Japanese randomly did high fives to me?

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So my boss needed to step out to go run errands between my classes and I went to the shops area near the station to kill time.

Anyway, these Japanese ヤンキー style guys looked at me and were laughing and they kept saying ひどい but offered me a high five?

Is this a form of mocking or were they being friendly?

Because the only context I know for ひどい is terrible...

I was kind of standing on this corner with a hoodie and jacket over it, so I guess the nuance could have been that I look "hard or harsh" which is a vibe I try to avoid giving off lol.
 
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So my boss needed to step out to go run errands between my classes and I went to the shops area near the station to kill time.

Anyway, these Japanese ヤンキー style guys looked at me and were laughing and they kept saying ひどい but offered me a high five?

Is this a form of mocking or were they being friendly?

Because the only context I know for ひどい is terrible...

I was kind of standing on this corner with a hoodie and jacket over it, so I guess the nuance could have been that I look "hard or harsh" which is a vibe I try to avoid giving off lol.

Maybe it can have a positive spin like やばい?
Or maybe you looked really miserable and they just wanted to energize you?
But more importantly , why do you care so much? :)
 
could have been that I look "hard or harsh" which is a vibe I try to avoid giving off lol.
hmm...so maybe you were actually giving off this vibe.
there are at least a few Japanese who have an aversion to hoodies -
I mean, just look at the [Redacted] rules :Dhttps://shinjuku-***********.com/images/price/rules.png
 
Maybe it can have a positive spin like やばい?
Or maybe you looked really miserable and they just wanted to energize you?
But more importantly , why do you care so much? :)

Oh no I'm not mad at all. I'm just trying to understand the situation because it left me feeling really confused lol.

There is a chance they were talking about something or somebody else but to not be talking about me and then suddenly decided to high five me out of the blue lol.

I even said "Yes, I am ひどい" and high-fived them while laughing as they passed by.
 
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hmm...so maybe you were actually giving off this vibe.
there are at least a few Japanese who have an aversion to hoodies -
I mean, just look at the [Redacted] rules :Dhttps://shinjuku-***********.com/images/price/rules.png
Hmmmm there are actually 3 rules I breached then, but I would not wear a hoodie for all the gold on earth .
 
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Hmmmm there are actually 3 rules I breached then, but I would not wear a hoodie for all the gold on earth .

And here I was already planning how we could break all the rules at once together.
 
Boring.....
@TokyoJoeblow

I want to hear how you went to give a high 5 to a hot milf, and then she grabs your hand and leads you to a LH....
 
So you walk into [Redacted], there is one staff member passed out with beer bottles all around him. There is what looks like a customer on the coach behind the curtain with needle in his arm and he is out of it too.

You walk down the hallway and find two bloodied escorts knocked out and one has a cigarette that is still lit perched between her fingers.

At the end of the hallway stands a shadowy figure in a hoodie that reads 18+ with a gun holstered on his side.

What happened? lol
 
So you walk into [Redacted], there is one staff member passed out with beer bottles all around him. There is what looks like a customer on the coach behind the curtain with needle in his arm and he is out of it too.

You walk down the hallway and find two bloodied escorts knocked out and one has a cigarette that is still lit perched between her fingers.

At the end of the hallway stands a shadowy figure in a hoodie that reads 18+ with a gun holstered on his side.

What happened? lol

I know I know ! iloveshibuyagals or whatever his name was finally made it to Shibuya! :D
 
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I know I know ! iloveshibuyagals or whatever his name was finally made it to Shibuya! :D

Well, he is in Japan but he accidentally went to the Shinjuku branch.

What happened? Who is that shadowy figure in hoodie? lol
 
TBJ, this belongs in that passive-aggressive thread. Not worth it's own thread!
Your standards are slipping.
 
TBJ, this belongs in that passive-aggressive thread. Not worth it's own thread!
Your standards are slipping.

Slipping but still holding on.

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