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Korea, Foreigners, And Cockblocks

GoldenDalton

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An old army buddy of mine has a new job in Korea. He wants to know how the scene for foreigners is there. He asked me and as I don't have any firsthand xp, I said I'd check here as someone may know.

From the little I've read, Korean girls are hard as hell to bed and Korean guys cockblock religiously. Even staff in bars. True?
 
hello GoldenDalton

korea isnt the place to be if you want free sex. i have a male korean friend that told me so.

regarding the sex industry though

from WHAT IVE HEARD you can take home the girls in the bars(strip club etc but not a normal bar) but it aint free ofcourse,
they also have FS ari massage parlors. nothing special though.

if your friend is looking for a korean escort heres one girl i found on a different site.
http://sarahmiehn.wix.com/sarahmodel
i cant share you any details since ive never been to korea hence ive never met her.
if ever your friend do ever avail her service pls do share to us his experience.
 
Thanks for your advice. Ill relay that to the guy. He still one of those "I don't have to pay for it"' types, despite him "paying for it" every month.
 
KING Club.. top of the hill behind the former Burger King on the Y intersection in Itaewon.. LONG uphill trek.. take a Cab.. if he is a decent looking guy he will find a hottie that is interested in there..
 
I've been to Korea many times, so hopefully this can help. You are better off talking to Korean women on the trains, coffee shops, Burger King (yes, I've picked up there) etc... than you are at almost any club or bar. Almost any place where Korean women are sitting and relaxing or loitering. You want 1 to 1 situations (best) or 2 on 2 (with an excellent, not weak or not selfish wingman). Many Korean women, under 40, speak some English. Start the conversation off with something about her appearance, example- her shoes, finger nails, coat, ear rings, etc... (never vulgar and never overtly sexual). You can offer to tutor English or ask for her help with Korean and Korean culture. Try to get her phone number, e-mail, or KakaoTalk ID (similar to LINE).

Using online methods can work too. KoreanCupid, Craigslist, POF, OkCupid, etc... Best to use a combination of getting contacts directly and online, then try to setup as many dates as possible. Even try doing 2 dates on the same day, to increase the odds that one will show or that you will get lucky with one.

Clubs and bars are usually horrible for pickup because the media, racist, and extremist groups have created hysteria and paranoia. Going to a bar and meeting a guy is like being the dirtiest Korean slut ever (ridiculous stigma) or they have the paranoid delusion that every foreign guy or guy in the club is trying to rape them. Furthermore, if she is in the club with girlfriends, co-workers, or classmatess then they may cock-block or be strongly anti-foreigner.

If you insist on trying to make pickups in the club or bar work ( which I recommend against), you may want to just collect phone numbers and move on. This way get as MANY as possible and then try to scheduele dates without her cock-blocking friends around. The other way for clubs/bars is to REALLY go all out, not half-ass it. NO numbers or e-mails, because these type of women don't want it known who they are and are afraid guys will talk (which guys don't usually do, but such women are paranoid). Asking for the phone number of this type of woman mean they will NOT have sex with or see you ever again outside the club. For such women, you possibly exchange phone numbers AFTER you had sex with her. In that style of pickup, just straight out try to pull them to your hotel. Odds are very small of pulling that off in Korea, but it can be done. And I mean you need to really push it, get her to leave the club/bar ASAP, put the woman in a taxi, and directly to your hotel.

Too many guys think that they can score at the clubs and bars, but end up doing nothing but getting drunk and wasting money. They don't understand that Korean women are trying to PROTECT their IMAGE. They are worried about if their friends or co-workers are watching. You need to play it smart and help her HIDE the sexual encounter with you. Setup secret sexual dates.

The better way is to BRING a date from a coffee shop or online to a club, bar, or restaurant NOT around where she lives or works (nobody knows her). Preferably a dimly lit one NEAR your hotel where you can hold hands and sit NEXT to her (couch, round table, counter) to talk. Then go to your hotel.
 
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I've been to Korea many times, so hopefully this can help. You are better off talking to Korean women on the trains, coffee shops, Burger King (yes, I've picked up there) etc... than you are at almost any club or bar. Almost any place where Korean women are sitting and relaxing or loitering. You want 1 to 1 situations (best) or 2 on 2 (with an excellent, not weak or not selfish wingman). Many Korean women, under 40, speak some English. Start the conversation off with something about her appearance, example- her shoes, finger nails, coat, ear rings, etc... (never vulgar and never overtly sexual). You can offer to tutor English or ask for her help with Korean and Korean culture. Try to get her phone number, e-mail, or KakaoTalk ID (similar to LINE).

Using online methods can work too. KoreanCupid, Craigslist, POF, OkCupid, etc... Best to use a combination of getting contacts directly and online, then try to setup as many dates as possible. Even try doing 2 dates on the same day, to increase the odds that one will show or that you will get lucky with one.

Clubs and bars are usually horrible for pickup because the media, racist, and extremist groups have created hysteria and paranoia. Going to a bar and meeting a guy is like being the dirtiest Korean slut ever (ridiculous stigma) or they have the delusional impression that they will be raped. Furthermore, if she is in the club with girlfriends, co-workers, or classmatess then they may cock-block or be strongly anti-foreigner.

If you insist on trying to make pickups in the club or bar work, you may want to just collect phone numbers and move on. This way get as MANY as possible and then try to scheduele dates without her cock-blocking friends around. The other way for clubs/bars is to REALLY go all out, not half-ass it. NO numbers or e-mails, because these type of women don't want it known who they are and are afraid guys will talk (which guys don't usually do, but such women are paranoid). Just straight out try to pull them to your hotel. Odds are very small of pulling that off in Korea, but it can be done. And I mean you need to really push it, get her to leave the club/bar ASAP, put the woman in a taxi, and directly to your hotel.

Too many guys think that they can score at the clubs and bars, but end up doing nothing but getting drunk and wasting money. They don't understand that Korean women are trying to PROTECT their IMAGE. They are worried if friends or co-workers are watching. You need to play it smart and help her HIDE the sexual encounter with you. Setup secret sexual dates.

The better way is to BRING a date from a coffee shop or online to a club, bar, or resteraunt NOT around where she lives or works (nobody knows her). Preferably a dimly lit one NEAR your hotel where you can hold hands and sit NEXT to her (couch, round table, counter) to talk. Then go to your hotel.
I will relay this info. This is very detailed. I'm sure he'll benefit. He's in Korea now but I haven't spoken since he got there - I have no idea how he's doing.

Thanks for the detailed answer. This info is no doubt gold. You should write one for Japan. Pick up in Japan is a huge mystery to me. The response of everyone I know is always " Go to gas panic." Course that'd help it I actually tried it instead of hating clubs in general.
 
I've been to Korea a few times, didn't really have good experiences, as they were all short, busy trips. A lot of the bars in Busan (Texas street area) are all filipina buy me drinkie bars. Had a few friends 'go upstairs' with the implications of getting some, but they charge over 100 dollars for it and it's just a few 'free drinks' (didn't you just pay 100 bucks?) and an hour in a private karaoke room. Had about 4 friends do this, none got anything out of it.

As for actual Korean girl pick up tips, I'm fresh out.