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Several things here:
1. Creating fake/multiple users is not allowed on TAG. Creating users impersonating another user is especially not allowed. Creating a user that contains personal information is not only not allowed, but violates one of the fundamental principles of the hobby, which is protection of anonymity. Any of the above is, in my personal opinion, at the very least seriously uncool and can easily verge into a "you are an untrustworthy person" zone.
2. I've removed posts and removed people from the conversation as appropriate. It's likely that this sort of behavior will at the very least get your TAG posting privileges suspended if not completely banned.
3. All this being said, remember that you are posting to a public website, and that both hobbyists and providers have easy access to what is said here. I don't think I've been on an online board in my years of hobbying where providers knew exactly what people were saying about them, even when that information was supposedly restricted to hobbyists. I think openly speculating on whether a provider is a 'real woman' or transgender without having seen them, and then point blank asking them that question is a little...rude. Yes, there's providers that are transgender that attempt to pass themselves off as female, but honestly, if you care that much about it and have an open question as to whether a provider is or isn't female, it's probably just better to not engage with that provider. At the very least, asking a provider before you meet her "hey, are you REALLY a woman" isn't going to get things off on the right foot.
If you see disruptive posts, or posts that expose ANY kind of personal information, please use the 'Report' link below the post, and me or another mod will take care of it ASAP. Thanks.
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