Just want to get some guidance from any over 50's westerners living in Tokyo.
We're looking at living in Tokyo next year. My partner is from Tokyo but we met in Sydney and though we've stayed together many times at her family home, even for a couple of months at a time, we haven't moved there so as to speak.
We have a toddler now and because of Covid he's never met his grandparents in Japan, so we're planning to move over next year, assuming that things are open which we know is a big if at this stage.
But my question is really of isolation. I'm a bit concerned that even though we have a few friends there, I could end up pretty isolated as I won't be in a workplace anywhere, I'm not an English teacher or anything like that. In fact, my work is licensing through my company to the US, and that's just a matter of international phone calls and emails. So there won't be any interaction on a daily basis with any local colleagues, I won't have any.
Has anyone been down this path? Is it easy to make new friends in your 50's in Tokyo, without any work connection? The other thing is that my Japanese is not functional. I can handle basic conversation, but only elementary level.
Are there any things I need to look out for? Any advice/observations appreciated!
We're looking at living in Tokyo next year. My partner is from Tokyo but we met in Sydney and though we've stayed together many times at her family home, even for a couple of months at a time, we haven't moved there so as to speak.
We have a toddler now and because of Covid he's never met his grandparents in Japan, so we're planning to move over next year, assuming that things are open which we know is a big if at this stage.
But my question is really of isolation. I'm a bit concerned that even though we have a few friends there, I could end up pretty isolated as I won't be in a workplace anywhere, I'm not an English teacher or anything like that. In fact, my work is licensing through my company to the US, and that's just a matter of international phone calls and emails. So there won't be any interaction on a daily basis with any local colleagues, I won't have any.
Has anyone been down this path? Is it easy to make new friends in your 50's in Tokyo, without any work connection? The other thing is that my Japanese is not functional. I can handle basic conversation, but only elementary level.
Are there any things I need to look out for? Any advice/observations appreciated!