Hi guys noobs here. Firstly, i would like to say thank in advance. So the thing is, i am planning to have a sex trip to japan on december (i decided to delay my adventure, thanks to COVID the cockblocker) . So i kinda now the culture of japan. the foods ,hotels, attraction etc and stuff , but I am totally clueless to the night life. So kinda need help on finding "GAIJIN FRIENDLY" Sex entertainment establishment. I have researched this web and kinda found out that only soaplands offer vaginal intercourse due to a loophole in the law.
I am looking for the following advice (anywhere in japan , not just tokyo)
1. soaplands which accept gaijin with vaginal sex in the menu.
2. hookup spot and apps for gaijin to find young horny japanese girls looking for casual sex.
PS: what is the average cost of soaplands in japan, someone told me to avoid one with a fee less than 20,000 JPY. well i think 20,000 jpy is very cheap for this kind of entertainment, but i dont want to get ripped off because i am a gaijin.
again thanks in advance.
I'll be perfectly blunt: You are going to the wrong country if what you're after is a "sex trip." The honest truth of it is, unlike other playtime countries where you, as a foreign tourist, could have one hell of a nut-busting time (like BKK or the PI), Japan is a country where the vast majority of citizens simply don't want you (foreigner) there, and even fewer would want any sort of physical relationship with you. I'm going to assume you have very little to zero Japanese language skills, which further shrinks the pool of girls who would bother giving you any attention and severely limits your acceptance probabilities at most P4P establishments if they even accept foreigners to begin with. Simply put, the few adult establishments in Japan that will accept gaijin will do so only if you can make it abundantly clear that you speak/understand Japanese and they don't have to worry about you fucking up and not following the rules.
But to answer your questions...
1) Use the search function. Search "SOAPLAND." You will be rewarded with, literally, a week's worth of reviews to read detailing exactly where foreign men can get the soapland experience and not just in Tokyo. Again, a lot of that is going to depend on your language ability but that will be specified in most decent reviews.
2) Contrary to whatever image you've conjured of Japan, there simply are no clubs or pubs teeming with "horny young" Japanese girls just dying to fuck a white guy. Could you waltz into the average dance club and pull some ass that night? Of course, if you're either strikingly handsome and Leonardo Dicaprio's doppelganger or perhaps with a crew of young Japanese wingmen and you speak the language fluently and are extremely entertaining by their stunted standards of what is "entertaining." Otherwise, you can forget about that shit right now.
If you're just some average-looking white guy who speaks no Japanese, and I'm assuming you're still relatively young (as in under 30) then you've got two options outside of the P4P avenues.
One, you troll infamous gaijin pubs (locate any HUB or generic Irish "pub" in the city and you're good to go) and get chatty with the desperate, mid-to-late-30s life failures who flock to such bars looking for company. They will all have similar backgrounds--office ladies, have a history of failed, disastrous relationships, possibly divorced, study English after work at a nearby eikaiwa, hoping to find some random white guy willing to marry them and take them out of Japan to a country where they aren't considered world-class losers and the plus-side is most of these broads enjoy getting sloppy drunk so it'l be easy pickings. As a younger guy (mid-20s) in Japan I had a number of drunken disasters with desperate women a decade older than me and while it was somewhat traumatic at the time I'm an old man now and those memories always bring me a smile.
Two, just do the smart thing and book an appointment with an independent provider, many of whom you can find here on TAG. It'll save you hours and hours of desperate and expensive posturing at some douchebag club and you won't have to worry about whether they accept foreigners. Whatever level of knowledge you think you have of Japan, you obviously don't have very much if you're asking those questions so follow the advice of the posters here and play it safe. Believe me, if you waltz into [enter name of shitty club here] in Shinjuku, spend 5-man on drinks for some random group of giggly Japanese college bimbos and they end up either ditching or ghosting you after the novelty of using sign-language and three-word sentences with some creepy white guy wears off, the realization that you could've spent that money on three hours of really grand entertainment with a pretty indy here on TAG is not going to help you get to sleep that night at whatever capsule or hostel you're staying at.
If you're just bent on slamming an East Asian, go with a Korean. Available everywhere in every country, cheaper, less judgmental, more outgoing (slutty), nicer skin, longer limbs and less body hair. So long as you aren't trying to marry one of them (may as well jump in front of a train now if that's the case), it's always a guaranteed good time for the money.
