Japanese men? Do they exist?

[Yuriko]

Anyways, but I didn't know that japanese men are so very shy.

Finnish men are pretty shy too. Which brings to mind that I have heard from somewhere that there are quite many similarities (I mean, not many but still quite many) in finnish and japanese cultures. It will be interesting to see if this is true. This is actually part of the reason why I am so eager to meet a japanese man.

I can understand that, as I travelled Finland last Oct, visited my male friend in his early 50's, married with no kids, we are cat community friends. I thought, his man's thing might be reacting having me around, but didn't make me any uncomfortable situation. I bet if any Anglo-saxon guyz was in stead, he will surely trys to have me do something for him! I had an Austrian couple friend in Vienna, her bf was a musician, he asked me to do bj to him! And, I actually did it.... secretly behind his gf back. I couldn't believe how that happened, though. But, I do clearly remember that! lol. (＾ｰ^)

 

[Wwanderer]

Hmmmm... Thanks for the advice Wwanderer but I have to say that I am not that eager to meet Japanese that I would go on the streets to hunt them

I was suggesting bars and clubs, not the street, but if it is not all that important to you, what I suggested above is probably too uncertain and too time consuming for a short visit.

-Ww

 

[DocMcStuffins]

How about deai cafe? That seems like a near certainty.

 

[User#8628]

How about deai cafe? That seems like a near certainty.

They do require quite some Japanese ability. And at least for kirari, you have to fill in a whole form with address and everything, although you might get away with writing a fake address (they cant really check i think). For ID, passport is sufficient as far as i know, and momocafe would only require ID and a phone number (if its a working number it might not have to be japanese). But then again, basic language ability is really important.
Also for me it used to be convient and match my lowest rates, but for someone who starts at €600 an hour i doubt there are many takers, sadly. Its a mixed bag of guys and some are definitely wealthing and classy but its not millionaires town and there is plenty of concurrention (even some foreign girls because its hard to get work at the shops here for foreigners and cafe is easy to go in and not strictly illegal even for students).

 

[Moontree]

I am confused with all the deai / kirari and momocafes

But I received an inquiry from a Japanese, (thanks to this post) so I am happy and satisfied for the moment <3

 

[User#8628]

I am confused with all the deai / kirari and momocafes

But I received an inquiry from a Japanese, (thanks to this post) so I am happy and satisfied for the moment <3

Congratulations!

 

[Moontree]

Thanks Alice

 

[patty diaz]

I can understand that, as I travelled Finland last Oct, visited my male friend in his early 50's, married with no kids, we are cat community friends. I thought, his man's thing might be reacting having me around, but didn't make me any uncomfortable situation. I bet if any Anglo-saxon guyz was in stead, he will surely trys to have me do something for him! I had an Austrian couple friend in Vienna, her bf was a musician, he asked me to do bj to him! And, I actually did it.... secretly behind his gf back. I couldn't believe how that happened, though. But, I do clearly remember that! lol. (＾ｰ^)

No offense but why would you do that to someone you consider a friend?

Also to answer OP Japan has a low percentage of english speakers so not a lot of japanese men are going to be looking on english orientated sites. Second(and I know this from talking with my Japanese male friends) as its illegal to be an independent escort and do FS in japan a lot of guys are scared of looking into that option. They prefer to go with an agency...also despite what a lot of people seem to be writing here a lot of men arent into white women. Like back in the west not everyone is into asian etc. Its definitely a nitch

 

[e-smile]

Also to answer OP Japan has a low percentage of english speakers so not a lot of japanese men are going to be looking on english orientated sites. Second(and I know this from talking with my Japanese male friends) as its illegal to be an independent escort and do FS in japan a lot of guys are scared of looking into that option. They prefer to go with an agency...also despite what a lot of people seem to be writing here a lot of men arent into white women. Like back in the west not everyone is into asian etc. Its definitely a nitch

interesting, is what they told you or what you've noticed as a white woman ?
because I am (was ?) convinced that most of them see white women as women out of their league and that's why they don't dare approaching them. the few who dare and succeed like to show this success as if it was an exploit.

 

[Yuriko]

No offense but why would you do that to someone you consider a friend?

Also to answer OP Japan has a low percentage of english speakers so not a lot of japanese men are going to be looking on english orientated sites. Second(and I know this from talking with my Japanese male friends) as its illegal to be an independent escort and do FS in japan a lot of guys are scared of looking into that option. They prefer to go with an agency...also despite what a lot of people seem to be writing here a lot of men arent into white women. Like back in the west not everyone is into asian etc. Its definitely a nitch

Because I'm irristable to guyz!!! Even just as a friend, I'm sure they want me beyond his imagination!!

