Losing Virginity in Tokyo

[Kirixxx47]

Hey there, as the title suggests, I am interested in losing my virginity over in Tokyo when I visit this December. I am Chinese, so I look a lot less like a gaijin (I have been mistaken for a Japanese a few times the last time I went to Japan), but I can only barely speak the basic few sentences to get around. I am currently leaning towards going to a soapland, and would like to ask quite abit of questions in order to make my experience as smooth as possible.

I know I know, it is less recommended to lose it at a soapland than to an escort, but if I wanted it to be a more emotional event I probably would have waited to meet a girl instead of paying for it, right?

Nonetheless, I am not completely against the idea of going to an escort service or the like, so if I would like to post the reasons why I do not want to go with an escort, and hopefully you guys can provide some insight on my reasons! Thank you in advance!

1) I have no idea how to get FS from [Redacted] nor how to set up an appointment properly with a Delivery Health service such as JK-Style
2) None of the girls currently working at AM or Nasty Dolls seem particularly attractive to me according to their pictures (I care a lot more about how pretty/cute faces looks than boob/ass size (still an ass guy though))
3) I don't really have enough money to go for one of the freelancers here on this website, as I am planning to save around 100k yen and go to a soapland twice, or use JK-style or some other delivery service once and a soapland once.

Anyway, I would now like to ask some questions regarding soaplands. Sorry for the large amount of text, and hopefully I have formatted it well enough to make it less taxing to read! I really like having as much information as possible before any event to reduce anxiety and uncertainty haha

I have read through the well put together Yoshiwara Soapland thread, and are planning to go to either Dolce, Darling Harbour, or Putit Royale.

1) Is it possible to book the girls via the cityheaven website/their own websites? Google Translate + mobile makes it pretty difficult to read everything haha
2) I am really leaning towards Dolce, as I like JK (I like OL too but the ones providing that are expensive or not in Yoshiwara), so is it worth it to go there despite them allegedly being less experienced?
3) According to a thread on this forum and their website, foreigners who do not speak Japanese are allowed but require to be escorted in by someone who does. How true is this statement? I really want to go to Dolce, and if I really need someone who speaks Japanese to bring me in, are there any kind souls in this forum willing to help me out?
4) Typically, what percentage of girls are available to foreigners? I would like to temper my expectations while browsing their catalogs on the websites. It would be even better if there is a list available somewhere haha
5) How do I ask for a BBBJ, Sumata, and Mat Play when I finally get into a session? Is it possible to squeeze in some fetishes such as Megane and Armpits?
6) When should I mention that I am a virgin, and would that fact affect my choice of girls?
7) What other soaplands would you guys recommend, if the girls at Dolce, Darling Harbour, and Putit Royale available to foreigners (me) at the time of my visit are not up to my liking, looks wise?

Sorry for the huge amount of text once again, and I would like to thank those that read through it! Any amount of answers to any of the questions I posted will be greatly appreciated!

 

[Frenchy]

Hey there, as the title suggests, I am interested in losing my virginity over in Tokyo when I visit this December. I am Chinese, so I look a lot less like a gaijin (I have been mistaken for a Japanese a few times the last time I went to Japan), but I can only barely speak the basic few sentences to get around. I am currently leaning towards going to a soapland, and would like to ask quite abit of questions in order to make my experience as smooth as possible.

I know I know, it is less recommended to lose it at a soapland than to an escort, but if I wanted it to be a more emotional event I probably would have waited to meet a girl instead of paying for it, right?

Nonetheless, I am not completely against the idea of going to an escort service or the like, so if I would like to post the reasons why I do not want to go with an escort, and hopefully you guys can provide some insight on my reasons! Thank you in advance!

