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If what a sugar babe says is true —that they only spend time with their SD for his money and gifts, then is this form of dating nothing more than another form of prostitution?
Not here for negative comments or fights. I’m only interested in whether sugar dating is like soft porn and hard porn.
Someone has! A potential SD whose profile I stumbled across. I will try to find it and post it!Someone should put that in the "about me" section of their Seeking Arrangement profile and see what happens.
That was my question, I left out some similes. Sorry distracted by work.I don’t quite understand your question.
Is being a Sugar Baby like soft porn and being an escort like hard porn?
If this is your question, the answer is no. As an escort you advertise only the bedroom activities that you feel comfortable with. As a SB, you only agree to do with your SD what you are comfortable with. An escort may provide a ‘girlfriend experience’ whereas an SB may agree to bondage and domination. Or vice versa. It all varies according to the parties involved.
So someone did that? Well isn’t that interesting. So is there something better than sugar dating?Someone has! A potential SD whose profile I stumbled across. I will try to find it and post it!
yes it's all about friendshipI always thought SBs were more about the friendship than the money but perhaps I’ve been misinformed.
You might be an anomaly. For me, “professional distance” is preferred. I can’t imagine having a SB relationship. It seems like the emotional drain of it would not be worth it, while the get in, get out no contact till the next booking aspect of escorting would fit my personality. Sometimes it’s nice to communicate, but not always and it’s not always that one wants to spend money but just sit back and relax. Sometimes you want to just shoot the breeze, but then go cold for weeks, months. And if the base is the same, then I find no real difference in the concept of it. So why don’t agencies offer up SB/Escort packages. Pay a lump sum fee for the escort to be an SB for a month with built in days for outings and sex, but also accessible through LINE or something.Well, unless its a non sexual arrangement, which exist (or at least seeking arrangement wants you to believe they exist, lol), money and sex are the essentials, so the base is the same.
Sugar dating has a lot more opportunity to become emotionally intimate.
To me, i always strife for this so there is not much difference for me personally between seeing repeat clients as an escort and seeing a sugar daddies. But i think there are escorts who like to keep a lot more "professional distance" and are more specialized in PSE and stuff.
While i will definitely exchange friendly emails with good repeaters without immediately sceduling a next meetup, this is usually when the client sends the first message.You might be an anomaly. For me, “professional distance” is preferred. I can’t imagine having a SB relationship. It seems like the emotional drain of it would not be worth it, while the get in, get out no contact till the next booking aspect of escorting would fit my personality. Sometimes it’s nice to communicate, but not always and it’s not always that one wants to spend money but just sit back and relax. Sometimes you want to just shoot the breeze, but then go cold for weeks, months. And if the base is the same, then I find no real difference in the concept of it. So why don’t agencies offer up SB/Escort packages. Pay a lump sum fee for the escort to be an SB for a month with built in days for outings and sex, but also accessible through LINE or something.
For me, “professional distance” is preferred. I can’t imagine having a SB relationship.
Exactly this.Well, everyone's different so it's good that there are both escorts and SBs.
It is -in my opinion- a much better form of prostitution cause it allows a degree of intimacy and "customization" that you dont have with more usual forms of P4P.If what a sugar babe says is true —that they only spend time with their SD for his money and gifts, then is this form of dating nothing more than another form of prostitution?
Obviously she meant its emotionally "unsafe". I recall that in a post on another thread she wrote about sugar babies who end up banging on the door of their married sugardaddy, not sure how often this happens though.In response to Mischa's claim above that P2P relationships are safer, I have to say I don't follow. I'm in an exclusive relationship with my "SB", we both got tested and that's that. How is this less safe than sex with a pro who sees several (numerous?) other men besides me? What may be "unsafe" here is the emotional attachment we've developed. That's sth each individual has to decide for themselves.
Yeah. Marriage is often like that too... with less sex , usuallyyou're still paying for company.
Yes but in that case it's P2NP (pay to not play).Yeah. Marriage is often like that too... with less sex , usually