Yes,.agree, most Japanese men could be shy enough reaching out Western escourts. Also, too high class to reach... More or less, majority of Japanese men, they don't want to spend too much money, I'm afraid IMO, as a Japanese perspective.

 

[Frenchy]

Because I'm irristable to guyz!!! Even just as a friend, I'm sure they want me beyond his imagination!!
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Lol! I think the question was more , why did you accept? Didn't feel guilty about your friend? Or maybe she was ok and watching?

 

[patty diaz]

interesting, is what they told you or what you've noticed as a white woman ?
because I am (was ?) convinced that most of them see white women as women out of their league and that's why they don't dare approaching them. the few who dare and succeed like to show this success as if it was an exploit.

Im not white. But I pass as white to japanese people lol. Anyway...Ive had guys tell me theyre only into fellow asian women or japanese. And I read and watch a lot of stuff on the internet. Not all Japanese men are into white girls.

 

[User#8628]

Also, too high class to reach... More or less, majority of Japanese men, they don't want to spend too much money, I'm afraid IMO, as a Japanese perspective.

I don't think Japanese men are really more ketchi then foreigners.
If you look at the reviews here on TAG, its mostly less expensive places. The foreign guys that actually book the expensive escorts on here are limited.

And actually p4p is a lot more expensive in Japan than in Europe mostly. So i'd dare to say the Japanese are willing to spend more compared to other countries in general.

Also there are many soaplands that charge around 70.000 for two hours, the same that i charge, and their clients are mainly Japanese shacho.

So i dont think Japanese don't want to spend money on p4p.

Im not white. But I pass as white to japanese people lol. Anyway...Ive had guys tell me theyre only into fellow asian women or japanese. And I read and watch a lot of stuff on the internet. Not all Japanese men are into white girls.

I've never had guys tell me that to my face. But i think since guys are usually the ones who make the first move, you mainly find out about the ones who are interested, not the ones who are not.
I've never really had a shortage of guys here who are interested in dating so i never really looked into guys who are not.

Well i have tried gyaku nampa in momocafe and actually yes, there were some guys really shocked a foreigner comes in and they seemed scared and left soon. Haha. But not so many guys like that.
I have heard for some western women who are very tall, Japanese guys feel intimidated and they don't get a lot of dates.



But i really think the language barreer is the biggest thing by far.

 

[patty diaz]

I don't think Japanese men are really more ketchi then foreigners.
If you look at the reviews here on TAG, its mostly less expensive places. The foreign guys that actually book the expensive escorts on here are limited.

And actually p4p is a lot more expensive in Japan than in Europe mostly. So i'd dare to say the Japanese are willing to spend more compared to other countries in general.

Also there are many soaplands that charge around 70.000 for two hours, the same that i charge, and their clients are mainly Japanese shacho.

So i dont think Japanese don't want to spend money on p4p.



I've never had guys tell me that to my face. But i think since guys are usually the ones who make the first move, you mainly find out about the ones who are interested, not the ones who are not.
I've never really had a shortage of guys here who are interested in dating so i never really looked into guys who are not.

Well i have tried gyaku nampa in momocafe and actually yes, there were some guys really shocked a foreigner comes in and they seemed scared and left soon. Haha. But not so many guys like that.
I have heard for some western women who are very tall, Japanese guys feel intimidated and they don't get a lot of dates.



But i really think the language barreer is the biggest thing by far.

I havent either but working in kyaba, especially when the rest of your workmates are japanese you switch on to those things.

 

[Yuriko]

Lol! I think the question was more , why did you accept? Didn't feel guilty about your friend? Or maybe she was ok and watching?

I did feel guilty by then, but I was in the early 20's, not experienced enough, curiousity won, what's like with a Euro musician! I just gave him a
quick bj, though! He wanted more but that's all. (lol) Surprisingly, she was OK. I donno where she was, when it happened, or how it happened. As I said, the Euro guy was a musician. He led somehow in a creative way. lol.

Miraculously, our friendship didn't crack at all with the lady. The lady was a broad minded young mother from a very rich banker family background. We met through my parents.

Why the topic is going off track(￣∇￣) Sorry if I said too much!!!

 

[Yuriko]

I don't think Japanese men are really more ketchi then foreigners.
If you look at the reviews here on TAG, its mostly less expensive places. The foreign guys that actually book the expensive escorts on here are limited.