1) I have no idea how to get FS from [Redacted] nor how to set up an appointment properly with a Delivery Health service such as JK-Style
2) None of the girls currently working at AM or Nasty Dolls seem particularly attractive to me according to their pictures (I care a lot more about how pretty/cute faces looks than boob/ass size (still an ass guy though))
3) I don't really have enough money to go for one of the freelancers here on this website, as I am planning to save around 100k yen and go to a soapland twice, or use JK-style or some other delivery service once and a soapland once.

Anyway, I would now like to ask some questions regarding soaplands. Sorry for the large amount of text, and hopefully I have formatted it well enough to make it less taxing to read! I really like having as much information as possible before any event to reduce anxiety and uncertainty haha

I have read through the well put together Yoshiwara Soapland thread, and are planning to go to either Dolce, Darling Harbour, or Putit Royale.

1) Is it possible to book the girls via the cityheaven website/their own websites? Google Translate + mobile makes it pretty difficult to read everything haha
2) I am really leaning towards Dolce, as I like JK (I like OL too but the ones providing that are expensive or not in Yoshiwara), so is it worth it to go there despite them allegedly being less experienced?
3) According to a thread on this forum and their website, foreigners who do not speak Japanese are allowed but require to be escorted in by someone who does. How true is this statement? I really want to go to Dolce, and if I really need someone who speaks Japanese to bring me in, are there any kind souls in this forum willing to help me out?
4) Typically, what percentage of girls are available to foreigners? I would like to temper my expectations while browsing their catalogs on the websites. It would be even better if there is a list available somewhere haha
5) How do I ask for a BBBJ, Sumata, and Mat Play when I finally get into a session? Is it possible to squeeze in some fetishes such as Megane and Armpits?
6) When should I mention that I am a virgin, and would that fact affect my choice of girls?
7) What other soaplands would you guys recommend, if the girls at Dolce, Darling Harbour, and Putit Royale available to foreigners (me) at the time of my visit are not up to my liking, looks wise?

Sorry for the huge amount of text once again, and I would like to thank those that read through it! Any amount of answers to any of the questions I posted will be greatly appreciated!

Sorry to add another question , but why wanting to lose it in Tokyo?
To the normal awkwardness of such situation, you add language issues, high costs, planning hassles etc.. why not losing it in China first? Chinese ladies only want non-virgin guys?

 

[eman]

Hey there, as the title suggests, I am interested in losing my virginity over in Tokyo when I visit this December. I am Chinese, so I look a lot less like a gaijin (I have been mistaken for a Japanese a few times the last time I went to Japan), but I can only barely speak the basic few sentences to get around. I am currently leaning towards going to a soapland, and would like to ask quite abit of questions in order to make my experience as smooth as possible.

I know I know, it is less recommended to lose it at a soapland than to an escort, but if I wanted it to be a more emotional event I probably would have waited to meet a girl instead of paying for it, right?

Nonetheless, I am not completely against the idea of going to an escort service or the like, so if I would like to post the reasons why I do not want to go with an escort, and hopefully you guys can provide some insight on my reasons! Thank you in advance!

1) I have no idea how to get FS from [Redacted] nor how to set up an appointment properly with a Delivery Health service such as JK-Style
2) None of the girls currently working at AM or Nasty Dolls seem particularly attractive to me according to their pictures (I care a lot more about how pretty/cute faces looks than boob/ass size (still an ass guy though))
3) I don't really have enough money to go for one of the freelancers here on this website, as I am planning to save around 100k yen and go to a soapland twice, or use JK-style or some other delivery service once and a soapland once.

Anyway, I would now like to ask some questions regarding soaplands. Sorry for the large amount of text, and hopefully I have formatted it well enough to make it less taxing to read! I really like having as much information as possible before any event to reduce anxiety and uncertainty haha

I have read through the well put together Yoshiwara Soapland thread, and are planning to go to either Dolce, Darling Harbour, or Putit Royale.

