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Hello

Have been browsing the forum and delighted that such a community exists.
A quick introduction, I'm a Asian non Japanese guy who is visiting Tokyo soon. My interest lies in femdom and up undertand Japan had a huge SM culture.

I would like to try a session or two while I'm there. BTW these will be my first sessions in my life, have never tried before. Whips, canes, body worship and facesitting excites me

Would love to hear your recommendations? Are there any other options apart from La Siora and sweet devil.

How far is LH from La Siora meeting point? Don't want to be caught walking with a girl by my colleagues

Looking forward to interacting with you all
 
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Thank you so much.
Will look them up.

I have been looking at JFF too, though it's not complete femdom
 
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To be fair, any p4p femdom service is going to have that problem. A woman I know who works at an SM bar was telling a story about a chinese punter who came in and asked for a paddling and she was trying to figure out exactly where she should stop. It was one of those stories that was hilarious but if called to reproduce it and explain why it was funny, I couldn’t, but think of the Bill Murray scene in lost in translation with bondage gear. There was an article about the scene posted here about doms bemoaning the fact that it’s become like ordering off a menu
 
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Thank you all. This was really helpful.

One quick question

Which LH would you recommend, considering most are not foreigner friendly
 
Fatboy79 said:
Which LH would you recommend, considering most are not foreigner friendly
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Most are totally foreigner friendly. The ones that aren't are the exception, not the rule.
 
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Fatboy79 said:
Thanks everyone for all the inputs. Good to know LH are foreigner friendly
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Just on the LHs for a minute...
Maybe it’s because I have blonde hair and speak very little Japanese, but I am frequently denied entry to LHs- especially in Kabukicho.

Te Moana is now my go-to. It’s not particularly fancy, but it has signs at Reception advertising that they welcome all nationalities. And I’ve never had an issue getting in.
 
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Mischa Maxwell said:
Just on the LHs for a minute...
Maybe it’s because I have blonde hair and speak very little Japanese, but I am frequently denied entry to LHs- especially in Kabukicho.

Te Moana is now my go-to. It’s not particularly fancy, but it has signs at Reception advertising that they welcome all nationalities. And I’ve never had an issue getting in.
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I’m also blonde and i usually don’t have this issue. I don’t think i’ve ever really been denied in Shinjuku. I’ve been questioned at XO a bit but i just said i’ve been there before and know how the machines work. Te Moana is nice and reasonable indeed.
 
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Simonka said:
I'm brunette and I speak fluent Japanese and I've been denied entry as well :) No worries. But I must say most of my clients are White / Caucasian, so maybe they don't want to cater to a Caucasian couple. I prefer Pasha, it accepted me and my client. Kabukicho hotels can be discriminating against foreigners.
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I think Shibuya is worse when it comes to being denied entry... once they hear you speak English, they give you the cross sign with their hands even tho i speak almost fluent Japanese. Annoying...
 
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Fatboy79 said:
Largely soft bdsm. Lot to do with impact play, spankings and belting
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If you're into soft BDSM and on top of that you'd like the usual escort services you can book an independent escort who can cater to your needs. I'm sure some independents can tailor the experience for your specific requirements.

Btw not sure if you know this or not, but mistresses in Japan don't offer any sexual services except maybe strap on anal giving and other anal play on you. Usually it's frowned upon in their community if you ask if FS is included.
 
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Simonka said:
Hotel Sulata in Shibuya is okay with foreigners. I seat / place my client somewhere far away from the reception area and make the reservation myself. Honestly 95% of the time I visit 4-5 star hotels and I don't go to love hotels. They're a bit meh to me.
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My go to is usually white city. They are foreigner friendly but sometimes there is no room and we have to look elsewhere.... which can be quite annoying.
I don’t mind going to love hotels as long as they are clean.
 
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