Not only psy, but where and how long you enjoy female's body, when having sex?

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It's disappoionting, when a guy you have sex with, only penetrate pussy(psy) with his finger for a certain while, lick my tits then tries to get his dick in the puss. I'm not wet enough! (This happened most with my Japanese lovers in the past...) I love getting my body caressed, fully attentioned to enjoy my body visually, as well, esp. around my pleasure spot, then I become more open for more possible play. I noticed, I shouldn't be embarrassed to spk out what you want, even it's a fetish kind of.

Where do you enjoy playing in a female body, how long do you take for foreplay, before you set your dick into her psy? How'd the cum intensity result would be?

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You think about the topic, maybe you'd ended up masterbate stroking your Mr.D. Why not. Enjoy!
 
I spend most of my time teasing a woman's body. I like to lick and kiss all over. Licking the back of the neck and down the back seems to drive women crazy. I lick to tease the pussy with a few quick licks just to shock her senses. I kiss the butt all over and I lick around the butthole. I work my way down the legs and suck on her toes. I enjoy seeing a woman squirm in pleasure. Imagine having a tongue in your ass, a finger in your pussy, and a hand caressing your breast all at once. That is so much pleasure running through your body at one time. :cool:
 
I totally understand your disappointment and it's one of the most claim I heard from women. Even if I am very excited I love the foreplay, to take my time, to explore each cm of the body, playing in long long touch with my finger, kissing and rubbing around where my partner is the most sensitive like neck, ears and more....making her excited and cumming first, it's the best way to turn me on and hard.
Even by starting penetration, I can suddenly switch again to tease again with long lick everywhere...again, it's also question of chemistry!
Time to sleep now...
 
While I won't-can't brag that I am an expert I love driving a woman crazy anticipating penetration. Use every part of me - lips, tongue, fingers, cock - on every part of her before going in. I love exploring how she reacts to different stimuli. It isn't unusual for me to take her to orgasm before penetration.
 
How long with the foreplay before penetration you ask? Do we count the naps too in that number?
 
Imagine having a tongue in your ass, a finger in your pussy, and a hand caressing your breast all at once. That is so much pleasure running through your body at one time. :cool:

Yes, 3 spots at the same time can accelorate women's receiving pleasure. I love other hole, too. It's just amazing. What abt for women? How you get high, how she responses?

I totally understand your disappointment and it's one of the most claim I heard from women.
Even by starting penetration, I can suddenly switch again to tease again with long lick everywhere...again, it's also question of chemistry!
Time to sleep now...

Thank you for understanding! I think that could be one of the reasons wives stop wanting sex from husband, is that too mandatory, or not sweet enough...I would not want to continue, if my partner was only after "pit in" only kind of sex, which I experienced many times with Japanese men, as mentioned. But, it certainly makes huge difference with varaety of long lick, kissing all over pleasure. I glad I don't have much issue today, but sometimes reminds me when I sense the "shortcut" Chemistry....sex appetite...


While I won't-can't brag that I am an expert I love driving a woman crazy anticipating penetration. Use every part of me - lips, tongue, fingers, cock - on every part of her before going in. I love exploring how she reacts to different stimuli. It isn't unusual for me to take her to orgasm before penetration.


Sounds fantastic! Please don't change. (^∇^)

I cum really fast in penertrative sex so i make sure to give my partner an orgasm before 'going in'. That way its not a complete waste of time for them :)

Such an attentive, caring way of nice foreplay. Please don't change! (^∇^)

How long with the foreplay before penetration you ask? Do we count the naps too in that number?

Plz count from you took her to bed to play, both of you're switched on for sex and towards pop 1.Why naps came up?
 
Plz count from you took her to bed to play, both of you're switched on for sex and towards pop 1.Why naps came up?

Of course because naps are better than sex! Or at least so C.K.Louis thinks.

But how long before the penetration depends also on the girl, not only me. Because when a lady yells you to "stick it in goddammit" you better believe she is serious and not play anymore.

Last week my first date it was just a bit over two hours playtime in bed before sticking it in. I know because they called us and told we are going overtime, so we extended. The second date, with another friend, was probably the longest this far as it was at the four and half hour mark when she told me "you suck so much" and asked for something else :cool:
 
Of course because naps are better than sex! Or at least so C.K.Louis thinks.