1) Is it possible to book the girls via the cityheaven website/their own websites? Google Translate + mobile makes it pretty difficult to read everything haha
2) I am really leaning towards Dolce, as I like JK (I like OL too but the ones providing that are expensive or not in Yoshiwara), so is it worth it to go there despite them allegedly being less experienced?
3) According to a thread on this forum and their website, foreigners who do not speak Japanese are allowed but require to be escorted in by someone who does. How true is this statement? I really want to go to Dolce, and if I really need someone who speaks Japanese to bring me in, are there any kind souls in this forum willing to help me out?
4) Typically, what percentage of girls are available to foreigners? I would like to temper my expectations while browsing their catalogs on the websites. It would be even better if there is a list available somewhere haha
5) How do I ask for a BBBJ, Sumata, and Mat Play when I finally get into a session? Is it possible to squeeze in some fetishes such as Megane and Armpits?
6) When should I mention that I am a virgin, and would that fact affect my choice of girls?
7) What other soaplands would you guys recommend, if the girls at Dolce, Darling Harbour, and Putit Royale available to foreigners (me) at the time of my visit are not up to my liking, looks wise?

Sorry for the huge amount of text once again, and I would like to thank those that read through it! Any amount of answers to any of the questions I posted will be greatly appreciated!

1) They might need to call you on a phone to verify the appointment. Not sure how those particular shops work. If you can't talk on the phone then it doesn't seem worth it

2) Why does it matter if they're less experienced?

3) That is not true for Dolce, I don't think. I can't imagine so many people want to make the trip to Yoshiwara just to guide you in a shop

4) 10-20%? I dunno. Depends on the shop, day, girls' mood, etc. You'll just go have to go and take a gamble like the rest of us

5) Is this really your first time? I think you should chill and not focus on crossing off every single item off your bucket list. If you're really a virgin you'll probably finish 2 minutes into a handy so just keep it simple. That or you'll be thinking too much that you can't get in the mood have troubles staying hard

6) Why do you need to mention that? No one cares. The girl you're with will figure it out right away anyways.

 

[Kirixxx47]

Sorry to add another question , but why wanting to lose it in Tokyo?
To the normal awkwardness of such situation, you add language issues, high costs, planning hassles etc.. why not losing it in China first? Chinese ladies only want non-virgin guys?

I'm not from China so I would need to get there first. I'm not as attracted to PRC ladies too. Going to Japan is pretty expensive and not an often experience so why not lose it there

 

[Kirixxx47]

1) They might need to call you on a phone to verify the appointment. Not sure how those particular shops work. If you can't talk on the phone then it doesn't seem worth it

2) Why does it matter if they're less experienced?

3) That is not true for Dolce, I don't think. I can't imagine so many people want to make the trip to Yoshiwara just to guide you in a shop

4) 10-20%? I dunno. Depends on the shop, day, girls' mood, etc. You'll just go have to go and take a gamble like the rest of us

5) Is this really your first time? I think you should chill and not focus on crossing off every single item off your bucket list. If you're really a virgin you'll probably finish 2 minutes into a handy so just keep it simple. That or you'll be thinking too much that you can't get in the mood have troubles staying hard

6) Why do you need to mention that? No one cares. The girl you're with will figure it out right away anyways.

1) Guess I'll just walk in then
2) I've read on other similar threads where people warn OP against going to less experienced girls given that we are a virgin and would have no idea what to do. If the girl isn't as experienced the whole event as a whole might be less enjoyable, or at least I've heard, which is why I included this question. If you don't think it matters then that's great for me haha
3) Ah, was just worried as their own website mentioned it. If anyone else with first hand experience confirming that you can go in solo with no Japanese mastery then that will be great!
4) Ah I see
5) Yeap, my first time. Planning to go twice for 120 minutes each. Given that I'm young I'll hopefully have more stamina and a shorter refraction period, so I was wondering what else I can do whilst at the soapland
6) I feel that it's more polite so they'll know what to expect, and can cater their services accordingly

 

[Frenchy]

I'm not from China so I would need to get there first. I'm not as attracted to PRC ladies too. Going to Japan is pretty expensive and not an often experience so why not lose it there

Please dont tell us you’re from Thailand!

