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I was watching OMGYES and they were talking about advise to make your sexual experience better , and instantaneously , the mistakes I made surfaced to my mind and I thought why not sharing them here as they may prove useful to others , and it may provide a window for others to share their 2 cents as well.
These are the things that came into my mind :
1- Putting so much pressure on myself : When I began using p4p , I burdened myself with the expectation to deliver my partner a magical time . After this , I put the pressure on myself to orgasm twice at least . and this is all wrong ... Maybe the right approach is to focus on enjoying your time without worrying about the number of times you or her cum.
2- Caring way too much about my partner : once or twice I actually cared about the pleasure of my partner more than mine to the extent I forgot am the client not the other way around . Sometimes It felt like there's something I shall win : I must make her orgasm . the more I tried , the further this goal went . Now I think if I cared a bit more about myself , and a bit less about my partner .. it would have been better for both of us eventually. .
3- Letting reviews get into my mind : You have to take reviews with a pinch of salt . Some escorts have extremely good reviews so that you would expect them to take you to paradise. Unfortunately , that would prevent them from doing so . Plus they are human , they may have a bad day , maybe you have bad chemistry ... etc
4- Expecting the escort to help me : It doesn't happen . You have to lead , you have to know what you are doing . They are not going to teach you . The sweeping majority of escorts are normal people who want to extract the maximum benefit with the lowest possible effort. If your boss told you he can give you your salary for far less work , you will take it without blinking . I'd add here that they maybe afraid of telling you constructive feedback cause that might prevent you from repeating with them . People don't take shortcomings about their sexual performance well.
5- Not turning off my phone on meeting an escort : it led to me having her as a friend recommendation on FB. as advised on TAG by a knowledgeable member : it is better if you don't even use your real name on SNS . it bit me once before when I talked to an escort on Whatsapp and found her to call me by my name.
6- Not respecting some of the members here : TAG has helped me so much mongering in Japan . On my own I am sure I would have been in far worse place getting scammed by touts , bait and switch and unreliable providers . I believe I should have been more patient and more respectable towards some people here especially Chris with whom I had some unpleasant altercations . I reached him recently for help and I found him really helpful as if nothing happens. When you get in a heated situation , maybe it's better to take a step back and leave your keyboard untouched for a while . Things will work themselves out 9 times out of 10.
These are the things that came into my mind :
1- Putting so much pressure on myself : When I began using p4p , I burdened myself with the expectation to deliver my partner a magical time . After this , I put the pressure on myself to orgasm twice at least . and this is all wrong ... Maybe the right approach is to focus on enjoying your time without worrying about the number of times you or her cum.
2- Caring way too much about my partner : once or twice I actually cared about the pleasure of my partner more than mine to the extent I forgot am the client not the other way around . Sometimes It felt like there's something I shall win : I must make her orgasm . the more I tried , the further this goal went . Now I think if I cared a bit more about myself , and a bit less about my partner .. it would have been better for both of us eventually. .
3- Letting reviews get into my mind : You have to take reviews with a pinch of salt . Some escorts have extremely good reviews so that you would expect them to take you to paradise. Unfortunately , that would prevent them from doing so . Plus they are human , they may have a bad day , maybe you have bad chemistry ... etc
4- Expecting the escort to help me : It doesn't happen . You have to lead , you have to know what you are doing . They are not going to teach you . The sweeping majority of escorts are normal people who want to extract the maximum benefit with the lowest possible effort. If your boss told you he can give you your salary for far less work , you will take it without blinking . I'd add here that they maybe afraid of telling you constructive feedback cause that might prevent you from repeating with them . People don't take shortcomings about their sexual performance well.
5- Not turning off my phone on meeting an escort : it led to me having her as a friend recommendation on FB. as advised on TAG by a knowledgeable member : it is better if you don't even use your real name on SNS . it bit me once before when I talked to an escort on Whatsapp and found her to call me by my name.
6- Not respecting some of the members here : TAG has helped me so much mongering in Japan . On my own I am sure I would have been in far worse place getting scammed by touts , bait and switch and unreliable providers . I believe I should have been more patient and more respectable towards some people here especially Chris with whom I had some unpleasant altercations . I reached him recently for help and I found him really helpful as if nothing happens. When you get in a heated situation , maybe it's better to take a step back and leave your keyboard untouched for a while . Things will work themselves out 9 times out of 10.
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