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I may have the solution to the endless cycle of TAG PUA vs P4P wars!
I use the above two quotes of @Sinapse out of context of the threads from which they come simply as an illustration of the frequent claims by PUA proponents, especially @Sinapse and @Solong (who has been absent for a while now), that PUA/gaming is nothing more than being effective and confident in communicating and interacting with women. This is what we might call the broad definition, and although the PUA proponents sometimes prefer a much narrower one (when it suits their purposes), let's go with it for the purposes of this thread.
My (very simple) point is that "being effective and confident in communicating and interacting with women", very much including women that you met only moments earlier, is EXTREMELY important in having and enjoying quality p4p experiences, especially upscale and elaborate ones.
Pretty much all experienced sex workers will say that they have tons of very nervous, awkward and uncommunicative customers who lack confidence and that delivering a satisfactory experience to such men is a huge and often impossible challenge. Many mongers will also admit that their nervousness and inability to express themselves around women is the greatest barrier to their enjoyment of p4p; this is often mentioned explicitly in TAG reviews of escorts.
So, perhaps being good at or getting better at being a monger should also be considered a part of PUA/gaming, at least under its broad definition. What do you think?
-Ww
I suppose you meant women met in social ways? This, I'm afraid, is also in the realm of things which PUA improves.
Pickup means improving your communication with women. Some guys want many women, some just want a girlfriend.
I use the above two quotes of @Sinapse out of context of the threads from which they come simply as an illustration of the frequent claims by PUA proponents, especially @Sinapse and @Solong (who has been absent for a while now), that PUA/gaming is nothing more than being effective and confident in communicating and interacting with women. This is what we might call the broad definition, and although the PUA proponents sometimes prefer a much narrower one (when it suits their purposes), let's go with it for the purposes of this thread.
My (very simple) point is that "being effective and confident in communicating and interacting with women", very much including women that you met only moments earlier, is EXTREMELY important in having and enjoying quality p4p experiences, especially upscale and elaborate ones.
Pretty much all experienced sex workers will say that they have tons of very nervous, awkward and uncommunicative customers who lack confidence and that delivering a satisfactory experience to such men is a huge and often impossible challenge. Many mongers will also admit that their nervousness and inability to express themselves around women is the greatest barrier to their enjoyment of p4p; this is often mentioned explicitly in TAG reviews of escorts.
So, perhaps being good at or getting better at being a monger should also be considered a part of PUA/gaming, at least under its broad definition. What do you think?
-Ww