes you feel better, you probably didn’t waste her time at all and from the let go she answered curtly to your email only to relief some stress, knowing well beforehand that most likely she wouldn’t be losing any business.

You are inexperienced and that in itself is not a bad thing, but being unaware of it to such degree can turn bad in the future. Some people here are cutting you some slack that you don’t deserve at all. It was you, not her, who was incredibly rude.
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Hmm,
It would have taken less time for her and be more useful to say : "sorry I'm 9months pregnang so I have to decline, and I would advise a 1h+ course for a first time"
 
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About positions, a 9-month pregnant girl is easily exhausted and yes you don't want to break the waters. But some are easily broken, and some still hold even a few days after the term.
It really depends on the girls, some are in even better shape than non-pregnant ones.
And there's much more than intercourse when it comes to pregnant-sex anyway.
 
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Reon said:
I also wondered about that but didn’t want to split hairs. I have read that doggie position is definitely better if you want to have “good pregnant sex”, both for the mother and the baby, but this is in the context of sex in a couple (no rush, cooperation and mutual understanding) and when pregnancy is not so advanced. If she is having sex more than once in the same day, and with heavy pregnancy, I would assume that doggy must put a lot of physical strain in the woman.

I admit, I have no absolute idea what I’m talking about. Just replied to clarify, but the main point remains: it’s just one or a very limited range of viable positions, and the man is the one who must do all the movement.

Just to be clear, I’m not arguing with you, User#8628, but actually also caught some interest into this detail about sex positions.

Why this escort is working while being pregnant is probably too heavy to discuss lightly.
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About positions, a 9-month pregnant girl is easily exhausted and yes you don't want to break the waters. But some are easily broken, and some still hold even a few days after the term.
It really depends on the girls, some are in even better shape than non-pregnant ones.
And there's much more than intercourse when it comes to pregnant-sex anyway.
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I was also not trying to argue. Just quite interested since i've never been pregnant yet and don't really know the best ways to have sex during it.
Very insightful answers of both of you! Thank you!
 
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Hmm,
It would have taken less time for her and be more useful to say : "sorry I'm 9months pregnang so I have to decline, and I would advise a 1h+ course for a first time"
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Maybe she was unsure about the proposal but in enough need for it to not decline it immediately. And maybe he (not her, as some got confused) totally messed it up at “Hey hun,” and she decided to don’t let him down so easily and instead take his fiction as far as he wanted.

Cancelations are extremely common, specially by first timers (whether it is because of virginity, new to P4P, or first time in a fetish; and this guy fills the three!). Appointments that get mixed and become even more problematic than a cancelation are also frequent. The guy gets nervous and show ups late, or there are performance issues that make him want to prolong the session, sometimes even for free, or paying but messing your schedule anyhow.

There is a huge spectrum of what looks like a viable or unviable negotiation for an appointment, and there is a lot of guessing. Sometimes the consumer misreads, and sometimes the provider misreads, nobody is perfect. However, there are circumstances when it’s so clear that the appointment is not viable that you could call it a prank rather than unsuccessful business.

If you walk accidentally into a clothing shop that is beyond your means, usually the clerks go easy on you and let you walk away with an excuse, even though the look of your face at finding out the high prices was obvious to anyone around. But if you walk purposely into a car dealership, with an attitude and knowing very well that you don’t have the means, and start asking that they let you take the cars for a test drive and do errands, don’t get surprised if they flip you off.
 
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