Online Date Club!

Jennifer Maddingly

Jennifer Maddingly

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So I'm gonna set up a date club. I'm just trying to get an idea of what guys would look for in girls? They would be mainly japanese of course. I just want some ideas and tips. What do you the people want???
 
How good is your connection ?
Maybe jo-si-ko-sei ?
Just kidding...., but jo-si-dai-sei would be an easy sell I think.
 
Jennifer, do you mean something like Universe Club? They have a pretty good system, I'd sign up except they require your real identity and store who knows what. I'd love an equivalent that allows anonymity! Profile should include accurate language abilities and their financial expectations.
 
Universe Club isn't really a date club. It's closer to an escort service.

But understand your point on anonymity. I think they looked at info in case the guy was a psycho or rapist or the woman a thief or con-artist.
 
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Thanks for the reply Solong, what is a date club exactly then?
 
Wouldn't agree that UC was so close to an escort service. While the end goal maybe the same the meetings were in a date setting often with dinner or movies as part of the 'experience'. Plus direct contact after the initial setup, often just with casual LINE or email chats between 'dates'.

Anyway, good luck to Jennifer with the endeavor.

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Accurate descriptions/profile and accurate pictures :) Ive hated date sites because the information is usually untrustworthy and written by that person. Would be nice having information from even an unbiased third-party. Some information on their interests would be good, and depending on what you mean by 'date', it would be good to know what that girl is looking for or how far she will treat this as a 'date'. I have had an interest in UC and I think their system is good, but still arguing with myself on whether its feasible

Also, you could always add a blind date option with the guy posting his preferences, or even a way to organize a mixer for groups

Now if you were asking for personal girl preferences: being young myself I prefer girls below 26 :), cute smile, slender, straight hair, similar interests!
 
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I imagine that you'll need some sort of age verification system to keep onside with the Japanese authorities

What a lot of sites do is get people to send in a photo of their driver's lisc. They only require the DOB, the bit that says Drivers Lisc. and the issuing authority. You redact the rest so they don't see your personal details (Apart from the DOB).

Seems very easy to fake, but like so many things in Japan it's the impression, not the substance that counts.

Also if you can find a way to keep out the DH operators who scam (bait and switch) punters you are gold.
 
I have solid contacts and so many girls I can't count. All I need is a web designer really. You can email me what you're looking for in the mean time and I can put together a list of the girls I have around that age. At this point their profiles include their age, height, language ability, expectations, body type and photos I plan to take myself.

Once you decide who you want to meet you pay 20,000 and are given their contact info and from there you can decide along with the girl what you would like.

It's a date club - not an escort service - don't need age verification. :)
 
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This actually sounds like a fascinating offer that I might have to take you up on. The question is how many of these girls are out there for money-for-entertainment exchange, and how many are there that are plain interested in the relationship side of things?
 
Oh Jennifer it was you, lol. I found your ad on CL and emailed you. Still waiting for my profile to be put together xD By the way, would like to change some things if possible.
 
Hi Jennifer,

I don't mean to be a dick but you prob need to talk to a 行政書士 (gyoseishoshi)or a 司法書士(shihoshoshi).
I checked a couple of online date sites (deai sites) and they all have インターネット異性紹介事業 届出 認定済at the bottom of each page, so obviously there is some sort of regulating in the online dating industry.

You could of course not bother, which is like the guys running taxis with white number plates, but if you get caught you could be at the mercy of the Japanese legal system.

Like I say, I really don't want to be a dick, and would love this to work as I'd sign up for sure.
 
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Accurate descriptions/profile and accurate pictures :) Ive hated date sites because the information is usually untrustworthy and written by that person. Would be nice having information from even an unbiased third-party. Some information on their interests would be good, and depending on what you mean by 'date', it would be good to know what that girl is looking for or how far she will treat this as a 'date'. I have had an interest in UC and I think their system is good, but still arguing with myself on whether its feasible

Also, you could always add a blind date option with the guy posting his preferences, or even a way to organize a mixer for groups

Now if you were asking for personal girl preferences: being young myself I prefer girls below 26 :), cute smile, slender, straight hair, similar interests!
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The danger of 3rd party rankings, is it becomes a popularity contest. Like 90% of the women unrealistically swooning over 10% of the guys, who in turn abuse the hell out of the situation. Then the women trying to date over their head (5s trying to bag 9s and 10s), complaining how "terrible" men are. A person should be smart enough to decide by themselves.

Rankings can also get vicious, vengeful, racist, or self serving. And, you can't really stop people from lying or misrepresenting themselves.
 
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Thanks for the reply Solong, what is a date club exactly then?
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Dating is normal people putting up profiles that are not out for financial gain or money, but true romantic relationships and possibly marriage.

A date site or club has people pay the website or for membership, not the woman and there isn't an expectation of an exchange of money for sex. The expectation that sex for money will happen is the key difference.

There is nothing wrong with sugar-babies or escorting, if it represents itself honestly.

A bit towards the middle is more like date/deai cafes or UC, but it's more like an unstated understanding. The guy is expected to pay and pay for any arrangements, and the woman is expected to reciprocate sexually. Doesn't mean it always works out that way, but usually does. It's towards the middle, as no guarantee, despite the guy paid money (sometimes lots) which can understandably create disappointed.
 
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I didn't say anything about ranking. I was stating that I wanted accuracy in profile descriptions and pictures - a verifier if you will. So if a girl said she was 21, then I want her to be really 21. Is her photo actually her photo? I'd like that to be reviewed before it gets stuck to that person's profile. Jennifer already said she was gonna take the photos herself, which is something that I find is a plus towards looking for a date club.
 
Basically you will be paying to be able to contact the girl at all. Anything that you two decide is outside the system. The site won't be japanese site.

I have a scout getting all the girls together now and a site being build. Patience is appreciated ^^

There is a few sites similar to this actually but I don't think anyone uses them anymore
 
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Jennifer said:
Basically you will be paying to be able to contact the girl at all. Anything that you two decide is outside the system. The site won't be japanese site.

I have a scout getting all the girls together now and a site being build. Patience is appreciated ^^

There is a few sites similar to this actually but I don't think anyone uses them anymore
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And why don't you think anyone uses some of the sites you mentioned and your plan will work? What will the difference be to make this successful in comparison? What other sites are you talking about?
 
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Jennifer, if we're really paying just for contact you'll need to offer some sort of guaranteed refund if the girl won't meet. Heck you ought to go further, "money back if she's not fun". I'd go for that, much better return than random nampa!
 
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Jennifer said:
What do you the people want???
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Someone already mentioned over 50's. That would be a minority. TAG members seem to prefer gals on the 20's. Can't speak for the new half brigade though....
 
23-32 y/o, BMI of 20-23, smooth skin (no rashes/boils), 155-165cm height, fresh breath with none of that filthy white stuff on the tongue, well-trimmed or shaven down south, no problem with going out with a married man.... I'm easy ;)
 
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Jennifer, if we're really paying just for contact you'll need to offer some sort of guaranteed refund if the girl won't meet. Heck you ought to go further, "money back if she's not fun". I'd go for that, much better return than random nampa!
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Most kousai places won't charge you or return the charge if the date doesn't happen, but they don't if the girl isn't fun. From what I've heard, if that happens too much the girl is...less likely to be recommended.
 
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