Anna Summer
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I think you are confusing that a bit. She started to say 'hey hun ' even before him, which is a no-go for an escort. But that's just my opinion.
Is It Normal For An Escort To Be This... Rude? Or Am I Just Oversensitive?
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I think you are confusing that a bit. She started to say 'hey hun ' even before him, which is a no-go for an escort. But that's just my opinion.
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Missionary with a heavy pregnant woman is not the best position and probably not recommended. Besides the danger of too much pressure of ghd baby it is quite disconcerting to see 'movement' - kid you not. Doggie with a pillow under her tummy is much better for all of you. Or on her side and from behind.
You know, of course, of the joke...
One twin in uetro asks the other,
"Did you order an organ?"
"No,why?"
"There are two nuts pushing one up here!"
You know, of course, of the joke...
One twin in uetro asks the other,
"Did you order an organ?"
"No,why?"
"There are two nuts pushing one up here!"
You are right, I stand corrected on the “hey hun.”
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You are all running under the assumption that she is an escort, which she probably isn't according to her communication. She is probably an amateur and her add probably was more like "horny pregnant lady looking for some fun" instead of "elegant classy courtesan looking to pamper you".
Her rates don't suggest high class escort either.
I don't see her language as rude at all. It's probably not overly professional, but who said that she is? The OP was overly vague in his messages and imho kinda insensitive to her situation. I'm not a doc nor a father, but from what I heard especially in the later stages of pregnancy the condition of a woman is at best day to day. Some days she may feel great and extremely horny and some days spend more time in the bathroom than intended.
Asking him to contact her in the same day sounds perfectly reasonable to me. Telling him that she has limited mobility is too.
Maybe I'm overly insensitive, but I don't see her making fun of him for being a virgin, just a very direct form of communication on what to expect or not. Surely not everyone's preference, but that's why it was suggested to the OP to go with an experienced lady and allot sufficient time...
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Looking at it from the provider's perspective. She might have thought he was another time waster. The scenario sounds a bit weird a 26 years old virgin asking a bunch of questions to a 9 month's pregnant low budget provider.
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As always, this goes back to seeing providers who are well-reviewed if you want to be assured of a good experience.
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Fwiiw, I don't think either of them were being particularly rude. To me it reads like mostly just very poor communication and lack of understanding between an amateurish (or perhaps just late pregnancy stressed) escort and a newbie and virgin monger/client.
I cut her more slack because 1 - she probably wouldn't be working while that pregnant unless she needs the money desperately or is under some sort of coercion and 2 - very late pregnancy can be incredibly stressful and uncomfortable, even aside from the hormonal situation. Just the constant pressure on the woman's bladder, especially once the baby "drops", must be torment beyond imagining for those who haven't experienced it.
For the OP's part, it sounds like he has no clue how much he was asking her to do for him as @Reon points out; that comes from inexperience mostly (and we were all inexperienced at one time), but he *could* have done more research and gotten a better understanding. I also suspect that he is operating with some very limited budget, thus the desire to lose virginity, experience exotic fetish and have first p4p experience all in a single half hour appointment! He comes across to me as being a bit self-involved and lacking in perspective, but he still wasn't really rude to her that I can see...just confused and/or ill-informed.
-Ww
I cut her more slack because 1 - she probably wouldn't be working while that pregnant unless she needs the money desperately or is under some sort of coercion and 2 - very late pregnancy can be incredibly stressful and uncomfortable, even aside from the hormonal situation. Just the constant pressure on the woman's bladder, especially once the baby "drops", must be torment beyond imagining for those who haven't experienced it.
For the OP's part, it sounds like he has no clue how much he was asking her to do for him as @Reon points out; that comes from inexperience mostly (and we were all inexperienced at one time), but he *could* have done more research and gotten a better understanding. I also suspect that he is operating with some very limited budget, thus the desire to lose virginity, experience exotic fetish and have first p4p experience all in a single half hour appointment! He comes across to me as being a bit self-involved and lacking in perspective, but he still wasn't really rude to her that I can see...just confused and/or ill-informed.