But how long before the penetration depends also on the girl, not only me. Because when a lady yells you to "stick it in goddammit" you better believe she is serious and not play anymore.

Last week my first date it was just a bit over two hours playtime in bed before sticking it in. I know because they called us and told we are going overtime, so we extended. The second date, with another friend, was probably the longest this far as it was at the four and half hour mark when she told me "you suck so much" and asked for something else :cool:

You sucked for four hour and half and she only said so after such a long time? Wow! Some people are very patient and kind-hearted :ROFLMAO:
 
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I always felt there were a few basic rules when with a woman.
-Ladies first.
-The build up is important. The experience of being in the moment, being attentive, being present, finding out what she likes and dislikes, finding out what you enjoy and appreciate about each other.
-Sometimes the journey can be just as enjoyable or even more enjoyable than reaching the goal. (This depends on what the goal is.)
It is understandable that sometimes men just want to nut. And sometimes a quickie is what the goal is.
What ever the situation may be, it should be pleasurable for all parties involved.
etc...

But, to answer your question: Where do you enjoy playing in a female body, how long do you take for foreplay, before you set your dick into her psy? How'd the cum intensity result would be?
Where? Wherever she likes it.
How long for foreplay? As long as it takes for her to be ready/can't wait. (But, this also depends on how much time you have. If you have to get the last train, you're on the clock.).
How intense was the big O? It's always intense. But some of the most memorable experiences weren't times when the goal was for me to cum.
 
Of course because naps are better than sex! Or at least so C.K.Louis thinks.

But how long before the penetration depends also on the girl, not only me. Because when a lady yells you to "stick it in goddammit" you better believe she is serious and not play anymore.

Last week my first date it was just a bit over two hours playtime in bed before sticking it in. I know because they called us and told we are going overtime, so we extended. The second date, with another friend, was probably the longest this far as it was at the four and half hour mark when she told me "you suck so much" and asked for something else :cool:

I understand why she went "stick it in goddammit" lol. To me, when it's too long, it kills "fun spirit" and just fatigues and want to stop the play. I think it can be less than half an hour, should be good fun, IMO.
 
I think that could be one of the reasons wives stop wanting sex from husband,?
If only it were that simple. I have been through "the end of marital sex" twice and I believe they do it because they can. It is pretty much impossible for most men to just stop having sex but most women seem to be able to forget it for a long time. In my first marriage I took the blame - only to find out later that it was not my problem but hers.

Sounds fantastic! Please don't change. (^∇^)
This is the one thing about P4P that I find unsatisfying. I would like to spend hours just enjoying a woman's body like playing a fine violin. Finding where she is tuned, hitting long notes and harmonious chords, working up to a crescendo. I can usually get a SW to enjoy it on some level but the time constraints, among other things, are a problem.
 
I always felt there were a few basic rules when with a woman.
-Ladies first.
-The build up is important. The experience of being in the moment, being attentive, being present, finding out what she likes and dislikes, finding out what you enjoy and appreciate about each other.
-Sometimes the journey can be just as enjoyable or even more enjoyable than reaching the goal. (This depends on what the goal is.)
It is understandable that sometimes men just want to nut. And sometimes a quickie is what the goal is.
What ever the situation may be, it should be pleasurable for all parties involved.
etc...

But, to answer your question: Where do you enjoy playing in a female body, how long do you take for foreplay, before you set your dick into her psy? How'd the cum intensity result would be?
Where? Wherever she likes it.
How long for foreplay? As long as it takes for her to be ready/can't wait. (But, this also depends on how much time you have. If you have to get the last train, you're on the clock.).
How intense was the big O? It's always intense. But some of the most memorable experiences weren't times when the goal was for me to cum.

You sound great! Many ladies would dream of you!
Yes, just a quicky is also good, when not much time, that's understandable. Sometimes tripping back to good old memories, maybe amuse in a way... thanks for sharing!

If only it were that simple. I have been through "the end of marital sex" twice and I believe they do it because they can. It is pretty much impossible for most men to just stop having sex but most women seem to be able to forget it for a long time. In my first marriage I took the blame - only to find out later that it was not my problem but hers.


This is the one thing about P4P that I find unsatisfying. I would like to spend hours just enjoying a woman's body like playing a fine violin. Finding where she is tuned, hitting long notes and harmonious chords, working up to a crescendo. I can usually get a SW to enjoy it on some level but the time constraints, among other things, are a problem.

