Questions About Escorting Services

[User#10057]

So, quick disclaimer, I'm very inexperienced when it comes to women, so please bear with me here with my questions.

So I've read through the standard practices of meeting women and every site I've been to has the same instructions for meeting them, I don't really plan on using regular hotels since love hotels are cheaper, but would it be possible to meet with a woman at the station and find a love hotel together as opposed to having one in advanced?
I figure this is something I'd have to ask them directly, but I'm curious if anyone here has an answer to this.

I'd also like to hear people's opinions on escorts. In addition to what I've disclaimed up above, I used to suffer pretty heavily from anxiety, it's not so bad now, but I'd like to meet someone who's fairly easy to relax around and is able to be willing teach me things.
I was looking around a few independent services (Anna Summer and Hana) as well as ND, which are at the perfect price range for me.
Anyone willing to give me a recommendation? I'm really interested in Tae from ND since I've read some fantastic reviews about her awhile ago, except nowadays everyone says she's almost impossible to schedule with.

 

[Sudsy]

I'd like to meet someone who's fairly easy to relax around and is able to be willing teach me things.

You should maybe book a session with Manami from Tokyo Melty Kiss. She's very, very easy to relax around, and I bet she could teach you plenty.

 

[DJV]

Hello,
Asking an escort about a Love Hotel is common practice, as long as she knows the neighborhood or has make some preliminary research. Bottom line, just say it before and this will ease everything (also lower your anxiety).
Going for an occidental escort is a very good idea, so they will adjust to your expectations. You might not aim for too many things too specific for a first time, just ask for one special thing if you want, and then enjoy

 

[User#16452]

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[User#10057]

Thanks for the recommendation and and advice everyone!

I would recommend discussing with the escort what you expect from the meeting. Often gentlemen with little or no experience expect more than an escort can offer in the allotted time or without prior warning.

This is definitely something I plan on doing, I want to be as realistic as possible with the time I'm given, but I want to know what's acceptable and what isn't so I know open communication is key here. Admittedly reasoning goes out the door with me when I get really nervous.

 

[Wwanderer]

Here's a radical suggestion...basically an idea/option to consider: Before booking a conventional date with your chosen escort (i.e., a fully sexual one), first have one or a few "social dates" in order to get to know her, feel (more) comfortable around her, give yourself a bit more experience with women, and thus help yourself get past the fairly serious sounding anxiety and nervousness you mention in the OP and just above. Probably the "social date(s)" should involve some limited physical intimacy - affectionate touching, hugging, kissing or whatever - but not getting undressed, getting off etc, maybe not even any private time or not much.

The scenario you do NOT want is one in which your first escort date goes badly because you are too anxious/nervous to perform or to enjoy yourself. If that happened it would make subsequent escort date even more stressful and anxiety-inducing I'd think.

Obviously this would involve spending significantly more money for your first full experience, but it might well be worth it if you can afford it. Nearly all escorts offer social dates, many (including Manami I believe) at substantially discounted rates. As @User#16452 wisely suggests, it would be a very good idea to discuss your situation and what you seek in a date with the escort in advance, and that would include giving her a clear idea of your intentions to progress to a fully sexual date if you chose to go with this sort of option.

-Ww

 

[Randy Jinx]

I want to be as realistic as possible with the time I'm given,

And how much time are you given? Some of us have plenty of time left, others less (Ww!?)

If it's a matter of being in Japan for a short time, sure there are plenty of options, good options, mentioned above. But If you will be here for the long term, there is no time like now to just go out and chat with girls. If it fails, you learn something. If you succeed, you have a good experience to build on.

Having sex with the girl isn't the end-all-be-all. Sharing good experiences and building relationships is the most rewarding, right?

 

[Wwanderer]

And how much time are you given? Some of us have plenty of time left, others less (Ww!?)

Just mean! But I like it!

Having sex with the girl isn't the end-all-be-all. Sharing good experiences and building relationships is the most rewarding, right?

Precisely so. And that sharing and building is the high road to sex as well.

-Ww

 

[User#10057]

Here's a radical suggestion...basically an idea/option to consider: Before booking a conventional date with your chosen escort (i.e., a fully sexual one), first have one or a few "social dates" in order to get to know her, feel (more) comfortable around her, give yourself a bit more experience with women, and thus help yourself get past the fairly serious sounding anxiety and nervousness you mention in the OP and just above. Probably the "social date(s)" should involve some limited physical intimacy - affectionate touching, hugging, kissing or whatever - but not getting undressed, getting off etc, maybe not even any private time or not much.

The scenario you do NOT want is one in which your first escort date goes badly because you are too anxious/nervous to perform or to enjoy yourself. If that happened it would make subsequent escort date even more stressful and anxiety-inducing I'd think.

Obviously this would involve spending significantly more money for your first full experience, but it might well be worth it if you can afford it. Nearly all escorts offer social dates, many (including Manami I believe) at substantially discounted rates. As @User#16452 wisely suggests, it would be a very good idea to discuss your situation and what you seek in a date with the escort in advance, and that would include giving her a clear idea of your intentions to progress to a fully sexual date if you chose to go with this sort of option.

-Ww

This is actually a great idea, thanks! Suppose it would be best to not jump straight into the fire.

And how much time are you given? Some of us have plenty of time left, others less (Ww!?)

If it's a matter of being in Japan for a short time, sure there are plenty of options, good options, mentioned above. But If you will be here for the long term, there is no time like now to just go out and chat with girls. If it fails, you learn something. If you succeed, you have a good experience to build on.

Having sex with the girl isn't the end-all-be-all. Sharing good experiences and building relationships is the most rewarding, right?

Sorry, what I meant by time is the escorts' rates/time/service length/etc. I actually live in Japan so I'm good. Right now I'd just like to enjoy myself as much as possible.

 

[DocMcStuffins]

Or you could go the normal route and do an escalation ladder -

Date 1 - hand job
Date 2 - blow job
Date 3 - vaginal sex

I'm skipping a lot of course. For example, I couldn't figure out where to put bbbj CIM.

 

[Wwanderer]

Or you could go the normal route and do an escalation ladder -

Date 1 - hand job
Date 2 - blow job
Date 3 - vaginal sex

I'm skipping a lot of course. For example, I couldn't figure out where to put bbbj CIM.

Or maybe add a "Date 0" with just kissing, hugging, holding hands, cuddling etc.

-Ww