-Ww
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I agree. If anything I regret now a little bit calling the original poster “rude,” while I should have simply stopped at “inexperienced,” that’s mostly all… until he took it to this forum (more on this later*). His own words during the text conversation weren’t rude to the escort, they were respectful even when she became curt. I don’t want the original poster to believe that, at least in his words, he was rude to her. If that were the case, next time he could address another escort in a genuinely rude way believing that there is no value in speaking honestly and without abuse. So, brownie points for the honest and respectful language.
For actual rude comments there is plenty to see on the pregnant jokes in this thread. If the original poster reads this, I want to ask him to don’t take that route. More than rude, there were some very hurtful comments here.
*What rubbed me the wrong way, and what I think was actually rude — and won’t back down from calling it that — was the original poster's attitude. Not only to the escort during his text conversation, which can be partly excused on his inexperience, but above all the intent of “web shaming” after the conversation. He might had deleted the personal information of his conversation (that was good at least), but still he tried to seek validation in an open forum posting a private conversation and framing the issue as “she was rude, can’t you believe it?”. First of all the time wasting (partly, but not completely excused by inexperience), then exposition of a private conversation, and finally the accusation, all three make for a very rude attitude. Specially the last two, they are just about where a dangerous tendency could form.
I mean, RUDE〜！♪
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I'm confused why a guy who is a virgin would want to have sex with a pregnant woman, as his first time. It might have been the woman doesn't believe you, so is reacting a certain way. Like she thinks you are a joker, so she responds accordingly.
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Some people need this tattooed on their foreheads in reverse so they get reminded every time they look in the mirror
Thank you all for all of your thoughts. It was interesting to hear different perspectives, and just know that I was not trying to start a witch hunt online; I was genuinely concerned whether my behavior was wrong since I was inexperienced with all of this.
This morning I went with my gut instinct and decided to message her again. Feeling embarrassed and ashamed, I used a different number and this time, hid the inexperience and went straight to the point and she was straight to the point with me.
On the way there, I was genuinely concerned, as after I agreed to meet her and started getting ready (shower, etc.), I found I couldn't give myself an erection at all. Partly due to the nervousness of not knowing what to expect, but partly because I was a very frequent masturbator (once or twice a day, tight grip with my hands). Prior to today's encounter, I masturbated lightly, but didn't bring to orgasm for 2 days.
When I got there, she welcomed me in and was generally very down to earth and friendly. She started off with BBBJ, while I played with her breasts, nipples, belly rubs (which is nice because I had asked for this in the text and she said no, she only offers BBBJ and Sex.), as well as her clitoris and pussy. I got really comfortable with her at this point and really fingered her quite a bit, though I did not explore as deep as possible. She was incredibly wet and warm inside.
I'm glad I was able to get hard after a little while, but not to my regular full length (it was the smallest I've ever seen it, prior). After a bit of that, I wanted to try the 69 position with her on top, but generally it wasn't so good for me (I probably didn't get position myself as best as I could), as I got up really close, I didn't really like the smell, and there was not much room for me to breathe. Plus she was a little heavy (understandably so) pressing down on me. I started getting soft and we went back to the BBBJ to get myself an erection again.
We slapped on the condom, and tried the cowgirl position. Honestly I couldn't feel much of anything (mostly because I feel my erection was weakening, and it wasn't that strong to begin with) though it was still fun playing with everything in front, and moaning together and just bumping our stomachs together.
She had to stop after a bit so I tried to go doggy on her but since my erection was weakening, there really wasn't too much I can put in. We went back for some more BBBJ and fingering for the remainder of the time.
All in all, I had a lot of fun despite not being able to orgasm, and generally not having a very strong erection when not receiving BBBJ. She made me feel very comfortable which was awesome and I don't think it was anything she did wrong as she was incredibly sexy. I think the problem lies in my overfrequent masturbation. I asked her if she would still be working (she's 4 weeks from her due date) and she said she will up until she doesn't feel like it anymore.
I plan to try and refrain from the masturbation and perhaps come back after 1-2 weeks if she hasn't delivered, and see if that resolves my problem.
This morning I went with my gut instinct and decided to message her again. Feeling embarrassed and ashamed, I used a different number and this time, hid the inexperience and went straight to the point and she was straight to the point with me.