I guess, that's how physically made... but there is the way to survive...but to make a great piece of work, might not be easy, then.

Hey Yuriko, it seems you can add a few names to your potential male escorts list ;)

Now, I understand why you mentioned. I'm very selective, and maybe you know so. (о´∀`о)
 
Some people are very patient and kind-hearted :ROFLMAO:

You know if some young girl willingly goes to bed with me it already immediately means she is kind-hearted, generous and happy to provide social services to the point of self-sacrifice.
 
To me, when it's too long, it kills "fun spirit" and just fatigues and want to stop the play.

She was fatigued all right, but there was no lack of fun spirit. I counted four but she claimed later it was six times. :cool:
 
Didn't realize we had so many exquisite lovers around here. :ROFLMAO:

I guess I'm rather unromantic by comparison, lol. I tend to kiss and lick a woman all over her body, particular attention given to the neck, ears and nipples. Usually that's while fingering (DATY on ocassion) and offering some light dirty talk. A basic approach, no doubt, but it's effective and usually results in a nice orgasm that paves the way for penetration. Maybe all that foreplay lasts about 15 minutes or so, never kept track.

The other thing I like to do is tease by just inserting the tip and slowly inserting with less than half the length, taking it out repeatedly. That seems to drive the woman crazy (in a good way) and only after she's soaking wet and begging for the whole thing do I let her have it.
 
Can't figure out if she was complimenting you or complaining.:jawdrop:

Either way, I'm green with envy!:ROFLMAO:

My advice is that if you are not sure then always take it as a compliment. ;) For some reason she switched languages every time at her point of no return which was really confusing and even more when she actually didn't speak much English at all. :LOL:

And yeah, you should be envious. I would have gladly spend the entire night savouring her body and keep my pants on, she was something special.
 
Didn't realize we had so many exquisite lovers around here. :ROFLMAO:

I mean did you expect something less from a forum where the main body of members constitutes of people whose main hobby is sex? :p

And for those to whom it is not a main hobby it is more like a life style. :ROFLMAO:

They say it takes 10.000 hours to master something. I'd say many of us are at least close to the number already. :eek:
 
I mean did you expect something less from a forum where the main body of members constitutes of people whose main hobby is sex? :p

And for those to whom it is not a main hobby it is more like a life style. :ROFLMAO:

They say it takes 10.000 hours to master something. I'd say many of us are at least close to the number already. :eek:

Yes. I guess We all "sucked" (figuratively if not litterally) at the beginning , conpared to the Great Masters of the Sacred Art we certainly all became :D
 
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She was fatigued all right, but there was no lack of fun spirit. I counted four but she claimed later it was six times. :cool:

It's just the forum, you don't need to exceed. take it easy, man!!

You seem to enjoy this idea.

Yes! (о´∀`о)

Didn't realize we had so many exquisite lovers around here. :ROFLMAO:

I guess I'm rather unromantic by comparison, lol. I tend to kiss and lick a woman all over her body, particular attention given to the neck, ears and nipples. Usually that's while fingering (DATY on ocassion) and offering some light dirty talk. A basic approach, no doubt, but it's effective and usually results in a nice orgasm that paves the way for penetration. Maybe all that foreplay lasts about 15 minutes or so, never kept track.

The other thing I like to do is tease by just inserting the tip and slowly inserting with less than half the length, taking it out repeatedly. That seems to drive the woman crazy (in a good way) and only after she's soaking wet and begging for the whole thing do I let her have it.

Haha, sounds exciting to read the process! Thanks for sharing. I should remember that, tip part only slowly for awhile, as my man goes straight in,,,a thick 6 inch's...oops, tmi maybe...

Yes. I guess We all "sucked" (figuratively if not litterally) at the beginning , conpared to the Great Masters of the Sacred Art we certainly all became :D

It's interesting to find the difference of young days and today's adult life achievement!
 
Just being honest and open here... it takes two to tango. As for me, foreplay is vey important. I feel very confident with my performance. But if the reaction isn't there, then I am either underperforming or we are not seeking the same thing. I like to please a woman more than I want to be pleased. If I can get a woman to feel good, then that is just as satisfying for me too. I think I am more for "how she feels." And if I can get off too, it's a bonus!