 

[RightOn6975]

I have already said it in another thread, and I will repeat it here, even though you mentioned it in your post. Go freelance escort!

Yes, the prices may seem high, but in all honesty, they are comparable to what you would spend with a high-class girl you are looking for at a soapland.

I am a huge proponent of interaction with the person you are going to be with, ESPECIALLY if it is your first time. I can not in good conscience recommend using a Soapland or an Agency for that matter, and you can communicate with the freelancer before the date set. The setting will be comfortable; she knows why you are there and will take her time and or let you take the lead somewhat. Regardless of what you think of your virginity, a males virginity is JUST as special as females. You want to remember your first time and have good memories of it as you will carry that memory to your grave.

If I had to pay for it, at least let it be a memorable one. Save your money and double up. See the escort FIRST and then go to the Soapland afterward.

 

[eman]

1) Guess I'll just walk in then
2) I've read on other similar threads where people warn OP against going to less experienced girls given that we are a virgin and would have no idea what to do. If the girl isn't as experienced the whole event as a whole might be less enjoyable, or at least I've heard, which is why I included this question. If you don't think it matters then that's great for me haha
3) Ah, was just worried as their own website mentioned it. If anyone else with first hand experience confirming that you can go in solo with no Japanese mastery then that will be great!
4) Ah I see
5) Yeap, my first time. Planning to go twice for 120 minutes each. Given that I'm young I'll hopefully have more stamina and a shorter refraction period, so I was wondering what else I can do whilst at the soapland
6) I feel that it's more polite so they'll know what to expect, and can cater their services accordingly

I wasn't sure what your budget was but since you say you're planning on going twice for 120 minutes each, it doesn't sound like you're on a tight budget. If so, then I would agree the RightOn as well. It may be in your best interest to go with an independent escort. They would be more likely to help make it a memorable experience. You don't always know what you'll get with soapland girls. You might get someone who is absolutely beautiful or to your "liking" but doesn't care about providing a good service.

 

[TheScientist]

Besides @RightOn6975 excellent advice, generally it looks like what you want out of the experience is far more than the situation of a first timer would generally entail. I dont know what your previous level of sexual experience is from none to everything but penis in vagina but your first time may be mentally/emotionally overwhelming, especially if you've never spent fun time with a real naked woman before.

If you want a really great first time experience with a Japanese woman I'd very strongly recommend booking @Manami TMK.

 

[Kirixxx47]

Please dont tell us you’re from Thailand!

Nah, am from Singapore haha

 

[Kirixxx47]

Thanks to all replies! To those that recommend I splurge on a freelancer such as Manami from TMK, I will consider it, but I still have some qualms, and hopefully I am not offending anyone...

Sorry..., but my second point regarding NastyDolls and AM applies too... And I don't think I'll enjoy my time as much if I don't feel physically attracted to the escort, even with the more personal experience offered compared to a soapland

@RightOn6975 I have given up any thoughts that losing my virginity is something special, and am merely viewing it as purely a physical event haha (which may seem hypocritical given that I want to lose it in Japan rather than in my home country, but I simply find Japanese women more attractive) Furthermore, I'm leaning towards paying for a super high end girl at a soapland as I feel like I get more choice in terms of the girl

@TheScientist true, my first time may be overwhelming, which is why I want to go twice, and get as much information on what to expect before going the first time, hence the other questions in my original post

If you guys really think the experience and service itself is much more important that the physical attributes which seem to be holding my opinions back, please recommend me more options! I am genuinely appreciating every reply

 

[Frenchy]

Thanks to all replies! To those that recommend I splurge on a freelancer such as Manami from TMK, I will consider it, but I still have some qualms, and hopefully I am not offending anyone...