And actually p4p is a lot more expensive in Japan than in Europe mostly. So i'd dare to say the Japanese are willing to spend more compared to other countries in general.

Also there are many soaplands that charge around 70.000 for two hours, the same that i charge, and their clients are mainly Japanese shacho.

So i dont think Japanese don't want to spend money on p4p.

I didn't know SL charges that high! So, it can be "luxuary" spent for shachos!


7 man yen is like, a monthly rent for regular Japanese guys. So, I know majourity of Japanese regular men, they use "video chat" and pop in the videobox, coz it's cheap to chat with chatgirls, it's safe, you don't have to show your face, sometimes only his dick, or chat only and pop out, when happens. I used to be a webcam chatlady myself for 5 years. That's my image of Japanese men's way, of how to survive from non sex cold marriage. They don't use escourt. So probably, guys use SL or escourt are high waged guyz, as shacho or comfortable living guys.

 

[Wwanderer]

There are so few "elidgable" white women in Japan that it does not make much difference if most Japanese men don't find them attractive or are too shy/intimidated to approach them or are blocked by the language barrier. If even a few percent, maybe even just one percent, of Japanese guys don't follow that pattern, there are still enough of them to make the few white women popular.

More generally, I have often found it best to pay attention to the rare and exceptional people and ignore the typical ones.

-Ww

 

[Frenchy]

There are so few "elidgable" white women in Japan that it does not make much difference if most Japanese men don't find them attractive or are too shy/intimidated to approach them or are blocked by the language barrier. If even a few percent, maybe even just one percent, of Japanese guys don't follow that pattern, there are still enough of them to make the few white women popular.

More generally, I have often found it best to pay attention to the rare and exceptional people and ignore the typical ones.

-Ww

Damn you should be a publicist! You're really good at that!

 

[Frenchy]

I didn't know SL charges that high! So, it can be "luxuary" spent for shachos!


7 man yen is like, a monthly rent for regular Japanese guys. So, I know majourity of Japanese regular men, they use "video chat" and pop in the videobox, coz it's cheap to chat with chatgirls, it's safe, you don't have to show your face, sometimes only his dick, or chat only and pop out, when happens. I used to be a webcam chatlady myself for 5 years. That's my image of Japanese men's way, of how to survive from non sex cold marriage. They don't use escourt. So probably, guys use SL or escourt are high waged guyz, as shacho or comfortable living guys.

We cover a very wide spectrum of male demographics here! (In terms of income at least). I love Japan, even for the most modest wallets there is some kind of p4P action possible!

 

[Yuriko]

We cover a very wide spectrum of male demographics here! (In terms of income at least). I love Japan, even for the most modest wallets there is some kind of p4P action possible!

Hmmm... Interesting. (๑>◡<๑)

 

[e-smile]

Im not white. But I pass as white to japanese people lol. Anyway...Ive had guys tell me theyre only into fellow asian women or japanese. And I read and watch a lot of stuff on the internet. Not all Japanese men are into white girls.

Same here.
I've never said ALL of them but most of them seem to really put western women on a pedestal. it doesn't mean they will be into them, many would prefer those they think are more affordable. they are in their comfort zone and that's the same for girls.

 

[patty diaz]

Same here.
I've never said ALL of them but most of them seem to really put western women on a pedestal. it doesn't mean they will be into them, many would prefer those they think are more affordable. they are in their comfort zone and that's the same for girls.

Yeah like guys that are into the anime loli girls...with that type youre almost guarenteed they arent into western women lol

 

[e-smile]

Yeah like guys that are into the anime loli girls...with that type youre almost guarenteed they arent into western women lol

I think those guys are not into real women at all

 

[Moontree]

My trip in Tokyo is over and I have to say that it was a very successful trip and I am already planning my next visit

And when I was very worried about not getting inquiries from Japanese men...

--> my total was 2 (!!!) meetings with Japanese men!

...So I can now say that Japanese men really exist! Great! 8)

 

[Yuriko]

My trip in Tokyo is over and I have to say that it was a very successful trip and I am already planning my next visit

And when I was very worried about not getting inquiries from Japanese men...

--> my total was 2 (!!!) meetings with Japanese men!

...So I can now say that Japanese men really exist! Great! 8)

Good for you, you were able to meet Japanese men, as well! FYI, majority of companies in Japan pay day is on 25th. I guess for rich guyz don't matter when, but regular Japanese guys, or Guys in Japan who want to try western escourt or high class escourt, maybe more chance on final week or first week. I think not so pricy escourt including myself, doesn't really have when is better.