On the way there, I was genuinely concerned, as after I agreed to meet her and started getting ready (shower, etc.), I found I couldn't give myself an erection at all. Partly due to the nervousness of not knowing what to expect, but partly because I was a very frequent masturbator (once or twice a day, tight grip with my hands). Prior to today's encounter, I masturbated lightly, but didn't bring to orgasm for 2 days.
When I got there, she welcomed me in and was generally very down to earth and friendly. She started off with BBBJ, while I played with her breasts, nipples, belly rubs (which is nice because I had asked for this in the text and she said no, she only offers BBBJ and Sex.), as well as her clitoris and pussy. I got really comfortable with her at this point and really fingered her quite a bit, though I did not explore as deep as possible. She was incredibly wet and warm inside.
I'm glad I was able to get hard after a little while, but not to my regular full length (it was the smallest I've ever seen it, prior). After a bit of that, I wanted to try the 69 position with her on top, but generally it wasn't so good for me (I probably didn't get position myself as best as I could), as I got up really close, I didn't really like the smell, and there was not much room for me to breathe. Plus she was a little heavy (understandably so) pressing down on me. I started getting soft and we went back to the BBBJ to get myself an erection again.
We slapped on the condom, and tried the cowgirl position. Honestly I couldn't feel much of anything (mostly because I feel my erection was weakening, and it wasn't that strong to begin with) though it was still fun playing with everything in front, and moaning together and just bumping our stomachs together.
She had to stop after a bit so I tried to go doggy on her but since my erection was weakening, there really wasn't too much I can put in. We went back for some more BBBJ and fingering for the remainder of the time.
All in all, I had a lot of fun despite not being able to orgasm, and generally not having a very strong erection when not receiving BBBJ. She made me feel very comfortable which was awesome and I don't think it was anything she did wrong as she was incredibly sexy. I think the problem lies in my overfrequent masturbation. I asked her if she would still be working (she's 4 weeks from her due date) and she said she will up until she doesn't feel like it anymore.
I plan to try and refrain from the masturbation and perhaps come back after 1-2 weeks if she hasn't delivered, and see if that resolves my problem.
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Good news ! Glad you made this real and went past the lousy initial interaction.
Try not to wait too much and book her in a week or so.
No handplay, and maybe a longer session. Show your passion !
Try not to wait too much and book her in a week or so.
No handplay, and maybe a longer session. Show your passion !
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I have to admit it, I didn’t think the original poster was so committed to the idea that he actually would go and do it! My apologies for accusing you of being a time waster to the escort.
Just out of curiosity, why did you choose to share this in a forum about Japan? I don’t think anyone will complain about having the thread here in TAG, it will become a legend on its own merit, I’m just curious if you knew about this forum or have being in Japan before.
I have to admit it, I didn’t think the original poster was so committed to the idea that he actually would go and do it! My apologies for accusing you of being a time waster to the escort.
Just out of curiosity, why did you choose to share this in a forum about Japan? I don’t think anyone will complain about having the thread here in TAG, it will become a legend on its own merit, I’m just curious if you knew about this forum or have being in Japan before.
I occasionally browse this forum and my local escort forums. I found out about this place because I do plan on visiting Japan really soon (most likely April) and was considering hiring escort services while I am there so I do some reading. I chose to post here instead in case she, or other people who may know her may recognize that it was her.
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Pretty much went down exactly as I predicted based on my own experience.
I would recommend getting a fleshlight, it's a good tool for "training" if a real vagina isn't available easily.
Use it without coming if possible.
I would recommend getting a fleshlight, it's a good tool for "training" if a real vagina isn't available easily.
Use it without coming if possible.
I actually do own some fleshlights (3, used to be 4 but my friend took one as a joke and never gave it back) but don't used them much due to the preparation time required and need privacy. I do agree that I think I have to practice with them more and rely less on my hands. Right now, of the 3 I have remaining, I do feel sensations and stimulation with two of them, but they are still harder for me to orgasm with compared to the hand (which is funny because one of them is named to be a stamina training unit which is supposed to be so stimulating that you have to practice with it to NOT cum so fast, where I'm using it for the opposite reason.)