Sorry..., but my second point regarding NastyDolls and AM applies too... And I don't think I'll enjoy my time as much if I don't feel physically attracted to the escort, even with the more personal experience offered compared to a soapland

@RightOn6975 I have given up any thoughts that losing my virginity is something special, and am merely viewing it as purely a physical event haha (which may seem hypocritical given that I want to lose it in Japan rather than in my home country, but I simply find Japanese women more attractive) Furthermore, I'm leaning towards paying for a super high end girl at a soapland as I feel like I get more choice in terms of the girl

@TheScientist true, my first time may be overwhelming, which is why I want to go twice, and get as much information on what to expect before going the first time, hence the other questions in my original post

If you guys really think the experience and service itself is much more important that the physical attributes which seem to be holding my opinions back, please recommend me more options! I am genuinely appreciating every reply

Yeah, pop your cherry in Singapore!

 

[TheScientist]

rue, my first time may be overwhelming, which is why I want to go twice, and get as much information on what to expect before going the first time, hence the other questions in my original post

Honestly your first few times may be overwhelming because you simply arent accustomed to the situation or experience. As others have said, going to a soapland for your first time or second time may just be a roll of the dice. Whether the woman knows how to deal with someone without experience is up in the air.

The advice you've been getting is from men who have a fair amount of experience already. As much research as you do beforehand, the real thing is not gonna be like reading. Even you think now it isnt anything special, its something fundamentally human, something you are gonna remember the rest of your life.

 

[WeebmanAU]

I'll walk you thru Yoshiwara for 5k

 

[cabbie]

Nah, am from Singapore haha

Go to the 4 floors and find a decent Vietnamese girl. You can talk to a few and pick one you like. The bar environment feels a lot more natural anyway.

 

[RightOn6975]

@RightOn6975 I have given up any thoughts that losing my virginity is something special, and am merely viewing it as purely a physical event haha (which may seem hypocritical given that I want to lose it in Japan rather than in my home country, but I simply find Japanese women more attractive) Furthermore, I'm leaning towards paying for a super high end girl at a soapland as I feel like I get more choice in terms of the girl

I understand this viewpoint I do I was like you when I was younger, but there is one thing that I do regret, and that is my first. She will forever be stuck in my head, just as any other guy here. The fact that I was sloppy seconds after what should have been only for me and myself being a nervous wreck, long story on this but still, my memories and coming out from that room will forever be ruined by a straightforward line this supposed friend of mine did earlier, "How does my dick taste?"

That is my first time. That is what I have to remember about it. Something that you will, of course, carry for the rest of your life. Again, if you are going to pay for it, use a verified escort. At least have your time gives you memories that you will not regret.

Also, you want to go to a soapland for a super high-end girl, but not spend the money, good luck. Most of the soaps including the ones for foreigners and if you are lucky to get a high-end girl will cost you the price point for 2 hours with most of the indies here.

 

[surak]

I understand this viewpoint I do I was like you when I was younger, but there is one thing that I do regret, and that is my first. She will forever be stuck in my head, just as any other guy here. The fact that I was sloppy seconds after what should have been only for me and myself being a nervous wreck, long story on this but still, my memories and coming out from that room will forever be ruined by a straightforward line this supposed friend of mine did earlier, "How does my dick taste?"

That is my first time. That is what I have to remember about it. Something that you will, of course, carry for the rest of your life. Again, if you are going to pay for it, use a verified escort. At least have your time gives you memories that you will not regret.

Also, you want to go to a soapland for a super high-end girl, but not spend the money, good luck. Most of the soaps including the ones for foreigners and if you are lucky to get a high-end girl will cost you the price point for 2 hours with most of the indies here.

Recently there is a trend among Chinese (although it's more common among the girls than the boys, and I don't know if it's applicable for OP), that some of them would like to lose virginity to, say a dildo/cucumber, or an inflatable doll and such, so that no spedific person could take the advantage of their virginity.

