So, every relationship I"ve ever been with has been with a night worker (paying or non-paying). Yes Pathetic, thanks!
Need to pick it up and before I get too old- last year of my 20s - stop paying for it, and try to actually have a real relationship.
Picking up people on the street is not something I"m fond of doing.
I"m confident in my looks, my talking skills, unless I"m comfortable and in control of the conversation, are garbage. my understanding of Japanese is fluent, I still speak like I'm a retarded elementary schooler with an incredibly large vocab though.
Question is where to start?
Read books on conversation techniques?
Some ideas:
1. Find a Japanese young male friend to go to the single bars (相席) together? The question would be where to find this young JP male friend.
2. Tinder worked for me 2-3 years ago to meet people in real life, I wasn't looking for a relationship at that time though. Lately, I hardly match and when I do conversations go nowhere, think the population 2-3 years ago was looking more for foreigners and it has hit the general population now.
3. Workplace -> not possible, every female is directly or indirectly my subordinate, the last thing I want to be hit with is sexual harassment claims.
That's about all I got.
Random other question.
1. Does black humor ironic Self-depreciation work in Japan? The people that I"m amazed at how they have got relationships are big-headed egos that talk about how great they are... wondering if I should try it out....
Need to pick it up and before I get too old- last year of my 20s - stop paying for it, and try to actually have a real relationship.
Picking up people on the street is not something I"m fond of doing.
I"m confident in my looks, my talking skills, unless I"m comfortable and in control of the conversation, are garbage. my understanding of Japanese is fluent, I still speak like I'm a retarded elementary schooler with an incredibly large vocab though.
Question is where to start?
Read books on conversation techniques?
Some ideas:
1. Find a Japanese young male friend to go to the single bars (相席) together? The question would be where to find this young JP male friend.
2. Tinder worked for me 2-3 years ago to meet people in real life, I wasn't looking for a relationship at that time though. Lately, I hardly match and when I do conversations go nowhere, think the population 2-3 years ago was looking more for foreigners and it has hit the general population now.
3. Workplace -> not possible, every female is directly or indirectly my subordinate, the last thing I want to be hit with is sexual harassment claims.
That's about all I got.
Random other question.
1. Does black humor ironic Self-depreciation work in Japan? The people that I"m amazed at how they have got relationships are big-headed egos that talk about how great they are... wondering if I should try it out....