Pre-p4p (physical Mostly) Preparation

[R.O.B]

Seeing as P4P is my only avenue to physical intimacy (volunteers welcome - female) I also take it as a chance to 'impress'. I guess I expect my time-limit bundle of joy to be/look her 'best' so I do, too. Always wondered what others do, or in the case of escorts, expect/appreciate.

 

[split]

Meticulously shave and oil-up my gouch, pluck some nose hairs, a full body sanitization using ethanol to rid of the old man smell, push out those white bacterial nodules from the caverns in the crevasses of my mouth which create trash breath, and a deep anal bleaching. Have I forgotten anything?

 

[scorpioni6ths]

Your pubes should be always groomed (meeting a date or not). I mostly meet my dates weekdays after I get out of the office, so I am mostly "come as you are".

I made some booboos on my 1st and 2nd dates. (I hope my dates have forgiven me!) Make sure you're ready to kiss at any moment, that means you've brushed your teeth before arriving and maybe chewing some mints or drinking water (dry lips or dry mouth is bad). When you are in the privacy of your room, whatever your date does you should do too. If she brushes her teeth, brush yours too even if you already brushed your teeth an hour before the meeting. Don't brush too hard, bleeding gums are bad with respect to infections. If she uses the mouthwash, you should gargle too. In the shower you should clean your nether regions, if your date doesn't do it for you (very very very rare).


One thing I specifically did before my first ever date was to get tested for any STIs even though I knew I was clean (I still had my V-card that time), but I needed to be certain. If I did p4p, I wanted me and my date to be as risk-free as possible. I trust my date to be clean, since she does p4p as a business.


EDIT: Groom your fingernails! File off rough edges.

 

[User#8628]

I apprechiate pubic hair being cut so i don't get it all in my mouth, lol.
Also be careful for stubble, any hair, painful hairs around your mouth and around your genitals.
As for clothes, well, they come off anyway, haha. But i like suits/formal style rather than casual.

Of course this is all not very important. Showers before play are common so the basic grooming is done there.
But if i could choose one thing guys should take care off: watch out for sandpaper stubbles.

 

[R.O.B]

fingernails!

Yes - forgot that one. Trinned and filed. And toenails in case I luck out and get a lovely who wants to go absolutely everywhere!
Mouth care, too. Brushing reasonably close to arrival so as not to taste like a Colgate ad, and also some nice lip-balm from a while before. Ready to pucker up on demand. Am I being too anal??? YES! YES!

 

[User#8628]

Yes - forgot that one. Trinned and filed. And toenails in case I luck out and get a lovely who wants to go absolutely everywhere!
Mouth care, too. Brushing reasonably close to arrival so as not to taste like a Colgate ad, and also some nice lip-balm from a while before. Ready to pucker up on demand. Am I being too anal??? YES! YES!

Oh yes, i forgot about finger nails as well!
I actually cut my bed partner's leg with my (sharp) toenail once.
He was even bleeding a little. Weird bedroom accident... (It was non p4p and didn't happen again.)

 

[Sinapse]

I've never done p4p but my pre-date preparation has gone from meticulous to non-existent over the years..

Surprising that women don't run off at my messy place but it's literally never been an issue

Maybe it's just me but if she likes you she likes you

That said, taking regular showers and trimming the pubes and nails is important.. And yeah taking care to dull the nail edges after you clip them is big

 

[Wwanderer]

I often run my hands through my beard and the hair on the side and back of my head (bald on top) to smooth down unruly hairs sticking out in odd directions. Sometimes I also brush stray bits of food or whatever off of my shirt and pants. This whole preparatory routine can easily take several seconds to complete.

-Ww

 

[Kegger]

But i like suits/formal style rather than casual.

Oh No.... My chances with @User#8628 have done a nose dive.

Suits suck, and if you have to wear a suit to work I pity you. When I was first here I though a suit was a sign that you'd made it, now I look at it as someone who is stuck in an office all day.

Back on topic...
I think the fingernails is the big one, and I keep a nail clipper in the car in case of spare few hours here and there. Shaving is a big one 2, as I only shave once a week or so.
Apart from that I can't do much else

 

[Sudsy]

Groom your fingernails! File off rough edges.

Some pink salons will actually inspect your nails (and pull out clippers and a nail file if they're too long/jagged!). It's amazing how many guys don't even consider that a lady might not want a set of talons near her sensitive bits....

 

[R.O.B]

The stuff UNDER longish nails is not something you'd want inserted into you, either - an old girlfriend was paranoid about that. Scrub, trim, buff.

 

[User#8628]

Oh No.... My chances with @User#8628 have done a nose dive.

Suits suck, and if you have to wear a suit to work I pity you. When I was first here I though a suit was a sign that you'd made it, now I look at it as someone who is stuck in an office all day.

Back on topic...
I think the fingernails is the big one, and I keep a nail clipper in the car in case of spare few hours here and there. Shaving is a big one 2, as I only shave once a week or so.
Apart from that I can't do much else

Yup, in my homecountry suits where only for important business people.
Here they are more common.

They are certainly a pleasure to my eyes.
Seems like they would easily be too hot in summer and even in japanese spring and fall.

I personally like wearing dresses with business jackets if the weather is not too warm and not too cold, and i own some eroi looking kyaba suits (skirt + jacket) because i got them for cheap and i like them. But i've never worn an office lady business suit.

 

[scorpioni6ths]

Seems like they would easily be too hot in summer and even in japanese spring and fall.

For summer there are some pretty thin materials used. Suits with no lining. Don't know how well they work though.

 

[Wwanderer]

I assume it is still good citizenship to go with CoolBiz dress in Tokyo, right?

-Ww

 

[scorpioni6ths]

I assume it is still good citizenship to go with CoolBiz dress in Tokyo, right?

-Ww

AFAIK, Coolbiz and Warmbiz is still the IN thing. We're still being reminded of 'em in the office.