I know a few Chinese virgins used p4p for this reason, but normally they don't bother to travel to Japan though...

 

[Frenchy]

Recently there is a trend among Chinese (although it's more common among the girls than the boys, and I don't know if it's applicable for OP), that some of them would like to lose virginity to, say a dildo/cucumber, or an inflatable doll and such, so that no spedific person could take the advantage of their virginity.

I know a few Chinese virgins used p4p for this reason, but normally they don't bother to travel to Japan though...

Interesting. And certainly easier to arrange and less costly

 

[Rusty Trombone]

@Kirixxx47
IMO you are setting yourself up for a massive fall.

Firstly, you are overthinking it. You are building it up too much. Just go out an get it done

Secondly, While there are definitely a few really nice providers in Yoshiwara, IME many are a major disappointment. You'll leave with a "what a waste of money that was" feeling.

Thirdly, in the rare occurrence that you do have a fantastic experience, that will become the benchmark for your further adventures.

If I were you, I'd try and have your first experience with a regular girl, and move on from there. Planning months in advance is not the way to do it.

Good Luck

 

[rblood]

Glad to see a fellow Chinese on TAG.

I would suggest you to lower your expectation though. Most of the fuzoku girls in Japan do not have pretty faces. It is unlikely you will find AV stars in a soapland or a herusu shop. Even they have really good girls, they'll be fully booked, and probably don't accept gaijins.

If you decided to try Dolce, you may want to avoid Uta(うた) since you prefer good-looking girls. Uta provides excellent service but she's super chubby.

 

[Kirixxx47]

Recently there is a trend among Chinese (although it's more common among the girls than the boys, and I don't know if it's applicable for OP), that some of them would like to lose virginity to, say a dildo/cucumber, or an inflatable doll and such, so that no spedific person could take the advantage of their virginity.

I know a few Chinese virgins used p4p for this reason, but normally they don't bother to travel to Japan though...

Since I'm already going to Japan for normal touristy things and it's pretty soon, I decided why not just lose it in Japan since I like Japanese girls. I didn't specifically go out plan a trip to Japan just for this haha

 

[Kirixxx47]

Glad to see a fellow Chinese on TAG.

I would suggest you to lower your expectation though. Most of the fuzoku girls in Japan do not have pretty faces. It is unlikely you will find AV stars in a soapland or a herusu shop. Even they have really good girls, they'll be fully booked, and probably don't accept gaijins.

If you decided to try Dolce, you may want to avoid Uta(うた) since you prefer good-looking girls. Uta provides excellent service but she's super chubby.

Any recommendations from Dolce? I don't think my standards for determining if a girl looks nice or not are too high, or rather conventional. I have already found a few girls that I think look cute according to their photoshopped photos on Dolce's, Darling Harbour's, and Putit Royale's website, but am simply not sure if I can book them nor if they accept foreigners

 

[Kirixxx47]

Yeah, pop your cherry in Singapore!

Was considering it. There are currently a few freelancers (including JAV idols) advertising on another forum, but they cost around 70k¥, $800SGD, for an hour and one shot. Given that it's my first time, I'll probably come in the first 5 minutes and waste the 70k¥ so I decided against it

 

[Wwanderer]

@Kirixxx47 - Be warned! Just about every time I lose something in Tokyo, someone manages to return it to me.

-Ww

 

[rblood]

Any recommendations from Dolce? I don't think my standards for determining if a girl looks nice or not are too high, or rather conventional. I have already found a few girls that I think look cute according to their photoshopped photos on Dolce's, Darling Harbour's, and Putit Royale's website, but am simply not sure if I can book them nor if they accept foreigners

Only been to Dolce once

And the photoshoped pictures on their websites... you'll be impressed by their photoshop skills when you meet the girl. Trust me, when I first started doing this, I also found most of the pictures really appealing, but now, I simply wish the girl is slim.